My mother always advices me....."You need not earn 5 or 6 digit salary. But you should earn at least a small amount so that you need not depend on your husband for your small needs. He may give you everything, yet you should do your part".
Looking after the kids and family, cooking food and keeping home clean and tidy is also an effort. Yet, only a few people notice her work. Isn't it???
Also, I think, if she earns a living, she gets a little more respect from Sasural and also the society. What's your opinion??????
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Yes they should i told this to my wife also but she remains so much busy with the kids and household work that at present scenerio she can't think of anything else. :blink:
Bringing 2 small kids together is not at all a small task :evil: :evil:
I know it that's why i never compell her to do it.Its always her wish if she wants to do it then its OK otherwise also its OK. :)
Yes this should be her choice, you are the one who is responsible to provide her pocket money.
Yes its prime responsibilty of a man to provide money to his wife.Circumstances may change if wife is working and husband is looking after household works. :laugh:
Yes they should i told this to my wife also but she remains so much busy with the kids and household work that at present scenerio she can't think of anything else. :blink:
Bringing 2 small kids together is not at all a small task :evil: :evil:
I know it that's why i never compell her to do it.Its always her wish if she wants to do it then its OK otherwise also its OK. :)
Yes this should be her choice, you are the one who is responsible to provide her pocket money.
Yes its prime responsibilty of a man to provide money to his wife.Circumstances may change if wife is working and husband is looking after household works. :laugh:
In Kottayam district of Kerala, many Christian boys are in search of a BSc Nursing wife, who works in Gulf countries. While she works in hospitals, he can stay at home, cooking and looking after children :woohoo: :woohoo: :woohoo:
It's a fact friends....am not joking :evil: :evil:
In Kottayam, majority of Christian girls have BSc nursing degree in hand...even my sister-in-law :evil: :evil: :evil:
But, she has to stay at home looking after the kid, as my brother doesn't like...she looks after patients :laugh: :laugh: :laugh:
I believe in making career. If our base is strong, we can do anything. Moreover our next generation would learn something from us.
I agree with Sandhya's mother. She is right. It is fact and necessary for all women. However if we are working just for earning our daily expenses, I would say that woman has some fear in her mind. Be ambitious and brave. Money comes automatically. Husband is man but there is no hard and first rule that he will alone build his career and fame. Being their life partner, we should also come forward and work shoulder to shoulder with them.
Moreover, Men also works just to earn money and not to build career and fame. I am actually excluding them. It is so because women cannot take their career and earn money. That's little difficult.
I want to say thanks to Sandhya for creating this thread. This thread will be read by the whole world and many girls would learn from here. In India only 30% girls are ambitious, among them only 10% can prove themselves.
I agree with Sandhya's mother. She is right. It is fact and necessary for all women. However if we are working just for earning our daily expenses, I would say that woman has some fear in her mind. Be ambitious and brave. Money comes automatically. Husband is man but there is no hard and first rule that he will alone build his career and fame. Being their life partner, we should also come forward and work shoulder to shoulder with them.
Moreover, Men also works just to earn money and not to build career and fame. I am actually excluding them. It is so because women cannot take their career and earn money. That's little difficult.
I want to say thanks to Sandhya for creating this thread. This thread will be read by the whole world and many girls would learn from here. In India only 30% girls are ambitious, among them only 10% can prove themselves.
I believe in making career. If our base is strong, we can do anything. Moreover our next generation would learn something from us.
I agree with the Sandhya's mother. She is right. It is fact and necessary for all women. However if we are working just for earning our daily expenses, I would say that woman has some fear in her mind. Be ambitious and brave. Money comes automatically. Husband is man but there is no hard and first rule that he will alone build his career and fame. Being their life partner, we should also come forward and work shoulder to shoulder with them.
Moreover, Men also works just to earn money and not to build career and fame. I am actually excluding them. It is so because women cannot take their career and earn money. That's little difficult.
I give huge appreciation and huge claps to your thoughts. Women is a partner to men and if Women gives support to men, then it becomes very much easy for Men. All Women should understand this, also the Husband sometimes doesn't gives permission to Women, but husband should also understand and should allow Women to work.
Nice Thoughts Devyaniji.
Such questions were raised against me also even if I was looking after my small girl and doing share trading at home. Some people think that am sitting at home, eating free. One of such persons directly asked me too, till now I have never looked at her face. That's why I decided to do some online job to earn at least a small amount. Then no one will raise fingers against me. Isn't it????
Actually money counts a lot!!!!
Actually money counts a lot!!!!
I believe in making career. If our base is strong, we can do anything. Moreover our next generation would learn something from us.
I agree with Sandhya's mother. She is right. It is fact and necessary for all women. However if we are working just for earning our daily expenses, I would say that woman has some fear in her mind. Be ambitious and brave. Money comes automatically. Husband is man but there is no hard and first rule that he will alone build his career and fame. Being their life partner, we should also come forward and work shoulder to shoulder with them.
Moreover, Men also works just to earn money and not to build career and fame. I am actually excluding them. It is so because women cannot take their career and earn money. That's little difficult.
I want to say thanks to Sandhya for creating this thread. This thread will be read by the whole world and many girls would learn from here. In India only 30% girls are ambitious, among them only 10% can prove themselves.
What a powerful reply given by you dear!!!! Am really inspired!!!
Really, thanks a lot from the bottom of my heart :) :) :) :)
I always feel that i have educated enough by using my parents money and its my turn to earn and stand on my feet. Though my parents wont allow me to work outside. Atleast i want to make few rupees so that i want to show i am also earning and not living freely as unfit person. I can also do something. I can also earn something. I am not lazy.
In present world, women thinks that if she sit in home and work in kitchen only meaning is not correct. She should also need to earn some thing to meet small needs and saving money for the sake of children and for any urgent necessary things.
Also, it helps her mind to free from unwanted thoughts, as it's told.....Idle mind is devil's workshop :evil: :evil:
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