Every Man in his life, talks to himself about his own life. Why my life is like this? Why not my life is like I thought? Whenever I try to hold my life, why it just go from myself? and When i think that it should be away from me, then it doesn't goes. Why life is not According to me? What life wants from me? Sometimes life just melts to me and sometimes it becomes so strong like stone. At various times, life stuck me somewhere between where i don't get any solution to come out of it. Life is something which gives us a question to find and at the end life gives us the way to solve the question and gives answer. Why life gives us so much confusion? Life plays a game with us and gives the Opportunity to make us win. If sometimes we lose with the life, life itself motivates us to rise up and move ahead.
Many times, we say to the life, that Its too much now, played enough with us. Life has played many games with us .Now, let us live a life, which we want to live. Sometimes life gives us tears in our eyes. Sometimes, it makes us Dumb, so that we can't speak about life. Sometimes life do gives us a fear. Sometimes, life makes our laugh, sometimes it makes us happy .In the end, we realize that whatever life gives us, we have to be satisfied with that and had to live, whatever it gives us. That is what the nature of life. When we quietly ask the life, what it says to us, a light, briskly, voice comes from somewhere that YOU HAVE TO LIVE. Whether it is Win or Loss, whether it is tiredness or happiness, whether it is complaint or feeling, life tells us that we have to live. We can't stop to live. We have to decided, how we have to live?
Every Human Being is overall a sensitive person. Sometimes tears comes in our eyes and this give a proof that Our Feelings are alive. With Tears , our thrust is not hidden, but Torment gets little reduce. Sometimes, with our eyes few Complaint falls down. Our feelings, makes our self to think much beyond our imaginations. Feelings gives us Sorrow or Happiness? This depends on which track we take our Feelings. Life gives us 2 Ways. One Way goes to Darkness and other way goes to Light. We have to decided, in which way we want to proceed.
Let me tell you one story. Once, One Friend tells to other friend that I am not getting any Concentration .Everywhere I feel the Darkness. Life looks like stuck somewhere. What will happen is beyond my imagination. Everything looks tense. Everything looks Empty. Its like full Stop and after that there is no new Sentence. The Friend who was listening him, was a Mountaineer. He said that Once they climb the Mountain. When they Came to the middle on the Mountain, there was rush of Breeze. They were not able to move Ahead also they were not able to get back from where they started Climbing. Looking for the Breeze to get silent, there falls a Darkness in the cloud. Now we asked our Leader, that now there will be darkness in the night, what we will do? Leader said Just be silent, don't do anything, just handle yourself in the best way you can. The Leader said this Breeze will Stop . This night will also be over. Just take sometime and be steady.
The Friend who was a Mountaineer told this his story and motivating his friend told that Just be steady. Not to Fear. Don't lose your confidence. This night will go and with its going, will bring lots of brightness in your life. There would be many occasion on which we could not make our self waited for a good time to began. We sometimes do tell our self, if we could had waited for that particular, life would be taken turn and it could be ours. But sometimes, we get excited and don't wait for anyone, this sometimes could be Expensive to us, to our life. So, we should wait for the Proper time for our self. Little steadiness will make our life more better .
We are the Humans, who looks that what kind of life, other people are living. We think that their life is more stable, with more happiness. But this is not really true. Everyone has their own life, where they have struggled and got enough pain from their life .Many times we take the life's Challenges as a pain. Those are not the Pain or Sorrows but a kind of Web, by which we need to come out. Any Question or any Problem or any Incident looks like Sad to us. When these Questions are Emotional we get little disturb. Any Love, Any Attachment with others, if they give pain to us, our heart breaks down. The Problems of Our Relations are very difficult to handle.
Let me tell you one more story of a Son and Father. There was a Son who was having many Complaint of his father. He always used to tell his father that why you did this? Why you did this wrong? I didn't expected from you to do such things? You don't think of others? Once the father told to his son that, what you see in myself, this is what i am. May be i am bad or little Good. Will you accept me, just as you see me? He tells that Yes, I am having few Drawback, but there are also Drawbacks in you as well. I am also having various Complaint about you, and there are some relations on those Complaint and you are the only you can see these Drawbacks. If we try to change each other, then in this life, we won't be able to understand each other.
Life, Relation and Human Beings are something, we should accept as it is. These 3 can't be according to us. On these things the life depends. Human Beings can't make love and give Sorrow Together. Human beings either can give love to us or Give Sorrow to Us. If we try to do both things together, we won't get anything except PAIN. Either Give love or give Sorrow, but don't compaint. Many people in the Shades of Love, may give Sorrow to others, they don't leave one thing, want to do both. quarrels goes on, still they don't leave that quarrel and be as nothing is going on and they show that they are united. To leave the love is a very easy but to leave the Sorrows and Pain in difficult. If you don't have a love on anyone, then leave them. Make them free and you too become happy, but we don't do like this and go on fighting. You can't have somebody with you, when you are like a killer, who everyday fight with others and don't make other happy. When you give pain to others, don't forget that you will get that pain double.
Some situation or Condition of Life is such that you can't avoid them. There are many situation which surprises and stand in front of yourself. You have to face them any how. How you face these Surprises also depends and gets fixed on how you take your life. Various people just gets down, leave it , quit from life and Some people understand after a long time, that what they have Quit from the life. So, Change your Nature, Change your feelings about other, try to be happy and try to make others happy, LIFE IS BEAUTIFUL.