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Aastha- suggestion for self defence is okay. But even the if rape take place, what should be done ? I think this is more important matter. The girl should not feel guilty and face the world with courage as if nothing happened. when you are hurt, what happens. simply with rape. We need to change our attitude to the rape victims.

G. K. Ajmani Tax consultant
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By seeing overall discussion I think self defence is best way . It will help to take immediate action.

Santosh Kumar Singh


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@Gulshan, you are absolutely right, that girl should be bold enough that she should face the world boldly with courage and has to make up her mind as nothing happened, and she should live happily. But it is solution of what she should do after rape, but the question here is how to prevent it. Because being a rape victim is not only the physical pain for a girl but more than that, a mental torture.

Aastha Gupta
Astha is right. This pain for for whole life so its create blind in life.

Santosh Kumar Singh


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It is true that the most painful part in the life of a victim of rape is the social stigma which paradoxically attaches to the victim not the offender!!
The girls should be also trained to face the trauma apart from physical resistance. Our movies are aslo responsible for this sort of mental agony. There was a Hindi film 'Insaaf ka Tarajoo' that depicted the trauma faced by raped woman. The raped girl is unable to attend the normal modelling assignment. she feels that after rape, she is totally worthless. Our girls should be trained that when they are not at fault, they must not feel shame and remain cool and active as if only a minor injury was inflicted. This is not to minimize the offence but only to give relief to the victim.

G. K. Ajmani Tax consultant
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Gulshan you are right but being normal after rape is not possible for girls.

Santosh Kumar Singh


http://experienceofknowledge.blogspot.com/

 

Good morning friends!
It is the difference in how the girls and boys are raised in India. Right from childhood, the girls are made to feel that it is their bodies that must be kept pure at all times and they are not given necesary lessons in self-esteem and self-respect. Hence such an incident forever tarnishes a girl's mind and soul and she feels responsible for the abuses inflicted on her!!

"I am free of all prejudice. I hate everyone equally."
- W. C. Fields :)

Nice Kalyani Nandurkar your though is good. Keep it up...........

Santosh Kumar Singh


http://experienceofknowledge.blogspot.com/

 

I know this- Santosh. But we should make a beginning. Presently, rape is given so much significance that a raped girl is considered as 'having lost everything' and 'dishonoured'. But the boy is neither a 'loser of everything' nor 'dishonoured'. Rather, he feels that he is a 'conquerer'. This is what needs be changed. The current generations, particularly modern women can and I hope, will bring a change in this mentality.

G. K. Ajmani Tax consultant
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