Every Human wants to become something in life. Human thinks a lot to get more and more from God. Everyone desires are unlimited. Only Saint, don’t have Wish and desire to get anything. Rest all the humans, like to have everything in their life. Human desires and wishes are unstoppable. If he/she thinks to have one wish, from that one wish, another wish is develop and from those 2 wishes, it turns to 4 and these wishes goes on and on. Human are hungry to get every wish in their life. Yes, God has a control on those wishes and fulfills only few of them.

Whatever we see today in our life, from those, few would have thought of our self and from those wishes we had been given birth to this Earth. Also the nature we see in front of us is just because of our wishes. From all the birth that has took place on this earth, only Humans have a capacity to think about our wishes. From many years, Animals and birds are there on this Earth, no one had wished to Cook food on Stove or Burner or Hotplate. It was the thinking of humans that has made possible to create this Technology.

Our Ancestors would have dreamed or would have wished to fly like all birds do and may be because of their wishes, we could fly in Airplane. We have even touch the Space, just because of those dreams of our Ancestors. This all would have possible because the humans were having a deep wish, a long desire to get everything in life.

The main point of understanding is that there are many people in this world, who don’t know their actual wish. What actually, they want to achieve? To achieve what goal they are living in this planet? Few people do realize, but much later, when everything is gone from their hands. Those people, who are not good in understanding their wishes, should think towards themselves and then they should put their energy in right direction. Sometimes people do tell that they are working hard but they are not getting anything, this is because, the energy they are putting is not in right direction. They should think wisely about themselves and then they should take proper decision.

In Studies, some students score good marks and do take admission in Medical Science, but afterwards they become sad. Because the decision they had took is not according to their wishes. We should have a clear mind-set to become something in life. When you will have a clear mind-set to become something, then it would be very easy to put your full concentration and full energy towards your goal.

I was very frustrated with myself. Whenever I have done something wrong in my life, suddenly after doing it, I would realize that I shouldn’t have done that. I used to say that I can’t do anything in my life and would remain as it is, as I am now. Many people used to advice me to change myself and do the good things in life. I used to agree with them at that moment and think within myself that I would change myself. But on the next day, again I used to forget everything what the people have advice me and I used to commit that same mistake every day.

Again I would realize that, I have done wrong, but that realization would be of only few minutes. After few months I realized that I am addicted of doing wrong things. I was building this addiction. After few months I thought to change myself again and again thought about that advice that was given to me, when I have started to get addict. I thought for a while, that if I am not going to change myself, I would be stuck in a web and could not come out.

It took me sometimes to come out from that web. I want to tell you what I did to forget the wrong things from my mind and to be a normal person. I changed my life, by not concentrating on those things which I don’t want to do, but rather I concentrated on the things which I want to achieve. More and more negative you think, more and more you will involve in negativity. So, never think negative. Positive is all you have to think.

It will take time to remove all negative thoughts from your mind, but you have to determine that you are not going to follow your negative thoughts. For some days, it would like a Tennis game; ball will come from negative thoughts to positive thoughts and from positive thoughts to negative thoughts but slowly you will be able to achieve only positive thoughts in yourself.

I wanted to become a good person and I was before getting into addiction, but somehow I was disturb from my goal and because of some personal reason, I had forgotten my path. But later when I realized that I am only going to be bad person, I stood to myself and decided that I would be a good person. Friends, there is nothing you get when you become a bad person. You just get so much stress, tension and all you get is unhappiness. The goodness lies in Happiness. We should be happy all the time. We should be positive in our self and being positive we could change our self.

Time and Date are the proof that nothing stay for a long time. Everything changes; even we human beings can’t be in a one state for long time. There is nothing which is silent and permanent. Nature goes on changing its color. Rainbow comes in the Monsoon for sometimes, but doesn’t remain for long time. The wind which is blowing now will become silent after few minutes or hours. When the Rose grows on a tree, quell will also grow. We see lots of changes continuously. This is nature of life.

If everything is changing in nature, then how can we restrict human beings to be same every time in their life? With time not only age grows, but lots of other changes we see in humans. We see variation in our life. Sometimes we do increase our level, but sometimes we find degradation in our self. Human don’t have that consistency every time. At time goes on, a good person changes his/her habit and become worst. There is nothing wrong in changing our self, but should never become a wrong person or we should never develop bad habit in our self. It is tough for the bad person to become good person. But somehow, if a person works hard to change himself/herself, it is possible. Determination is needed for becoming good.

This signature we do in a Love letter and Divorce paper is the same, the difference is, when we sign in a divorce paper the vibration in our hand and heart beats increases. The person, with whom we loved so much, looks quell in our life, which gives pain. Human being is unpredictable. We can’t say, when the person who is very good in nature, changes himself/herself into a bad nature. The person, who can’t walk with the time, remains backward in life. If the human being is not able to accept the changes, his/her downfall is confirmed.

So, we should be happy always in life. Downfall will come in your life. There is no person in this earth, so has not seen downfall in his/her life. Understand the changes that come to you and accept it. The person, who is determined and understand life, can live a good life on earth.

Teezon and swing- cradles traditions
This was Teezon on Sunday the 22 July the traditional festival for ladies in some parts of country. This is a festival of joy for most ladies but costs dearly to men as the demands come in thick and fast. I got away easy comparatively as I spent only INR 4k, a sari did the trick for me. Let me tell you the way most ladies celebrate it. They paint their hands and feet with henna the previous night, although this is an old style but modern women go to professionals sitting on either the roadsides or beauty parlors. They spend some real good money for preparing for the big day.

Swings on trees in parks
Teezon, celebrated mostly on swings on big trees singing songs with friends in parks is the main attraction of the day after the usual fast and worshiping in traditional way. As trees disappearing fast from the cities, the swings mostly have been limited to personal gardens or balconies but every one enjoys them the same old style. While women do it for fun and joy, children find this very interesting and become the part of the festival. Swings for home purpose are available in many designs and styles according to size of space and pocket.

Hanging swings
As our population is increasing and space for parks and playing fields are reducing in city areas women are finding it tough to celebrate this wonderful traditional festival in its original style. Therefore, there is no choice but to go for some makeshift arrangements. That is the only way to keep the old traditions and mood to celebrate this festival as lively as they can. They have found their alternatives in different swings, which are available in the market according to their need and demand.

Makeshift swing - Detachable

This swing would take you back to olden days when ladies used to have a full-fledged go swings in parks where swings were available at trees with women swinging with Sawan songs for hours together amid the drizzle. Hat was real fun - so is this swing, you can hang it anywhere. This swing could be a better choice for small flats as this is a lightweight, consumes very little space and you can adjust it according to your choice. You find these in different sizes and designs to select from, according to your choice.

Makeshift swings – comfy

This one is a little bigger than others and would serve the purpose if your house is spacious and better still if have lobby big enough to accommodate it. Most people with big gardens have these there with covered shades. A big Barandah or terrace would be just fine to have one such swing to have all the fun. Managing them or shifting them is not easy because they have enough weight but if you have space, there is nothing better then these. I have seen such swings in big houses with all kind of decoration including fancy cushions etc.

Makeshift swings – knitted

These knitted swings made of rope or soft polyester fabric are most easy to fix and use. Most people use knitted swings for outings and picnic because these are easy to fold. Such swings are also available in different size, colors and price range. Take your pick

Makeshift swings – Standing

Standing swings are the choice of the day today because these are available in different shapes, designs, colors and price range. These are easy to fix because you can easily fix them any where in your balcony, lawn or garden. Most manufacturers are using wrought iron for framework because it is light and easy to carry. The swing part is mainly comprises cane or knitted material. People today are going such designer swings according to their choice. These swings are available in branded or non-branded verities according to your budget.