Should women earn at least her pocket money?????

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My mother always advices me....."You need not earn 5 or 6 digit salary. But you should earn at least a small amount so that you need not depend on your husband for your small needs. He may give you everything, yet you should do your part".

Looking after the kids and family, cooking food and keeping home clean and tidy is also an effort. Yet, only a few people notice her work. Isn't it???

Also, I think, if she earns a living, she gets a little more respect from Sasural and also the society. What's your opinion??????

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Even my mother earn by teaching tailoring, embroidery,painting and many more craft things. and she even stitch. With that money she made me join engineering school as at that time my father is in financial tight situation
Even my mother earn by teaching tailoring, embroidery,painting and many more craft things. and she even stitch. With that money she made me join engineering school as at that time my father is in financial tight situation

Hats off to your Mother and you are lucky to get such Mother.
Yes they should i told this to my wife also but she remains so much busy with the kids and household work that at present scenerio she can't think of anything else. :blink:
Yes they should i told this to my wife also but she remains so much busy with the kids and household work that at present scenerio she can't think of anything else. :blink:


Bringing 2 small kids together is not at all a small task :evil: :evil:
Yes they should i told this to my wife also but she remains so much busy with the kids and household work that at present scenerio she can't think of anything else. :blink:


Bringing 2 small kids together is not at all a small task :evil: :evil:


I know it that's why i never compell her to do it.Its always her wish if she wants to do it then its OK otherwise also its OK. :)
Yes she should definitely earn as well as spend.. my grandmother was one best example who earned money through embroidery and designs...though my grandfather was a Doctor and is having lot of family properties my grandmother was bold lady...

Hats of to your grandmother Rajani. Yes there are some more women in this world still they earn by just they know things.


I think in olden days housewives were busy in household activities more than present time and even they had to manage more than single child...(my grandmother has 10 children in totally including my mom)...but still she never got tired and kept her hobby alive..Even in another birth may be I cannt do so... :)
I am not aware about others but there are two related to me most closely who earn in lacs per year. I think they are making good pocket money.
Bruce Lee wrote:
Yes she should definitely earn as well as spend.. my grandmother was one best example who earned money through embroidery and designs...though my grandfather was a Doctor and is having lot of family properties my grandmother was bold lady...

Hats of to your grandmother Rajani. Yes there are some more women in this world still they earn by just they know things.

I think in olden days housewives were busy in household activities more than present time and even they had to manage more than single child...(my grandmother has 10 children in totally including my mom)...but still she never got tired and kept her hobby alive..Even in another birth may be I cannt do so... :)

Yes due to increase in technology the women became lazy.
Yes they should i told this to my wife also but she remains so much busy with the kids and household work that at present scenerio she can't think of anything else. :blink:


Bringing 2 small kids together is not at all a small task :evil: :evil:


I know it that's why i never compell her to do it.Its always her wish if she wants to do it then its OK otherwise also its OK. :)


Yes this should be her choice, you are the one who is responsible to provide her pocket money.
Bruce Lee wrote:
Yes she should definitely earn as well as spend.. my grandmother was one best example who earned money through embroidery and designs...though my grandfather was a Doctor and is having lot of family properties my grandmother was bold lady...

Hats of to your grandmother Rajani. Yes there are some more women in this world still they earn by just they know things.

I think in olden days housewives were busy in household activities more than present time and even they had to manage more than single child...(my grandmother has 10 children in totally including my mom)...but still she never got tired and kept her hobby alive..Even in another birth may be I cannt do so... :)

Yes due to increase in technology the women became lazy.


Yet, women are more educated and financially supporting the family than before :angry: :angry: :angry:
Yes for every thing women cannot ask men. If she earn some pocket money she can buy her minimum needs.
Yes for every thing women cannot ask men. If she earn some pocket money she can buy her minimum needs.


Every woman can ask her husband for money. But it differs how he takes it. :evil: :evil:
Yes it depends on their relation and understanding.
Now even men are asking for pocket money from women. I know some one who does so. :laugh:
Now even men are asking for pocket money from women. I know some one who does so. :laugh:


It's none other than you asking money from your Tabla teacher :evil: :evil:
Yes they should i told this to my wife also but she remains so much busy with the kids and household work that at present scenerio she can't think of anything else. :blink:


Bringing 2 small kids together is not at all a small task :evil: :evil:


I know it that's why i never compell her to do it.Its always her wish if she wants to do it then its OK otherwise also its OK. :)


Yes this should be her choice, you are the one who is responsible to provide her pocket money.


Yes its prime responsibilty of a man to provide money to his wife.Circumstances may change if wife is working and husband is looking after household works. :laugh:
Yes they should i told this to my wife also but she remains so much busy with the kids and household work that at present scenerio she can't think of anything else. :blink:


Bringing 2 small kids together is not at all a small task :evil: :evil:


I know it that's why i never compell her to do it.Its always her wish if she wants to do it then its OK otherwise also its OK. :)


Yes this should be her choice, you are the one who is responsible to provide her pocket money.


Yes its prime responsibilty of a man to provide money to his wife.Circumstances may change if wife is working and husband is looking after household works. :laugh:


In Kottayam district of Kerala, many Christian boys are in search of a BSc Nursing wife, who works in Gulf countries. While she works in hospitals, he can stay at home, cooking and looking after children :woohoo: :woohoo: :woohoo:
It's a fact friends....am not joking :evil: :evil:
In Kottayam, majority of Christian girls have BSc nursing degree in hand...even my sister-in-law :evil: :evil: :evil:

But, she has to stay at home looking after the kid, as my brother doesn't like...she looks after patients :laugh: :laugh: :laugh:
Yes, women should be independent. Earning from themselves is a good option. Many Women does this, also there is a huge understanding from their husband.
I think little earning too gives her self-respect.
Women should be independent. Not fully depends on others.

If women is not earning. Husband should give her pocket money.
Sometimes, situations of family become bad that she also have to work to lift a little burden from her husband's shoulders

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