Yes there are so many sensitive issues nowadays relating to children and teenagers which are very important for a child's overall growth. Schools do not pay attention to these issues. They are only interested in academics and sports. These growing years are very vital. A child should learn to be sensitive and responsible for his peers.

It could be either way - some parents are forever criticizing their children in comparison with other children which is very bad for since it makes the child feel insecure and lose confidence in himself /herself...Either way we need to be careful while not comparing our children to other children nor to our own kids when there is more than one child in the family ..

Yeah...comparison between siblings is very very common due to which there is a lot of rivalry among children. Sometimes the rivalry is carried into adulthood too!

In some form relation oriented psychology should be taught in secondary level schools to sensitize students.

It should be taught..but sadly, our education curriculum does not contain anything remotely connected to sensitizing students!

It could be either way - some parents are forever criticizing their children in comparison with other children which is very bad for since it makes the child feel insecure and lose confidence in himself /herself...Either way we need to be careful while not comparing our children to other children nor to our own kids when there is more than one child in the family ..

Yeah...comparison between siblings is very very common due to which there is a lot of rivalry among children. Sometimes the rivalry is carried into adulthood too!

In some form relation oriented psychology should be taught in secondary level schools to sensitize students.

It should be taught..but sadly, our education curriculum does not contain anything remotely connected to sensitizing students!

In India we dont even have the system of having a counsellor,for which the initiative shd be taken by the government.Some private schools do have counsellors and it has proven very effective in tackling home related and teen problems that are comon among students...Most children seem to suffer from some complex or the oher and parents are the root cause of it.[/quote

I do agree with you. It's the home from where good habits or bad habits spring up. There is no educational institute like Home. And there are no good teachers like parents.

It could be either way - some parents are forever criticizing their children in comparison with other children which is very bad for since it makes the child feel insecure and lose confidence in himself /herself...Either way we need to be careful while not comparing our children to other children nor to our own kids when there is more than one child in the family ..

Yeah...comparison between siblings is very very common due to which there is a lot of rivalry among children. Sometimes the rivalry is carried into adulthood too!

In some form relation oriented psychology should be taught in secondary level schools to sensitize students.

It should be taught..but sadly, our education curriculum does not contain anything remotely connected to sensitizing students!

In India we dont even have the system of having a counsellor,for which the initiative shd be taken by the government.Some private schools do have counsellors and it has proven very effective in tackling home related and teen problems that are comon among students...Most children seem to suffer from some complex or the other and parents are the root cause of it.[/quote

I do agree with you. It's the home from where good habits or bad habits spring up. There is no educational institute like Home. And there are no good teachers like parents.

There is a growing need for counsellers. I know of a counseller who is flooded with cases especially of young school and college going children. She is unable to cope with cases. The suggestion of appointing them in schools is very good. Most of the time parents attitude and pressure creates the need for children to avail counsellors help.

It could be either way - some parents are forever criticizing their children in comparison with other children which is very bad for since it makes the child feel insecure and lose confidence in himself /herself...Either way we need to be careful while not comparing our children to other children nor to our own kids when there is more than one child in the family ..

Yeah...comparison between siblings is very very common due to which there is a lot of rivalry among children. Sometimes the rivalry is carried into adulthood too!

In some form relation oriented psychology should be taught in secondary level schools to sensitize students.

It should be taught..but sadly, our education curriculum does not contain anything remotely connected to sensitizing students!

In India we dont even have the system of having a counsellor,for which the initiative shd be taken by the government.Some private schools do have counsellors and it has proven very effective in tackling home related and teen problems that are comon among students...Most children seem to suffer from some complex or the other and parents are the root cause of it.[/quote

I do agree with you. It's the home from where good habits or bad habits spring up. There is no educational institute like Home. And there are no good teachers like parents.

There is a growing need for counsellers. I know of a counseller who is flooded with cases especially of young school and college going children. She is unable to cope with cases. The suggestion of appointing them in schools is very good. Most of the time parents attitude and pressure creates the need for children to avail counsellors help.[/quote

If the parenting is good, there is no need of council ling. The best council ling comes from Best parenting.

It could be either way - some parents are forever criticizing their children in comparison with other children which is very bad for since it makes the child feel insecure and lose confidence in himself /herself...Either way we need to be careful while not comparing our children to other children nor to our own kids when there is more than one child in the family ..

Yeah...comparison between siblings is very very common due to which there is a lot of rivalry among children. Sometimes the rivalry is carried into adulthood too!

In some form relation oriented psychology should be taught in secondary level schools to sensitize students.

It should be taught..but sadly, our education curriculum does not contain anything remotely connected to sensitizing students!

In India we dont even have the system of having a counsellor,for which the initiative shd be taken by the government.Some private schools do have counsellors and it has proven very effective in tackling home related and teen problems that are comon among students...Most children seem to suffer from some complex or the other and parents are the root cause of it.[/quote

I do agree with you. It's the home from where good habits or bad habits spring up. There is no educational institute like Home. And there are no good teachers like parents.

There is a growing need for counsellers. I know of a counseller who is flooded with cases especially of young school and college going children. She is unable to cope with cases. The suggestion of appointing them in schools is very good. Most of the time parents attitude and pressure creates the need for children to avail counsellors help.[/quote

If the parenting is good, there is no need of council ling. The best council ling comes from Best parenting.

That would be like living in an utopian world. Counsellors are needed in the real world even for children of good parents. After all children have a world outside parental world also.

It could be either way - some parents are forever criticizing their children in comparison with other children which is very bad for since it makes the child feel insecure and lose confidence in himself /herself...Either way we need to be careful while not comparing our children to other children nor to our own kids when there is more than one child in the family ..

Yeah...comparison between siblings is very very common due to which there is a lot of rivalry among children. Sometimes the rivalry is carried into adulthood too!

In some form relation oriented psychology should be taught in secondary level schools to sensitize students.

It should be taught..but sadly, our education curriculum does not contain anything remotely connected to sensitizing students!

In India we dont even have the system of having a counsellor,for which the initiative shd be taken by the government.Some private schools do have counsellors and it has proven very effective in tackling home related and teen problems that are comon among students...Most children seem to suffer from some complex or the other and parents are the root cause of it.[/quote

I do agree with you. It's the home from where good habits or bad habits spring up. There is no educational institute like Home. And there are no good teachers like parents.

There is a growing need for counsellers. I know of a counseller who is flooded with cases especially of young school and college going children. She is unable to cope with cases. The suggestion of appointing them in schools is very good. Most of the time parents attitude and pressure creates the need for children to avail counsellors help.[/quote

If the parenting is good, there is no need of council ling. The best council ling comes from Best parenting.

That would be like living in an utopian world. Counsellors are needed in the real world even for children of good parents. After all children have a world outside parental world also.[/quote

Sarvepalli Radha Krishnan and such great people never had Councillors. because they had good parenting. For this elementary thing one need not be in utopia.