Do you like your Mother-in- law?

Four out of ten women have an “uneasy” relationship with their mother-in-law, a survey has revealed.
Here are Mother-in-laws’ worst traits
http://www.indianexpress.com/news/motherinlaws--worst-traits/1031016/

Ha ha... Good Morning sir... :) :) .. Started such a controversial thread.. Till now i am having good time with her.. Lets hope it stays good like that.. could it be due to love marriage with her approval ?

This was about daughter in law Puneet, Son in laws are in the Favorite lists in Our country in most cases.

Four out of ten women have an “uneasy” relationship with their mother-in-law, a survey has revealed.
Here are Mother-in-laws’ worst traits
http://www.indianexpress.com/news/motherinlaws--worst-traits/1031016/

Ha ha... Good Morning sir... :) :) .. Started such a controversial thread.. Till now i am having good time with her.. Lets hope it stays good like that.. could it be due to love marriage with her approval ?

This was about daughter in law Puneet, Son in laws are in the Favorite lists in Our country in most cases.

Ahaha, 'Sirkar Ka Damaad' are the blessed ones.

It is no doubt a very difficult relationship and unless there is understanding from both sides, it can be strenuous.In my own case my m in law is no more there but although we did have our differences initially because she was a very strong personality , things got better with years and we were on the best of terms during her last years and we all miss her a lot...

Some disputes arise between any two persons living together. But these should not be taken very seriously. There are quarrels also between father and son, mother and daughter but the relation with Mom in law is more spicy.

really a nice point quoted.... :woohoo:

yes husbands and wives fight each other daily, even every hour..no one has problems. Everyone has problems with in-laws only :laugh: :laugh:

in my case, both my in-laws are retired school teachers. It implies they are very strict like a military camp :whistle: . They do every duty and activity in great discipline and that may be the reason why we three daughter-in-laws fear them a lot :silly: :woohoo: :laugh: :laugh:

Some disputes arise between any two persons living together. But these should not be taken very seriously. There are quarrels also between father and son, mother and daughter but the relation with Mom in law is more spicy.

really a nice point quoted.... :woohoo:

yes husbands and wives fight each other daily, even every hour..no one has problems. Everyone has problems with in-laws only :laugh: :laugh:

in my case, both my in-laws are retired school teachers. It implies they are very strict like a military camp :whistle: . They do every duty and activity in great discipline and that may be the reason why we three daughter-in-laws fear them a lot :silly: :woohoo: :laugh: :laugh:

That's a sincere confession

Some disputes arise between any two persons living together. But these should not be taken very seriously. There are quarrels also between father and son, mother and daughter but the relation with Mom in law is more spicy.

really a nice point quoted.... :woohoo:

yes husbands and wives fight each other daily, even every hour..no one has problems. Everyone has problems with in-laws only :laugh: :laugh:

in my case, both my in-laws are retired school teachers. It implies they are very strict like a military camp :whistle: . They do every duty and activity in great discipline and that may be the reason why we three daughter-in-laws fear them a lot :silly: :woohoo: :laugh: :laugh:

That's a sincere confession

i don't fear my hubby or my parents...
but my in-laws a lot ;)
we can't assume the moment when they can explode :woohoo: :woohoo:

Some disputes arise between any two persons living together. But these should not be taken very seriously. There are quarrels also between father and son, mother and daughter but the relation with Mom in law is more spicy.

really a nice point quoted.... :woohoo:

yes husbands and wives fight each other daily, even every hour..no one has problems. Everyone has problems with in-laws only :laugh: :laugh:

in my case, both my in-laws are retired school teachers. It implies they are very strict like a military camp :whistle: . They do every duty and activity in great discipline and that may be the reason why we three daughter-in-laws fear them a lot :silly: :woohoo: :laugh: :laugh:

That's a sincere confession

i don't fear my hubby or my parents...
but my in-laws a lot ;)
we can't assume the moment when they can explode :woohoo: :woohoo:

I can understand, Even my wife has the same problem with my mother.

Some disputes arise between any two persons living together. But these should not be taken very seriously. There are quarrels also between father and son, mother and daughter but the relation with Mom in law is more spicy.

really a nice point quoted.... :woohoo:

yes husbands and wives fight each other daily, even every hour..no one has problems. Everyone has problems with in-laws only :laugh: :laugh:

in my case, both my in-laws are retired school teachers. It implies they are very strict like a military camp :whistle: . They do every duty and activity in great discipline and that may be the reason why we three daughter-in-laws fear them a lot :silly: :woohoo: :laugh: :laugh:

That's a sincere confession

i don't fear my hubby or my parents...
but my in-laws a lot ;)
we can't assume the moment when they can explode :woohoo: :woohoo:

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The glaring fact is that parents are already known. The relation with in law is new and hence creates problem. This is like using new shoes.

I am not yet married but I have fobia of Mother-in-law. I see her in my dreams.

I am not yet married but I have fobia of Mother-in-law. I see her in my dreams.

Choose a hubby whose parents live away from him.

I like my mother in law she is like my mother may be all men like their mother in law problem is with ladies who never can have good relations with their mother in law as they have to stay in the same house. :)

That's a good observation. Most of the rifts are betewwn Daughter -in- law and the Mother- in - law.

If the relationship between Mother-in-Law and Daughter-in-Law is smooth, Then the entire family will be happy. You feel like heaven being at home.

I am not yet married. But I feel I will win her heart by being familiar to her. I have alot of confidence. But if she force for getting more money from my parents means then it may be difficult for me, except money i can manage remaining things easily.

I am not yet married. But I feel I will win her heart by being familiar to her. I have alot of confidence. But if she force for getting more money from my parents means then it may be difficult for me, except money i can manage remaining things easily.

don't worry
Boddunan will give you a huge amount as marriage gift ;) ;)

Sandhya madam ji, now a days, mother in laws are so hungry of money that they demand in lakhs and crores. They count all the expenditure they have invested on their boy. But this is really bad on their part. some thousands if she demand, i can manage through boddunan. :)

Sandhya madam ji, now a days, mother in laws are so hungry of money that they demand in lakhs and crores. They count all the expenditure they have invested on their boy. But this is really bad on their part. some thousands if she demand, i can manage through boddunan. :)

if so, parents of ladies can also demand the same. they have also invested a lot of money for their girls, from birth till marriage :woohoo: :woohoo:

What you said is right sandhya, But the case is, boy's parents feel that, their boy will look after the girl with his money after the marriage. So they demand

Sandhya madam ji, now a days, mother in laws are so hungry of money that they demand in lakhs and crores. They count all the expenditure they have invested on their boy. But this is really bad on their part. some thousands if she demand, i can manage through boddunan. :)

if so, parents of ladies can also demand the same. they have also invested a lot of money for their girls, from birth till marriage :woohoo: :woohoo:

As far as dowry is concerned, this may be treated as a payment for the maintenance and care of the daughter. Mostly, this is husband's job to maintain his wife and children. But now women are also employed and support families. So, the dowry is reduced for working girls. It is also likely that when the girls earn more and the husband is dependent, dowry may be paid by boy's father.

Sandhya madam ji, now a days, mother in laws are so hungry of money that they demand in lakhs and crores. They count all the expenditure they have invested on their boy. But this is really bad on their part. some thousands if she demand, i can manage through boddunan. :)

if so, parents of ladies can also demand the same. they have also invested a lot of money for their girls, from birth till marriage :woohoo: :woohoo:

As far as dowry is concerned, this may be treated as a payment for the maintenance and care of the daughter. Mostly, this is husband's job to maintain his wife and children. But now women are also employed and support families. So, the dowry is reduced for working girls. It is also likely that when the girls earn more and the husband is dependent, dowry may be paid by boy's father.

let us hope so in the distant future. Girls are now well-educated :)

Sandhya madam ji, now a days, mother in laws are so hungry of money that they demand in lakhs and crores. They count all the expenditure they have invested on their boy. But this is really bad on their part. some thousands if she demand, i can manage through boddunan. :)

if so, parents of ladies can also demand the same. they have also invested a lot of money for their girls, from birth till marriage :woohoo: :woohoo:

As far as dowry is concerned, this may be treated as a payment for the maintenance and care of the daughter. Mostly, this is husband's job to maintain his wife and children. But now women are also employed and support families. So, the dowry is reduced for working girls. It is also likely that when the girls earn more and the husband is dependent, dowry may be paid by boy's father.

With due respect sir, my daughter purchased two cars this year and gifted to her mother and father-in-law., she is their only daughter-in-law and as much loved as her three sisters -in-law. Girls' situation is changing fast and the way they are in front of every filed the day is not far when boys shall be paying dowry/ or whatever you call it.

Actually, among tribal people, men pay dowry to girl's father....
yes, we normal people are real beasts!!!!