Should women earn at least her pocket money?????

yes, you are right. If a women is free, not only women, anyone free, their mind wont be active and they will forget basic things also. So I feel everyone should do some work other than house hold work. and everyone should earn some thing so that they will have some confidence in their mind. when we spend the money which we earn there will be alot of happiness in them

Yes it is noticeable those women who work or engaged themselves ,may be versatile and free minded.

Bruce Lee wrote:
Yes she should definitely earn as well as spend.. my grandmother was one best example who earned money through embroidery and designs...though my grandfather was a Doctor and is having lot of family properties my grandmother was bold lady...

Hats of to your grandmother Rajani. Yes there are some more women in this world still they earn by just they know things.

I think in olden days housewives were busy in household activities more than present time and even they had to manage more than single child...(my grandmother has 10 children in totally including my mom)...but still she never got tired and kept her hobby alive..Even in another birth may be I cannt do so... :)

Yes due to increase in technology the women became lazy.

Technology???? :huh: :unsure: I don't think technology should be blamed...If you heard the proverb: Where there is will there is a way you can understand what's missing here...Problem is most women are stressed now-a-days due to nuclear families as they have to play multiple roles...

Technology didnt made women lazy. If you think all electrical things came then we can say men also became lazy due to technology as now many electrical things came for men also

Self sufficiency is a power of any and to get it we all should be earner.

Technology didnt made women lazy. If you think all electrical things came then we can say men also became lazy due to technology as now many electrical things came for men also

Technology and internet has given online jobs like Boddunan.....so, all housewives like me should be thankful for that :cheer: :cheer: :cheer:

Boddunana is the best option to all housewives. Earn at home.

yes, Actually human nature is to see disadvantages in anything. Human mind mostly think about negative things that's why people are saying that technology has made women lazy. they mean that instead of hand grinder electrical grinder has come and many like this. So men are feeling women become lazy and enjoying. But they never notice how a women building her self respect by trying make money on her own ever she is a house wife and she is engaged with house hold responsibilities then also she is sparing time for earning, that earning may not be thousand or lakhs but something she is getting. some times this small earning may be helpful when we are in need.

You know my take tailoring classes to students and earns little bit. So that she can purchase vegetables and few things which are necessary and she even saves some of her earning. so my father need of money or he have no time to go to bank and draw money, she will save the time by giving her money to my father.

so no men should underestimate women. If we clearly and frankly distinguish women and men then women are more hard workers than men. Men just work for 8 hours in only one field but women, she do the work of house and then she spare time for earning that may be her professional job as an employee or moneymaking as a house wife.

We should not distinguish like this. Both have some responsibilities in family . Now question is how much needed.

yes, Actually human nature is to see disadvantages in anything. Human mind mostly think about negative things that's why people are saying that technology has made women lazy. they mean that instead of hand grinder electrical grinder has come and many like this. So men are feeling women become lazy and enjoying. But they never notice how a women building her self respect by trying make money on her own ever she is a house wife and she is engaged with house hold responsibilities then also she is sparing time for earning, that earning may not be thousand or lakhs but something she is getting. some times this small earning may be helpful when we are in need.

You know my take tailoring classes to students and earns little bit. So that she can purchase vegetables and few things which are necessary and she even saves some of her earning. so my father need of money or he have no time to go to bank and draw money, she will save the time by giving her money to my father.

so no men should underestimate women. If we clearly and frankly distinguish women and men then women are more hard workers than men. Men just work for 8 hours in only one field but women, she do the work of house and then she spare time for earning that may be her professional job as an employee or moneymaking as a house wife.

Correct the first sentence of second para as my mother.

Yes, it's true ...men may work for 8 hours while even housewives work in kitchen at late night too....

Actually, both should mutually respect for each other. Also, both office and household works are responsible works and need a lot of hard work.

My husband works in office till 9 pm or 9.30. Actually, am very sad and worried seeing his over work. If he also feels, she is doing every household work neatly and serving me food according to my wishes, there arises a respect for each other...a feeling that the other person is also contributing a lot to the family. :) :) :)
Even good advices of wives can contribute a lot to the family, not only physical helps. How many of you know that????

There are many husband who never give value to their wives advice but they even feel like this that she is working hard at home and even making money. they even try to help her when they are free but they never take her advice in anything

There are many husband who never give value to their wives advice but they even feel like this that she is working hard at home and even making money. they even try to help her when they are free but they never take her advice in anything

Good advice of anyone, particularly spouse should always be welcome. I think that in matter of family, husband and wife should act by consulting each other. But a husband or even wife need not consult each other in non family matters.

Most of the men has a ego which make them not listen to the advices given by their wives

Most of the men has a ego which make them not listen to the advices given by their wives

Not all....You must say some as they are some live examples who I know always takes their wife and mothers advice before doing anything..Any person wife or husband should interact with each other for taking any family related decisions...for good relationship..

@Devayani...
You have thanked me for starting this thread.
Yet you don't know about this option???
Really strange

My mother always advices me....."You need not earn 5 or 6 digit salary. But you should earn at least a small amount so that you need not depend on your husband for your small needs. He may give you everything, yet you should do your part".

Looking after the kids and family, cooking food and keeping home clean and tidy is also an effort. Yet, only a few people notice her work. Isn't it???

Also, I think, if she earns a living, she gets a little more respect from Sasural and also the society. What's your opinion??????

Yes women should earn at least some money.So they are not depended always on their Husband.I think Sandhya use earn your pocket money by Boddunan.......

My mother always advices me....."You need not earn 5 or 6 digit salary. But you should earn at least a small amount so that you need not depend on your husband for your small needs. He may give you everything, yet you should do your part".

Looking after the kids and family, cooking food and keeping home clean and tidy is also an effort. Yet, only a few people notice her work. Isn't it???

Also, I think, if she earns a living, she gets a little more respect from Sasural and also the society. What's your opinion??????

Yes women should earn at least some money.So they are not depended always on their Husband.I think Sandhya use earn your pocket money by Boddunan.......

I spend it for my family....
I have told him....when I get next cheque next month, I will buy a pair of shoes for him :) :) :)
He bought me a nice pair of sandals last week

When I purchase something for my family from my hard work, it's a special feeling of happiness and pride that can't be explained. A lot of satisfaction too!!

yes. Money making many things, including happiness and pride also. Every person enjoying when they get money from their hard work.

yes. Money making many things, including happiness and pride also. Every person enjoying when they get money from their hard work.

Even if that amount is small, it gives a lot of happiness, satisfaction and of course self respect.

If women are able to find a small amount to financially support the family, her husband will also feel happy. He will think, she is seeing how am striving hard for the family. Even if all men won't think so, am sure at least a few men will be there :)

Actually am also seriously thinking nowadays to earn a small amount through online.....

We have a proverb, it's related to Ramayana.....
How many of you know the story of squirrel, that helped Vanaras in its own way to build the bridge?

"Annaan kunjum thannaalaayathu".....It knows well, he can't contribute more...yet, he did what he can do.... :) :)