Woman left to be raped

Ok I take back what ever I have written here. 90 % rape cases are in waiting list. Women become old and finally dies. She don't get justice. Hardly few charges are proved in the court.

Ok I take back what ever I have written here. 90 % rape cases are in waiting list. Women become old and finally dies. She don't get justice. Hardly few charges are proved in the court.

Except in few cases, most of the rape victims do not get justice because they do not make a formal complaint fearing the stigma associated with it. Often the victims and her family members do not co-operate with the police others to know about the incident. And until and unless they co-operate it becomes difficult for the police to take action.

Ok I take back what ever I have written here. 90 % rape cases are in waiting list. Women become old and finally dies. She don't get justice. Hardly few charges are proved in the court.

Except in few cases, most of the rape victims do not get justice because they do not make a formal complaint fearing the stigma associated with it. Often the victims and her family members do not co-operate with the police others to know about the incident. And until and unless they co-operate it becomes difficult for the police to take action.

Rightly stated that victims fear stigma associated with rape. Stigma is worse than rape. we need a change in mindset by campaigning hard. Stigma must be removed. The raped women must feel no shame. This is what actually needs be done. People are normal after theft and injury but they get so abnormal on rape. This is the main issue rather than actual rape.

Women weather married or unmarried are the victims of rape.Every day in news I just watch that a women being raped by her nephew or some other family members.Really its a very shameful for us.That whom we believe and who are our relatives or near ones they did these type of crime.

This is nothing but encouraging the rapists. Each and every rapists should be killed. They don't have right to survive. I don't understand how a woman can come back home after being raped by so many people. I agree that she was brave enough to save her husband and sister in law.
I last option that a woman gets to do in such situation is murder or suicide. I will opt for murder.

What is that suppose to mean?? Why should she not return home? Only a family and friends can give mental support to a woman who has gone through such traumatic experience. Also, why should the woman who is raped commit suicide?? She should live to see that justice is done to her through the legal ways.

me too surprised with Devayani's post? :blink:

then where should she go, Devayani?
is it her fault?

It's really shocking that both men left her. Instead they should have fight back.

Also, it's bit risky to travel through such lonely places...such risks should be avoided at any cost.

This is nothing but encouraging the rapists. Each and every rapists should be killed. They don't have right to survive. I don't understand how a woman can come back home after being raped by so many people. I agree that she was brave enough to save her husband and sister in law.
I last option that a woman gets to do in such situation is murder or suicide. I will opt for murder.

What is that suppose to mean?? Why should she not return home? Only a family and friends can give mental support to a woman who has gone through such traumatic experience. Also, why should the woman who is raped commit suicide?? She should live to see that justice is done to her through the legal ways.

me too surprised with Devayani's post? :blink:

then where should she go, Devayani?
is it her fault?

I think what she is trying to say is that a woman who is raped should not leave the culprit just like that and come back home. But the truth is Devyani that we are physically not stronger than men (generally) and this is why mostly women are overpowered in such incidents.

Friends I have many a times suggested girls to atleast learn defensive techniques and eat healthy food. If you can't fight then atleast you can run. Women should some how learn to escape. In adverse situations nobody will come front to help us, not even a lady. It depends on luck and your presence of mind. Admiting to the rapist is worst thing. Man can be coward but woman are not so.

I want to write few more points with this. I remember I have many a times mentioned them before.
It is not at all necessary to look beautiful. Prestige and honour is more important. If a woman looks ugly, nobody will feel interest in her. If she wears sexy or beautiful dress, it draws attention of many people. Makeup and dressing style should be according to place and situation and not according to out whim.

Friends I have many a times suggested girls to atleast learn defensive techniques and eat healthy food. If you can't fight then atleast you can run. Women should some how learn to escape. In adverse situations nobody will come front to help us, not even a lady. It depends on luck and your presence of mind. Admiting to the rapist is worst thing. Man can be coward but woman are not so.

Thank you Devu for your lovely post :) :)

Now only I understood the real meaning of your post. :)

It all depends on circumstances. I agree that precautions should be taken. Most important is that if a woman is raped in circumstances that cannot be controlled, she should not be made to feel guilty or defiled. Instead she should be enabled to gain normalcy and live as if nothing had opened. Booking the culprits and punishing them is another matter.

Friends I have many a times suggested girls to atleast learn defensive techniques and eat healthy food. If you can't fight then atleast you can run. Women should some how learn to escape. In adverse situations nobody will come front to help us, not even a lady. It depends on luck and your presence of mind. Admiting to the rapist is worst thing. Man can be coward but woman are not so.

This is very true as the safety of a woman is only her state of affairs now considering the brutality of the modern world where you cannot even trust your friends and relatives. But you cannot deny being in such a situation what all a girl might have to go through her senses may not be fully supportive and what about the cases of gang rape? Howsoever defensive techniques you might be knowing you cannot be a super duper hero of a hindi film where with one shot all the culprits fly and fall in all directions.

I want to write few more points with this. I remember I have many a times mentioned them before.
It is not at all necessary to look beautiful. Prestige and honour is more important. If a woman looks ugly, nobody will feel interest in her. If she wears sexy or beautiful dress, it draws attention of many people. Makeup and dressing style should be according to place and situation and not according to out whim.

Being beautiful or ugly has nothing to do with it. If that was the case, women who are fully covered from head to toes would never have been molested or raped as nobody can see their face. But even they have faced such situation. However, I do agree with you that a women needs to be cautious while dressing up and it would also be helpful to them to learn to defend themselves.

I want to write few more points with this. I remember I have many a times mentioned them before.
It is not at all necessary to look beautiful. Prestige and honour is more important. If a woman looks ugly, nobody will feel interest in her. If she wears sexy or beautiful dress, it draws attention of many people. Makeup and dressing style should be according to place and situation and not according to out whim.

Being beautiful or ugly has nothing to do with it. If that was the case, women who are fully covered from head to toes would never have been molested or raped as nobody can see their face. But even they have faced such situation. However, I do agree with you that a women needs to be cautious while dressing up and it would also be helpful to them to learn to defend themselves.

Yes I too agree with your views....
Dressing is only a factor...
man attacks her only if he gets a situation, otherwise never. I don't think a girl dressed in a provoking way will be molested in an open crowd. If she is alone, she may get into trouble. That's all. That also doesn't mean, always she will get into trouble....am just saying about a situation....

I want to write few more points with this. I remember I have many a times mentioned them before.
It is not at all necessary to look beautiful. Prestige and honour is more important. If a woman looks ugly, nobody will feel interest in her. If she wears sexy or beautiful dress, it draws attention of many people. Makeup and dressing style should be according to place and situation and not according to out whim.

Being beautiful or ugly has nothing to do with it. If that was the case, women who are fully covered from head to toes would never have been molested or raped as nobody can see their face. But even they have faced such situation. However, I do agree with you that a women needs to be cautious while dressing up and it would also be helpful to them to learn to defend themselves.

Devyani the girl mentioned here in the news article was wearing a jeans at that time and I think that is a casual clothing nothing that might be blamed for evoking the males. Even married woman clad in sarees or salwar suits have faced such unfortunate situations that leaves never ending scars on their mind for the rest of their lives. Do you mean we should give up wearing beautiful dresses? Being a girl that is something I love. :huh: Though agreed that one should dress according to a place but even if a girl is dressed in a salwar suitshe does get to hear roadside comments. That is no solution at all.

I want to write few more points with this. I remember I have many a times mentioned them before.
It is not at all necessary to look beautiful. Prestige and honour is more important. If a woman looks ugly, nobody will feel interest in her. If she wears sexy or beautiful dress, it draws attention of many people. Makeup and dressing style should be according to place and situation and not according to out whim.

Being beautiful or ugly has nothing to do with it. If that was the case, women who are fully covered from head to toes would never have been molested or raped as nobody can see their face. But even they have faced such situation. However, I do agree with you that a women needs to be cautious while dressing up and it would also be helpful to them to learn to defend themselves.

Devyani the girl mentioned here in the news article was wearing a jeans at that time and I think that is a casual clothing nothing that might be blamed for evoking the males. Even married woman clad in sarees or salwar suits have faced such unfortunate situations that leaves never ending scars on their mind for the rest of their lives. Do you mean we should give up wearing beautiful dresses? Being a girl that is something I love. :huh: Though agreed that one should dress according to a place but even if a girl is dressed in a salwar suitshe does get to hear roadside comments. That is no solution at all.

Any particular dress code does not help women. Women in any dress and in every environment are raped. The irony is that they suffer both ways- first physical, then mental. The mental suffering is worse. after rape a woman be normal. But the shock and stigma remains longer. This stigma is to be fought more. why should a woman feel ashamed and guilty after rape?

Perhaps that feelings make woman, a woman!!!!!

Perhaps that feelings make woman, a woman!!!!!

Frailty-thy name is woman. Said William Shakespeare

Abala Jeevan teri yahi kahani Anchal men doodh, ankhon men paani ( Weaker gender- this is your tale- milk in breast and tears in eyes)- Hindi poet Maithali sharan Gupta.

This is challenge. woman is called 'abala' . (weak). she must assert and be strong (sabala).

She must fight against double standards. In a rape, a woman is considered defiled. How can the man raping her be still chaste. If he is chaste, woman is more chaste as she is victim.

Perhaps that feelings make woman, a woman!!!!!

Frailty-thy name is woman. Said William Shakespeare

Abala Jeevan teri yahi kahani Anchal men doodh, ankhon men paani ( Weaker gender- this is your tale- milk in breast and tears in eyes)- Hindi poet Maithali sharan Gupta.

This is challenge. woman is called 'abala' . (weak). she must assert and be strong (sabala).

She must fight against double standards. In a rape, a woman is considered defiled. How can the man raping her be still chaste. If he is chaste, woman is more chaste as she is victim.

after committing a similar crime...two persons may think and behave differently. Some feel guilty of his wrong deed while the second one, never feel ashamed. Same is the case of women. Only the right persons feel shamed of certain things...wrong persons never feel so, however severe his crime is :evil:

Perhaps that feelings make woman, a woman!!!!!

Frailty-thy name is woman. Said William Shakespeare

Abala Jeevan teri yahi kahani Anchal men doodh, ankhon men paani ( Weaker gender- this is your tale- milk in breast and tears in eyes)- Hindi poet Maithali sharan Gupta.

This is challenge. woman is called 'abala' . (weak). she must assert and be strong (sabala).

She must fight against double standards. In a rape, a woman is considered defiled. How can the man raping her be still chaste. If he is chaste, woman is more chaste as she is victim.

after committing a similar crime...two persons may think and behave differently. Some feel guilty of his wrong deed while the second one, never feel ashamed. Same is the case of women. Only the right persons feel shamed of certain things...wrong persons never feel so, however severe his crime is :evil:

If some one has committed an offence, he would feel guilty if humane and otherwise not. But what if he or she is not guilty. I do not think that any one need feel guilty if he or she is not actually guilty. AS raped woman is a victim and not guilt. She must never feel guilty and should be quite normal even after rape. It is only the guilty man who should be made to feel guilty and ashamed.

This is so simple.