Do you like your Mother-in- law?

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Four out of ten women have an “uneasy” relationship with their mother-in-law, a survey has revealed.
Here are Mother-in-laws’ worst traits
http://www.indianexpress.com/news/motherinlaws--worst-traits/1031016/

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I like my mother in law she is like my mother may be all men like their mother in law problem is with ladies who never can have good relations with their mother in law as they have to stay in the same house. :)


That's a good observation. Most of the rifts are betewwn Daughter -in- law and the Mother- in - law.


If the relationship between Mother-in-Law and Daughter-in-Law is smooth, Then the entire family will be happy. You feel like heaven being at home.
I am not yet married. But I feel I will win her heart by being familiar to her. I have alot of confidence. But if she force for getting more money from my parents means then it may be difficult for me, except money i can manage remaining things easily.
I am not yet married. But I feel I will win her heart by being familiar to her. I have alot of confidence. But if she force for getting more money from my parents means then it may be difficult for me, except money i can manage remaining things easily.


don't worry
Boddunan will give you a huge amount as marriage gift ;) ;)
Sandhya madam ji, now a days, mother in laws are so hungry of money that they demand in lakhs and crores. They count all the expenditure they have invested on their boy. But this is really bad on their part. some thousands if she demand, i can manage through boddunan. :)
Sandhya madam ji, now a days, mother in laws are so hungry of money that they demand in lakhs and crores. They count all the expenditure they have invested on their boy. But this is really bad on their part. some thousands if she demand, i can manage through boddunan. :)


if so, parents of ladies can also demand the same. they have also invested a lot of money for their girls, from birth till marriage :woohoo: :woohoo:
What you said is right sandhya, But the case is, boy's parents feel that, their boy will look after the girl with his money after the marriage. So they demand
Sandhya madam ji, now a days, mother in laws are so hungry of money that they demand in lakhs and crores. They count all the expenditure they have invested on their boy. But this is really bad on their part. some thousands if she demand, i can manage through boddunan. :)


if so, parents of ladies can also demand the same. they have also invested a lot of money for their girls, from birth till marriage :woohoo: :woohoo:


As far as dowry is concerned, this may be treated as a payment for the maintenance and care of the daughter. Mostly, this is husband's job to maintain his wife and children. But now women are also employed and support families. So, the dowry is reduced for working girls. It is also likely that when the girls earn more and the husband is dependent, dowry may be paid by boy's father.
Sandhya madam ji, now a days, mother in laws are so hungry of money that they demand in lakhs and crores. They count all the expenditure they have invested on their boy. But this is really bad on their part. some thousands if she demand, i can manage through boddunan. :)


if so, parents of ladies can also demand the same. they have also invested a lot of money for their girls, from birth till marriage :woohoo: :woohoo:


As far as dowry is concerned, this may be treated as a payment for the maintenance and care of the daughter. Mostly, this is husband's job to maintain his wife and children. But now women are also employed and support families. So, the dowry is reduced for working girls. It is also likely that when the girls earn more and the husband is dependent, dowry may be paid by boy's father.


let us hope so in the distant future. Girls are now well-educated :)
Sandhya madam ji, now a days, mother in laws are so hungry of money that they demand in lakhs and crores. They count all the expenditure they have invested on their boy. But this is really bad on their part. some thousands if she demand, i can manage through boddunan. :)


if so, parents of ladies can also demand the same. they have also invested a lot of money for their girls, from birth till marriage :woohoo: :woohoo:


As far as dowry is concerned, this may be treated as a payment for the maintenance and care of the daughter. Mostly, this is husband's job to maintain his wife and children. But now women are also employed and support families. So, the dowry is reduced for working girls. It is also likely that when the girls earn more and the husband is dependent, dowry may be paid by boy's father.


With due respect sir, my daughter purchased two cars this year and gifted to her mother and father-in-law., she is their only daughter-in-law and as much loved as her three sisters -in-law. Girls' situation is changing fast and the way they are in front of every filed the day is not far when boys shall be paying dowry/ or whatever you call it.
Actually, among tribal people, men pay dowry to girl's father....
yes, we normal people are real beasts!!!!
Actually, among tribal people, men pay dowry to girl's father....
yes, we normal people are real beasts!!!!


Normal people don't act this way. They remain normal in every case.
There is nothing pararrel to mothers position. But we should respect to all mothers and she is after all wife's mother.
Friend I don't think there is any harm in admiring mother-in-law. Many people don't do so. They don't care for their own mother.
Friend I don't think there is any harm in admiring mother-in-law. Many people don't do so. They don't care for their own mother.

It is true that now a days many don't care their own mother and forced to go to old age home.
I like my mother-in-law but I just can't follow those ritual which she expects from me.
This is common in our country. When they born as a women they dont understand the fellings of a girl.
They are very old thinking people.they must understand this generation people.Its not possible always to follow them.
I think most Indian women have a tough time with their mother in laws. I too sometimes face difficulty in dealing with my mother in law. I don't understand why mother in laws find faults with their daughter in laws over small things. :blink:
I think most Indian women have a tough time with their mother in laws. I too sometimes face difficulty in dealing with my mother in law. I don't understand why mother in laws find faults with their daughter in laws over small things. :blink:


it's better we fight back finding their big mistakes ;)
I won't say that this is good practice in the long run. Keep your mother-in-law happy. She is elder than you and matured. She has reached her old age. It is the age in which people can hardly adjust. You are young and clever. Adjust with them accordingly.

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