Kids learn anything that we make them understand with love and affection. Beating or mistreating them can never bring them to terms.

Vinoba Bhave could turn the hardcore Chambal valley dacoits in to normal citizens making them join the mainstream. The potion he used is LOVE. Its true in the case of children too.

There are few examples of such people as most of the parents teach their kids with both love and fear. :blink:

Fear is differ from beating. Beating means physical harrshement.

I think some kids brought up in complex situations need thrashing before they come to terms. They do not understand straight talks.

The very fact that a child doesn't hear a straight talk points out towards 'wrong Parenting.' Parents who lack patience evade most of the childish questions asked by curious children, which is natural in a child's kife. It means parents are not straight with their children. That's why some children are not convinced with parents' straight talk.

Kids learn anything that we make them understand with love and affection. Beating or mistreating them can never bring them to terms.

Vinoba Bhave could turn the hardcore Chambal valley dacoits in to normal citizens making them join the mainstream. The potion he used is LOVE. Its true in the case of children too.

There are few examples of such people as most of the parents teach their kids with both love and fear. :blink:

Fear is differ from beating. Beating means physical harrshement.

I think some kids brought up in complex situations need thrashing before they come to terms. They do not understand straight talks.

The very fact that a child doesn't hear a straight talk points out towards 'wrong Parenting.' Parents who lack patience evade most of the childish questions asked by curious children, which is natural in a child's kife. It means parents are not straight with their children. That's why some children are not convinced with parents' straight talk.

That is why I wrote 'brought up in complex situations, none of child's fault but he suffers due to bad parenting'

Kids learn anything that we make them understand with love and affection. Beating or mistreating them can never bring them to terms.

Vinoba Bhave could turn the hardcore Chambal valley dacoits in to normal citizens making them join the mainstream. The potion he used is LOVE. Its true in the case of children too.

There are few examples of such people as most of the parents teach their kids with both love and fear. :blink:

Fear is differ from beating. Beating means physical harrshement.

I think some kids brought up in complex situations need thrashing before they come to terms. They do not understand straight talks.

The very fact that a child doesn't hear a straight talk points out towards 'wrong Parenting.' Parents who lack patience evade most of the childish questions asked by curious children, which is natural in a child's kife. It means parents are not straight with their children. That's why some children are not convinced with parents' straight talk.

That is why I wrote 'brought up in complex situations, none of child's fault but he suffers due to bad parenting'

Yes I read it. And, I have elucidated what those 'complexities' are and the reasons behind. You can say it as a clarification. Many parents will simply dismiss the questions of their children, " Baccha , Tum Nahin Samjhega.". That's they are killing the enthusiasm in the child, which is very important.

Kids learn anything that we make them understand with love and affection. Beating or mistreating them can never bring them to terms.

Vinoba Bhave could turn the hardcore Chambal valley dacoits in to normal citizens making them join the mainstream. The potion he used is LOVE. Its true in the case of children too.

There are few examples of such people as most of the parents teach their kids with both love and fear. :blink:

Fear is differ from beating. Beating means physical harrshement.

I think some kids brought up in complex situations need thrashing before they come to terms. They do not understand straight talks.

The very fact that a child doesn't hear a straight talk points out towards 'wrong Parenting.' Parents who lack patience evade most of the childish questions asked by curious children, which is natural in a child's kife. It means parents are not straight with their children. That's why some children are not convinced with parents' straight talk.

That is why I wrote 'brought up in complex situations, none of child's fault but he suffers due to bad parenting'

Yes I read it. And, I have elucidated what those 'complexities' are and the reasons behind. You can say it as a clarification. Many parents will simply dismiss the questions of their children, " Baccha , Tum Nahin Samjhega.". That's they are killing the enthusiasm in the child, which is very important.

Excess of any type is bad. One should not be cruel to child but some times moderate punishment may be necessary.

Withiut using any physical punishment one can still be firm and get the message across, and I feel that is much more effective ...

Hmm.. This topic surely have mix opinion. For me I guess beating should be the last option when parents not having any option when kid is not listening at all. Otherwise we always have other good options. :)

Hmm.. This topic surely have mix opinion. For me I guess beating should be the last option when parents not having any option when kid is not listening at all. Otherwise we always have other good options. :)

I think kid still needs another chance even if you thought it was your last option. Sometimes diverting his attention works wonders when nothing else seems to work at all.