Is there the need of a stick?

No never, according to me it should never be done...Using stick or any kind of physical violence at school or at home should be totally condemned.I have brought up 3 children and though they have driven me up the wall many times and I have screamed at them, I have never used any kind of physical violence...It is not needed to discipline children, on the contrary you are encouraging violence and physical abuse and they begin to feel that doing the same to others is acceptable..

Scolding may somewhere work but beating with stick will may make child more stubborn.

you are exactly true, we should never beat our children with stick. We should make them understand what their mistake is.

you are exactly true, we should never beat our children with stick. We should make them understand what their mistake is.

actually if we will make them understand the difference of right and wrong they wont repeat it again and hence no need of using stick..

Many people say, we should teach our kids only with love, not with a stick. If we scold and beat them regularly, they will loose the fear of stick. Is it true? What is your opinion? What is your strategy for teaching your children?

I think where we have to teach our child with love,there we should teach them with love and where we should be strict,there we should be strict.
Now,it depends on ourself,where we are teaching or child with love and where with Strict.

Spare the rod, spoil the child- This is age old rule. Rod may be used sparingly but cannot be totally avoided. Punishment for offences and mistakes is must from childhood to adulthood.

But punishment does not mean beating angrily. There must be proportion between offence and punishment. A child must know as to what are the offences for which he will be punished. Punishment must be neither too severe nor too light.

No its not at all necessary to have a stick as kids are too soft they could be easily persuaded for anything if you do it with love. :)

Yes, there is no need to use stick to make a kid to study or control. We should not beat our children. We should make them know what mistake they are doing and what is good and what is bad.

they should be taught with love not by stick.

Children will become more angry and won't study. They will feel disturb,when you will take Stick.
I think fear is important,because discipline is such that you can learn until fear is there.
But,try to be polite with children.

yes, as a parents we should make our children understand their mistake and make them know what is right and what is wrong. if they do wrong what will be the consequences we should make them understand then they will never repeat the things

Only Polite is also not good. This will make your child more strong in committing mistakes.
So,the fear should be there in child,of thinking before he/she commit mistake.

Children are very naughty.They do not listen their elders not even their teacher.But that does not mean that we will beat children with stick.We should speak with children politely and in a very friendly manner.If they still behave badly then we just simply show your eyes and scold them.Or just make them scare with what you feel that your children gets afraid of.

Sometimes the stick teaches them more than love. But Rarely i use stick to my children.

To teach a children it is very essential to interact with them in a very friendly manner.Stick is not the solution.Beating with stick can sometime harm them.So avoid using sticks.

To teach a children it is very essential to interact with them in a very friendly manner.Stick is not the solution.Beating with stick can sometime harm them.So avoid using sticks.

You are right and Mother may be a good friend to a kid as she remains very close with a child.

Actually children fell sick if they are badly scold and beaten by the elders. It is also true that they may not feel scared of being beaten with stick after certain age.

Yes. There is a need for stick. Because only with the love we can't control our children and make them as a good citizen. :whistle: :whistle:

Yes. There is a need for stick. Because only with the love we can't control our children and make them as a good citizen. :whistle: :whistle:

There is need for balancing. Too much love and too much scolding/ punishment both are improper.

There is no need of stick but there certainly is the need of strict vigil on children. They must be kept under strict discipline for their better future.