Friends I have many a times suggested girls to atleast learn defensive techniques and eat healthy food. If you can't fight then atleast you can run. Women should some how learn to escape. In adverse situations nobody will come front to help us, not even a lady. It depends on luck and your presence of mind. Admiting to the rapist is worst thing. Man can be coward but woman are not so.

I want to write few more points with this. I remember I have many a times mentioned them before.
It is not at all necessary to look beautiful. Prestige and honour is more important. If a woman looks ugly, nobody will feel interest in her. If she wears sexy or beautiful dress, it draws attention of many people. Makeup and dressing style should be according to place and situation and not according to out whim.

I want to write few more points with this. I remember I have many a times mentioned them before.
It is not at all necessary to look beautiful. Prestige and honour is more important. If a woman looks ugly, nobody will feel interest in her. If she wears sexy or beautiful dress, it draws attention of many people. Makeup and dressing style should be according to place and situation and not according to out whim.

Being beautiful or ugly has nothing to do with it. If that was the case, women who are fully covered from head to toes would never have been molested or raped as nobody can see their face. But even they have faced such situation. However, I do agree with you that a women needs to be cautious while dressing up and it would also be helpful to them to learn to defend themselves.

I want to write few more points with this. I remember I have many a times mentioned them before.
It is not at all necessary to look beautiful. Prestige and honour is more important. If a woman looks ugly, nobody will feel interest in her. If she wears sexy or beautiful dress, it draws attention of many people. Makeup and dressing style should be according to place and situation and not according to out whim.

Being beautiful or ugly has nothing to do with it. If that was the case, women who are fully covered from head to toes would never have been molested or raped as nobody can see their face. But even they have faced such situation. However, I do agree with you that a women needs to be cautious while dressing up and it would also be helpful to them to learn to defend themselves.

I want to write few more points with this. I remember I have many a times mentioned them before.
It is not at all necessary to look beautiful. Prestige and honour is more important. If a woman looks ugly, nobody will feel interest in her. If she wears sexy or beautiful dress, it draws attention of many people. Makeup and dressing style should be according to place and situation and not according to out whim.

Being beautiful or ugly has nothing to do with it. If that was the case, women who are fully covered from head to toes would never have been molested or raped as nobody can see their face. But even they have faced such situation. However, I do agree with you that a women needs to be cautious while dressing up and it would also be helpful to them to learn to defend themselves.

Devyani the girl mentioned here in the news article was wearing a jeans at that time and I think that is a casual clothing nothing that might be blamed for evoking the males. Even married woman clad in sarees or salwar suits have faced such unfortunate situations that leaves never ending scars on their mind for the rest of their lives. Do you mean we should give up wearing beautiful dresses? Being a girl that is something I love. :huh: Though agreed that one should dress according to a place but even if a girl is dressed in a salwar suitshe does get to hear roadside comments. That is no solution at all.

Perhaps that feelings make woman, a woman!!!!!

Perhaps that feelings make woman, a woman!!!!!

Frailty-thy name is woman. Said William Shakespeare

Abala Jeevan teri yahi kahani Anchal men doodh, ankhon men paani ( Weaker gender- this is your tale- milk in breast and tears in eyes)- Hindi poet Maithali sharan Gupta.

This is challenge. woman is called 'abala' . (weak). she must assert and be strong (sabala).

She must fight against double standards. In a rape, a woman is considered defiled. How can the man raping her be still chaste. If he is chaste, woman is more chaste as she is victim.

Perhaps that feelings make woman, a woman!!!!!

Frailty-thy name is woman. Said William Shakespeare

Abala Jeevan teri yahi kahani Anchal men doodh, ankhon men paani ( Weaker gender- this is your tale- milk in breast and tears in eyes)- Hindi poet Maithali sharan Gupta.

This is challenge. woman is called 'abala' . (weak). she must assert and be strong (sabala).

She must fight against double standards. In a rape, a woman is considered defiled. How can the man raping her be still chaste. If he is chaste, woman is more chaste as she is victim.

after committing a similar crime...two persons may think and behave differently. Some feel guilty of his wrong deed while the second one, never feel ashamed. Same is the case of women. Only the right persons feel shamed of certain things...wrong persons never feel so, however severe his crime is :evil: