Ok, I understood it is always but its a doubt whether it is write wrong. anyway it is related to mother in law. So i need to know. So that i can get rid of her harassment as now a days every mother in law is behaving as a cruel person with her daughter in law. But I don't understand both are ladies only , then why mother in law treat daughter in law as a outer person.why can't she treat as her family member anyhow daughter in law is her son's wife na

Four out of ten women have an “uneasy” relationship with their mother-in-law, a survey has revealed.
Here are Mother-in-laws’ worst traits
http://www.indianexpress.com/news/motherinlaws--worst-traits/1031016/

What most people fail to see is the kind of insecurities the mother in law might have - first of all she has to share her son with anther woman who becomes much more close and intimate to him and also the kitchen and home which used be her domain..everything else revolves around it and unless things start off with understanding from both sides and a positive note there will be life long battle between the two..

I am having good relationship with my mother in law. When I got married she also hated me , now it has changed. Now she likes me.