Should women earn at least her pocket money?????

Sometimes, situations of family become bad that she also have to work to lift a little burden from her husband's shoulders

That is not at all wrong. It is good thing, to give some sort of help in family.

I believe in making career. If our base is strong, we can do anything. Moreover our next generation would learn something from us.

I agree with Sandhya's mother. She is right. It is fact and necessary for all women. However if we are working just for earning our daily expenses, I would say that woman has some fear in her mind. Be ambitious and brave. Money comes automatically. Husband is man but there is no hard and first rule that he will alone build his career and fame. Being their life partner, we should also come forward and work shoulder to shoulder with them.

Moreover, Men also works just to earn money and not to build career and fame. I am actually excluding them. It is so because women cannot take their career and earn money. That's little difficult.

I want to say thanks to Sandhya for creating this thread. This thread will be read by the whole world and many girls would learn from here. In India only 30% girls are ambitious, among them only 10% can prove themselves.

I believe in making career. If our base is strong, we can do anything. Moreover our next generation would learn something from us.

I agree with the Sandhya's mother. She is right. It is fact and necessary for all women. However if we are working just for earning our daily expenses, I would say that woman has some fear in her mind. Be ambitious and brave. Money comes automatically. Husband is man but there is no hard and first rule that he will alone build his career and fame. Being their life partner, we should also come forward and work shoulder to shoulder with them.

Moreover, Men also works just to earn money and not to build career and fame. I am actually excluding them. It is so because women cannot take their career and earn money. That's little difficult.

I give huge appreciation and huge claps to your thoughts. Women is a partner to men and if Women gives support to men, then it becomes very much easy for Men. All Women should understand this, also the Husband sometimes doesn't gives permission to Women, but husband should also understand and should allow Women to work.
Nice Thoughts Devyaniji.

Such questions were raised against me also even if I was looking after my small girl and doing share trading at home. Some people think that am sitting at home, eating free. One of such persons directly asked me too, till now I have never looked at her face. That's why I decided to do some online job to earn at least a small amount. Then no one will raise fingers against me. Isn't it????
Actually money counts a lot!!!!

I believe in making career. If our base is strong, we can do anything. Moreover our next generation would learn something from us.

I agree with Sandhya's mother. She is right. It is fact and necessary for all women. However if we are working just for earning our daily expenses, I would say that woman has some fear in her mind. Be ambitious and brave. Money comes automatically. Husband is man but there is no hard and first rule that he will alone build his career and fame. Being their life partner, we should also come forward and work shoulder to shoulder with them.

Moreover, Men also works just to earn money and not to build career and fame. I am actually excluding them. It is so because women cannot take their career and earn money. That's little difficult.

I want to say thanks to Sandhya for creating this thread. This thread will be read by the whole world and many girls would learn from here. In India only 30% girls are ambitious, among them only 10% can prove themselves.

What a powerful reply given by you dear!!!! Am really inspired!!!
Really, thanks a lot from the bottom of my heart :) :) :) :)

I always feel that i have educated enough by using my parents money and its my turn to earn and stand on my feet. Though my parents wont allow me to work outside. Atleast i want to make few rupees so that i want to show i am also earning and not living freely as unfit person. I can also do something. I can also earn something. I am not lazy.

Every women shown earn something for their need it is necessary on this modern world. Otherwise they can't able to survive on this world. :)

Earning with honesty is always welcome.It may be man or woman.It helps individuals to be self sufficient and helps in family to run smoothly.

In present world, women thinks that if she sit in home and work in kitchen only meaning is not correct. She should also need to earn some thing to meet small needs and saving money for the sake of children and for any urgent necessary things.

In present world, women thinks that if she sit in home and work in kitchen only meaning is not correct. She should also need to earn some thing to meet small needs and saving money for the sake of children and for any urgent necessary things.

Also, it helps her mind to free from unwanted thoughts, as it's told.....Idle mind is devil's workshop :evil: :evil:

yes, you are right. If a women is free, not only women, anyone free, their mind wont be active and they will forget basic things also. So I feel everyone should do some work other than house hold work. and everyone should earn some thing so that they will have some confidence in their mind. when we spend the money which we earn there will be alot of happiness in them

Yes it is noticeable those women who work or engaged themselves ,may be versatile and free minded.

Bruce Lee wrote:
Yes she should definitely earn as well as spend.. my grandmother was one best example who earned money through embroidery and designs...though my grandfather was a Doctor and is having lot of family properties my grandmother was bold lady...

Hats of to your grandmother Rajani. Yes there are some more women in this world still they earn by just they know things.

I think in olden days housewives were busy in household activities more than present time and even they had to manage more than single child...(my grandmother has 10 children in totally including my mom)...but still she never got tired and kept her hobby alive..Even in another birth may be I cannt do so... :)

Yes due to increase in technology the women became lazy.

Technology???? :huh: :unsure: I don't think technology should be blamed...If you heard the proverb: Where there is will there is a way you can understand what's missing here...Problem is most women are stressed now-a-days due to nuclear families as they have to play multiple roles...

Technology didnt made women lazy. If you think all electrical things came then we can say men also became lazy due to technology as now many electrical things came for men also

Self sufficiency is a power of any and to get it we all should be earner.

Technology didnt made women lazy. If you think all electrical things came then we can say men also became lazy due to technology as now many electrical things came for men also

Technology and internet has given online jobs like Boddunan.....so, all housewives like me should be thankful for that :cheer: :cheer: :cheer:

Boddunana is the best option to all housewives. Earn at home.

yes, Actually human nature is to see disadvantages in anything. Human mind mostly think about negative things that's why people are saying that technology has made women lazy. they mean that instead of hand grinder electrical grinder has come and many like this. So men are feeling women become lazy and enjoying. But they never notice how a women building her self respect by trying make money on her own ever she is a house wife and she is engaged with house hold responsibilities then also she is sparing time for earning, that earning may not be thousand or lakhs but something she is getting. some times this small earning may be helpful when we are in need.

You know my take tailoring classes to students and earns little bit. So that she can purchase vegetables and few things which are necessary and she even saves some of her earning. so my father need of money or he have no time to go to bank and draw money, she will save the time by giving her money to my father.

so no men should underestimate women. If we clearly and frankly distinguish women and men then women are more hard workers than men. Men just work for 8 hours in only one field but women, she do the work of house and then she spare time for earning that may be her professional job as an employee or moneymaking as a house wife.

We should not distinguish like this. Both have some responsibilities in family . Now question is how much needed.

yes, Actually human nature is to see disadvantages in anything. Human mind mostly think about negative things that's why people are saying that technology has made women lazy. they mean that instead of hand grinder electrical grinder has come and many like this. So men are feeling women become lazy and enjoying. But they never notice how a women building her self respect by trying make money on her own ever she is a house wife and she is engaged with house hold responsibilities then also she is sparing time for earning, that earning may not be thousand or lakhs but something she is getting. some times this small earning may be helpful when we are in need.

You know my take tailoring classes to students and earns little bit. So that she can purchase vegetables and few things which are necessary and she even saves some of her earning. so my father need of money or he have no time to go to bank and draw money, she will save the time by giving her money to my father.

so no men should underestimate women. If we clearly and frankly distinguish women and men then women are more hard workers than men. Men just work for 8 hours in only one field but women, she do the work of house and then she spare time for earning that may be her professional job as an employee or moneymaking as a house wife.

Correct the first sentence of second para as my mother.

Yes, it's true ...men may work for 8 hours while even housewives work in kitchen at late night too....

Actually, both should mutually respect for each other. Also, both office and household works are responsible works and need a lot of hard work.

My husband works in office till 9 pm or 9.30. Actually, am very sad and worried seeing his over work. If he also feels, she is doing every household work neatly and serving me food according to my wishes, there arises a respect for each other...a feeling that the other person is also contributing a lot to the family. :) :) :)
Even good advices of wives can contribute a lot to the family, not only physical helps. How many of you know that????