There is a reason for every relation, we make in our life. There is some purpose of those relations. In every relation, there are expectations. If your relation is with someone is very good or you are very close to that person, more and more expectation will be there. Without expectation, the existence of the relation is not there. But, there is nothing wrong in expecting anything from our people. If we don’t expect from our people, then with whom, we should keep our expectation?

The person, who doesn’t have expectation, has an inefficiency of something. We humans live with expectation and to fulfill the expectation we work hard. Humans don’t only expect to get love, but also to love as well. You would feel lucky and fortunate, if you have a person, who loves you very much.

Love needs mirror. If you want to give something, but there is no one to take then what will happen? To love someone, is also the human’s expectation. To love someone is humans Necessity. Every person loves someone or other. The person, who doesn’t know how to love, can’t give love to other. We have always said and heard that in love there should no expectation. In listening these talk, looks very simple, but in reality it is completely different. In love, there is always an expectation.

Let’s have an example for understand these about facts, which we have discussed. There was one couple, who used to love each other very much. The man used to love his Women, used to fulfill all her needs, used to satisfy all the things which the women wants. The Man always used to say to that women, who was his lover, that I have no expectation from her. The man used to tell her that, I love you from my bottom of my heart. The women one day told to her lover that you always tell me that I have no expectation, but I think that you should have expectation from me, as the enjoyment in fulfilling the expectation is in love and also she added that you too have expectation. You are lying to me. Man didn’t understood his lovers thought.

Once, the women have reduced talking with her lover. She was not responding to her lover’s response. If she brings flowers for him, she puts next to her lover. If she brings Chocolate for her lover, she doesn’t give him and give it some boy. Man was very sad due to this behavior of his lover. After having tired of looking such behavior, he asked to his lover, that, why you are behaving with me like this? She answered by saying that, you didn’t had expectation. She told that you do your work according to you and I will do my work according to myself. The Man told that this is not fair. The Women told to her lover that, then you should tell the truth, that he also wants love from her. The women added that Expectation is must. She wants that love between them should go beyond their limit. She tells that expectation would be there between us. Both of have expectation on each other. She tells to her lover that, I want to increase this expectation ever more than before. The women had huge expectation but she also wanted to agree to her lover that she too gives that equal love to him. To tell that there is no expectation decreases the love. So it’s better to have huge expectation. This will make our relation more strong than before.

Human being should always keep the expectation. To satisfy expectation is LOVE. That is the relation. There are many people in this world that feels happy when they themselves satisfy the expectation of their people. Human being becomes happier when he/she gives happy to their people.

Human beings always love 2 things. One is Price and other is Surprise. The purpose of giving Surprise is always to keep their people and family happy. If we see in one way, that is also our expectation to see our people and family happy. If we go to someone’s house to give surprise and if that person instead of becoming happy, becomes angry to you then? That makes you more sad, as you get opposite of what you had expected.

There is no problem in keeping expectation. One thing we should keep in our mind that our expectation should not be such that other person can't satisfy. Many times, even when the person has expectation of fulfilling others needs, but due to some problems, he/she can’t fulfill it. It doesn’t mean that he/she doesn’t have love. Every human being has some limit. Every Human being has some restrictions.

Our expectation should not overcome the love. Sometimes, when our expectation goes high, and the other person, is not able to fulfill that expectation, then the relation between those people becomes weak. I think we should understand the other person also. His/her limit should be our mind before expecting. Love always takes exams. We should not create difficulty for other person, towards expectation. This could be worst in our relation and the relations could break. Love always gives the answers. If the expectation which are not fulfilled now, will be fulfilled tomorrow. Every Morning is a new start. Every morning new expectations arise. So once ignored, it can be fulfilled next time.

One Beloved told to her lover that I ask something from you and you provide me, is disagree to me. This doesn’t mean that I don’t want anything from you. What I want that even though I don’t ask from you, and you satisfy my needs, is what I want from you. Well! This discussion is not about asking anything or giving anything, but it’s that understanding that is needed in between the Beloved and her lover. You could feel that joy within you and your lover, when the understanding meets between them. Without sound even Disgust doesn’t remain still. If you disgust to someone and he/she doesn’t feel that disgust. If you slap a person and he/she doesn’t feel that slap on the face then? If that disgust is not possible without sound, then how could love be possible?

In every relation, we have an expectation if happiness or Sadness. Every time we have an expectation to reduce the sadness and increase the happiness among our people. More and more close relations, more and more expectations. If we are having 5 friends and from them they would 2 or 3 friends with whom our tuning is very good and they always remain in touch with you. So, you would have more expectations from them.

If we believe on our friends of not expecting those things which he/she did, we say that I didn’t expected from you. We always have an expectation from our friends to be good with our self. Also, we have an expectation from our self as well to do well. We check our self various times that we are not going wrong on our path. Various times we get Negative thoughts in our mind that makes us angry and we could do something wrong with us or with other.

There were 2 friends. One friend told to other about some internal things, which he is going to commit. The other friend thought that his friend is not doing right. He told to his friend, that you are not doing this right. The friend told to other friend that I was not expecting this from you. The other friend told that what were you expecting? You thought that I am would agree to your work, which you are going to do? Or I told no, that you didn’t expect? In the end the other friend told that, because I think that the work which you are going to do is not good, that’s why I told you to remain away but even though you commit this work, then too I will be with you, because you are my friend. To satisfy expectation by closing our eyes is also not love.

There is a huge difference between Expectation and Hegemony. Various times our expectations goes to the limit of Hegemony and this hegemony is responsible for the ending our relation and love with others. Keep expectation in love and be ready to fulfill those expectations. Just keep one thing in the mind that the expectations should not be able to touch the sky when the expectations can’t be heard.

I love him more than I love any one else
There is some one who can hit me, slap my face, make me stinky and that would still make me love him even more, make me not angry a bit. I am afraid of him because he can pull my laptop and can do many more weird jobs whenever he wants to and whatever he feels like. In addition, the height of this all is, he laughs aloud doing such things.

Yes, I am talking about the small fellow who was born on April22, 2011 to my only daughter in India although he is an Australian citizen now. This boy makes me think now whether this is my daughter who is most loved one to me or this little lovely angel. Anyway, this baby has almost replaced her, my daughter, from number one spot of the list of most loved ones. This pic was taken while he was 7 months in Bangalore.

We changed our plan
I never knew that every thing would change so fast for me before this kid was born, although we all had been waiting so eagerly for his arrival. Every passing day brought me nearer to him and as much, he was growing. He is one of the most precious people whom I know today. He makes me visit my daughter’s place occasionally and more frequently now.

Yes, he certainly is a charmer, He is adorable and I love his smile. Personally, I think a grandchild has a tighter lock on the heart of a grandparent than that child's parent ever did as a baby. I do not know if that is because we have reached an age where we are more relaxed about the antics of a toddler, or because we do not have to live with them twenty-four hours a day, seven days a week. Whatever, I enjoy the company of my own grandson as much as I did his mother's at the same age!

He reminds us of our daughter
What I feel is that they remind us of the childhood of our own children. I feel more attached with him as I was really missing my daughter for such a long time. She went for her studies first then joined the job, so when I found this little one, my experience was so much as if I got her back and now whenever I am away from him makes me feel to go rejoin him as soon as possible

There are so many memories I have in my mind to share with someone weather or not any one interested to listen to me. However, I cannot stop myself from sharing them despite knowing, every one has his own quota of such adorable memories of their own.
How can I forget the way he pulls my hair while he is around me while I am working and he is trying to draw my attention? Just how can I forget the way he wants to rush toward me while he sees me walking anywhere near him. Yes, he cannot walk properly on his feet yet but he knows how to make his moves fast enough on all his four.

The entire life changes with a new member in our life
How do things change when a child comes in our life? That changes every plan we may have for our future life. This is so true at least in my case. I had so many things those were taking shape in my mind while I resigned from my whole time job in ’09 and thought of taking up to writing some funny articles, which I thought I was capable of writing.

All my plans failed
This was absolutely an ideal situation for me when I married off my daughter and was taking things lightly sitting with my flowers in my lawn and a book in my mind about, different tourist spots within my country and a few nearby countries. This was a joint venture with my wife, who was supposed to do camera work for the book while I was to do typing part of it, traveling around the places, gathering data and information.

No I did not know this would happen to me as I had been traveling with my wife every once in a while- while I was working on my book along with my wife and I had posted some of the chapters here on hubpages in my earlier account. I hope I shall bring them back some time soon. Thanks for your great contribution, my best regards. A moneylender always loves the interest rather than the Principal

I have done a lot of hard work doing this picture the way it looks. He was 8 months then.

We rushed to take care of our daughter
However, with news of an expected guest soon changed our plans halfway and we rushed to our daughter’s place to take care of her during her time of need. The baby was born while we were still there and we felt the same as we did so many years before while our only child our daughter was born. We really enjoyed the childhood allover again. The newly born baby gave us all the memories back. The kids are such a joy to live with; they make us feel so joyful. They are gifts of God.

He is almost my lifeline now. I long for him whenever I am away for him. I had been to Sydney a couple of month’s back, just to see him, to play with him. I had some work back here so could not stay there for long enough. I think that is because they remind us the childhood of our own kids, every thing goes back in flashback and you love them even more. I am happy to note that some of my friends are also waiting for some great news coming their way soon as they too are expecting their first grandchildren. I am planning to start a grand parent’s club with them.

HE WAS TWO MONTHS IN THIS PIC

With nothing to do, I am doing lots of funny thing
You see people think that I am doing so many funny things online but I cannot help it as trying to divert my attention from my children who are too far and wife busy with her own activities I have lots of time to kill. I do it on online activities that keep me busy and away from memories of my kiddo. I hope to see my children soon while they shall visit us or if they fail to make it here, we shall be off to Sydney.

          Life doesn’t goes in the way as we want. We have to go, where the life takes us. We have to face the challenges which the life gives us. Time always changes and we never know what can happen next. That is the principle of life to change and give lots of challenges to the people. Various situations come in our life, where we can take a U- turn and move back. We have to face and prove to our perfection. We can’t avoid those situations. Any situation, time and moment, if you can change, then, you should do anything to make changes. But if you can’t, just let it be and accept it, because that will be the best solution for you.

          On Every step we move forward, life test us. If we know the answer to that test, we feel that the Test was very easy. The tough test is indeed a tough for us. We never think that why those answer to question was tough, it was because we don’t have the solution for it. To know the answers we have to find the answers. We have to find the right key to open those set of questions which we don’t know.

          One Child told to his father that when I would be free from this education, from these Exams? By laughing father said till the life is with you, this education, this exam will be till there. At present you are studying, you are having syllabus, you are having your books, you are having guide, and the main thing that you know very well that when your Exams are there. After your Education ends, the real life will start. At that time, there will be no exams, you will not have books with you, you will not have guide with you, also you will not have the timetable with you, and suddenly there will be problems and situations where you will given the sum and you have to solve to move forward. For every situation, you have to ready.

          In Examination, there are many questions which are compulsory to solve. You have to give answer to those questions. Life also has that same rule. There are some questions, which we have to solve. We don’t have any option. You have to Pass or clear in that exam. In life we have to get happiness. There are various situations which will arrive to you and you have to determine yourself that you have to clear and win that situation for you, for your family and for the prosperity. But all humans don’t have strong heart and most of the humans give up and start crying. This is not fair. We many times think that why me? Why I only suffer? I am innocent. I have got the punishment without been guilty. Why this kind of responsibilities and problems came to me? Such type of questions, such type of complaint is of no use. Don’t question any one, just find the answer. If you will find the answers, you will get it. There is always a solution for a particular problem. Nothing is impossible. At Various occasion we only run away from the solution.

          Many times, we only burn our self internally. Our soul burns. We do or die. We keep de- motivating our self in this. There will be loss of ours only. We just give up towards our life. We just want to liberate our self from life. This can’t be done. Struggle is a part of life and every human being struggle to survive. We are not the special for GOD. For GOD everyone is equal. We should fight with the life and should get it what we want from the life. How much humans are intelligent and understandable can’t be recognized by his/her talk but how he/she handles the situation, the destiny which comes to him/her and he/she comes out victoriously from the situation. There are many people who are very good in giving advice, but when they themselves have to handle any situation, they also give up. Always remember that people will talk about you. They will advice you. They don’t have to face the challenge, its ultimately you have to face the challenges and problems, so it is very important how you feel? How you understand your problem?

          When life doesn’t give an option, it is ultimately you have to find the options. Life is not a Quiz or any question where you are having 4 answers of it. The quiz of life is such that, there you will find the questions, but answers are not there. There are only questions. First you have to solve the question and get few answers and from those few answers you have to choose the appropriate one for yourself. For your happiness, develop yourself to find those options for you and from that choose a good and best option for yourself. It is not necessary that every time you will get the correct answer. If it is not correct, still accept it.

          If the problem you are facing is more difficult, then don’t worry, some day or other you will get the solution. There are many people in this world, who face problems and fight with that. If you have committed mistake, don’t worry. There is not a single human being in this earth, who has not committed mistake. Don’t run from the situation, face it and fight with it. If you will run from situation, then situation will follow you and won’t leave you. You are the decider of your life.

          Most of times, we are sad, because we run from the situations and we are not ready to accept the situation. Any human being who fight with the situation he faces, is less sad and remain happy for long term. When you have only one way to go, then you can’t say that fault is of the way you have taken. When you will go more forward, then the new ways would open for you. But most of times, we just stay there and find the ways. If you want to move forward, then you have to leave one place and go to another.

          One child was born in the jungle. The Parents of that child was living in jungle. In the jungle itself, that child was born & brought up by his parents. Once another human, was roaming in the jungle and they both met each other. Human told that I have came here outside of the jungle. He asked to the child that do you know outside of this jungle, there is one city? There life is very different from jungle. Do you want to come with me? That person who was living in jungle told that No, I don’t want to come. I am happy here. The human who was from outside, told that this is your assumption. You have accepted the happiness, where you are. Without seeing outside, how you have decided that you are happy here and you will be feel sad, when you will go outside. Many times, we just think that wherever we are, we are happy and we don’t try to go beyond that area. We should always try to go beyond our limit and should see what are the other thing, that could give us happiness. If we don’t try, then we will never understand what is beyond our limit.

          In the life, we also do this same thing which this man, who has grown up in jungle is doing. We never come out of the life we are living and we assume that beyond this life, there we will only get sadness and nothing else. It is true that we don’t get happiness always, when we go beyond, from where are right now, but to stop there and should not try to go beyond is also not fair. We just stop thinking and that makes our life more tense.

          Do you never realized that you are jam- pack from inside(from soul)? We should come outside, live a good and amazing life, which we want to live. From our assumption, there is lot more to see in the life, there is lot more to experience life. If we will live in darkness, it is possible that we would fall in love with the darkness and when we will come in light, then it is possible that we fear from light. But we have to come out and find the solution for our happiness. If you can change the situation, then you should definitely to change. The construction of your happiness, it only in the hands of you. Happiness is never hidden, we just need to keep our eyes open to get it.