People say its not right to beat kids!

I always believe that we should really beat kids when things are out of control. When after requesting several times if kid is not obeying then to Control him parents should raise their hand. But this should only be done in adverse condition.

But beating takes them nowhere, it only helps to create more adversity for both!!!
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I do agree that more you put restrictions more it get adverse. But if parents won't tell them then who is going to show what is Correct? Our relatives cannot beat and tell them. It is is only Parents who can beat them and show that what is correct.
I don't say that beating is the only solution. But beating is one solution to bring kids on track

But it is not assured that with beating we can brink our child on track. beating have both positive and negative effects. But fear of parents must be in kids.

What I feel the concept of parenting is changing. If you treat your kid like a friend, he would probably act/behave better. Fear only leads to hate or the kid would try to keep things hidden from you. Give him a chance to talk openly with honesty and full confidence.

I always believe that we should really beat kids when things are out of control. When after requesting several times if kid is not obeying then to Control him parents should raise their hand. But this should only be done in adverse condition.

But beating takes them nowhere, it only helps to create more adversity for both!!!
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I do agree that more you put restrictions more it get adverse. But if parents won't tell them then who is going to show what is Correct? Our relatives cannot beat and tell them. It is is only Parents who can beat them and show that what is correct.
I don't say that beating is the only solution. But beating is one solution to bring kids on track

But it is not assured that with beating we can brink our child on track. beating have both positive and negative effects. But fear of parents must be in kids.

Fear is one thing children should never have for parents or close family ! That is a very negative feeling and is bound to backfire some day...The parent children relationship chould have just love, mutual respect and camaraderie

I always believe that we should really beat kids when things are out of control. When after requesting several times if kid is not obeying then to Control him parents should raise their hand. But this should only be done in adverse condition.

But beating takes them nowhere, it only helps to create more adversity for both!!!
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I do agree that more you put restrictions more it get adverse. But if parents won't tell them then who is going to show what is Correct? Our relatives cannot beat and tell them. It is is only Parents who can beat them and show that what is correct.
I don't say that beating is the only solution. But beating is one solution to bring kids on track

But it is not assured that with beating we can brink our child on track. beating have both positive and negative effects. But fear of parents must be in kids.

What I feel the concept of parenting is changing. If you treat your kid like a friend, he would probably act/behave better. Fear only leads to hate or the kid would try to keep things hidden from you. Give him a chance to talk openly with honesty and full confidence.

I don't think so sometimes to have fear in mind of kids is better othersiwe they won't hesitate to do something wrong and that fear one need not to build by beating them scolding may do it. :blink:

I always believe that we should really beat kids when things are out of control. When after requesting several times if kid is not obeying then to Control him parents should raise their hand. But this should only be done in adverse condition.

But beating takes them nowhere, it only helps to create more adversity for both!!!
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I do agree that more you put restrictions more it get adverse. But if parents won't tell them then who is going to show what is Correct? Our relatives cannot beat and tell them. It is is only Parents who can beat them and show that what is correct.
I don't say that beating is the only solution. But beating is one solution to bring kids on track

But it is not assured that with beating we can brink our child on track. beating have both positive and negative effects. But fear of parents must be in kids.

Yes, fear mixed with respect can be induced in the child through love alone.

Love is most effective way to win confidence of any one including kids. Once we won confidence than nothing is impossible.

Kids learn anything that we make them understand with love and affection. Beating or mistreating them can never bring them to terms.

Kids learn anything that we make them understand with love and affection. Beating or mistreating them can never bring them to terms.

Vinoba Bhave could turn the hardcore Chambal valley dacoits in to normal citizens making them join the mainstream. The potion he used is LOVE. Its true in the case of children too.

Kids learn anything that we make them understand with love and affection. Beating or mistreating them can never bring them to terms.

Vinoba Bhave could turn the hardcore Chambal valley dacoits in to normal citizens making them join the mainstream. The potion he used is LOVE. Its true in the case of children too.

There are few examples of such people as most of the parents teach their kids with both love and fear. :blink:

Kids learn anything that we make them understand with love and affection. Beating or mistreating them can never bring them to terms.

Vinoba Bhave could turn the hardcore Chambal valley dacoits in to normal citizens making them join the mainstream. The potion he used is LOVE. Its true in the case of children too.

There are few examples of such people as most of the parents teach their kids with both love and fear. :blink:

Fear is differ from beating. Beating means physical harrshement.

Kids learn anything that we make them understand with love and affection. Beating or mistreating them can never bring them to terms.

Vinoba Bhave could turn the hardcore Chambal valley dacoits in to normal citizens making them join the mainstream. The potion he used is LOVE. Its true in the case of children too.

There are few examples of such people as most of the parents teach their kids with both love and fear. :blink:

Fear is differ from beating. Beating means physical harrshement.

I think some kids brought up in complex situations need thrashing before they come to terms. They do not understand straight talks.

Kids learn anything that we make them understand with love and affection. Beating or mistreating them can never bring them to terms.

Vinoba Bhave could turn the hardcore Chambal valley dacoits in to normal citizens making them join the mainstream. The potion he used is LOVE. Its true in the case of children too.

There are few examples of such people as most of the parents teach their kids with both love and fear. :blink:

Fear is differ from beating. Beating means physical harrshement.

I think some kids brought up in complex situations need thrashing before they come to terms. They do not understand straight talks.

The very fact that a child doesn't hear a straight talk points out towards 'wrong Parenting.' Parents who lack patience evade most of the childish questions asked by curious children, which is natural in a child's kife. It means parents are not straight with their children. That's why some children are not convinced with parents' straight talk.

Kids learn anything that we make them understand with love and affection. Beating or mistreating them can never bring them to terms.

Vinoba Bhave could turn the hardcore Chambal valley dacoits in to normal citizens making them join the mainstream. The potion he used is LOVE. Its true in the case of children too.

There are few examples of such people as most of the parents teach their kids with both love and fear. :blink:

Fear is differ from beating. Beating means physical harrshement.

I think some kids brought up in complex situations need thrashing before they come to terms. They do not understand straight talks.

The very fact that a child doesn't hear a straight talk points out towards 'wrong Parenting.' Parents who lack patience evade most of the childish questions asked by curious children, which is natural in a child's kife. It means parents are not straight with their children. That's why some children are not convinced with parents' straight talk.

That is why I wrote 'brought up in complex situations, none of child's fault but he suffers due to bad parenting'

Kids learn anything that we make them understand with love and affection. Beating or mistreating them can never bring them to terms.

Vinoba Bhave could turn the hardcore Chambal valley dacoits in to normal citizens making them join the mainstream. The potion he used is LOVE. Its true in the case of children too.

There are few examples of such people as most of the parents teach their kids with both love and fear. :blink:

Fear is differ from beating. Beating means physical harrshement.

I think some kids brought up in complex situations need thrashing before they come to terms. They do not understand straight talks.

The very fact that a child doesn't hear a straight talk points out towards 'wrong Parenting.' Parents who lack patience evade most of the childish questions asked by curious children, which is natural in a child's kife. It means parents are not straight with their children. That's why some children are not convinced with parents' straight talk.

That is why I wrote 'brought up in complex situations, none of child's fault but he suffers due to bad parenting'

Yes I read it. And, I have elucidated what those 'complexities' are and the reasons behind. You can say it as a clarification. Many parents will simply dismiss the questions of their children, " Baccha , Tum Nahin Samjhega.". That's they are killing the enthusiasm in the child, which is very important.

Kids learn anything that we make them understand with love and affection. Beating or mistreating them can never bring them to terms.

Vinoba Bhave could turn the hardcore Chambal valley dacoits in to normal citizens making them join the mainstream. The potion he used is LOVE. Its true in the case of children too.

There are few examples of such people as most of the parents teach their kids with both love and fear. :blink:

Fear is differ from beating. Beating means physical harrshement.

I think some kids brought up in complex situations need thrashing before they come to terms. They do not understand straight talks.

The very fact that a child doesn't hear a straight talk points out towards 'wrong Parenting.' Parents who lack patience evade most of the childish questions asked by curious children, which is natural in a child's kife. It means parents are not straight with their children. That's why some children are not convinced with parents' straight talk.

That is why I wrote 'brought up in complex situations, none of child's fault but he suffers due to bad parenting'

Yes I read it. And, I have elucidated what those 'complexities' are and the reasons behind. You can say it as a clarification. Many parents will simply dismiss the questions of their children, " Baccha , Tum Nahin Samjhega.". That's they are killing the enthusiasm in the child, which is very important.

Excess of any type is bad. One should not be cruel to child but some times moderate punishment may be necessary.

Kids learn anything that we make them understand with love and affection. Beating or mistreating them can never bring them to terms.

Vinoba Bhave could turn the hardcore Chambal valley dacoits in to normal citizens making them join the mainstream. The potion he used is LOVE. Its true in the case of children too.

There are few examples of such people as most of the parents teach their kids with both love and fear. :blink:

Fear is differ from beating. Beating means physical harrshement.

I think some kids brought up in complex situations need thrashing before they come to terms. They do not understand straight talks.

The very fact that a child doesn't hear a straight talk points out towards 'wrong Parenting.' Parents who lack patience evade most of the childish questions asked by curious children, which is natural in a child's kife. It means parents are not straight with their children. That's why some children are not convinced with parents' straight talk.

That is why I wrote 'brought up in complex situations, none of child's fault but he suffers due to bad parenting'

Yes I read it. And, I have elucidated what those 'complexities' are and the reasons behind. You can say it as a clarification. Many parents will simply dismiss the questions of their children, " Baccha , Tum Nahin Samjhega.". That's they are killing the enthusiasm in the child, which is very important.

Excess of any type is bad. One should not be cruel to child but some times moderate punishment may be necessary.

Knowing to what extent a child can be pampered and when a child should be reprimanded and when a child should be canned are the nuances in Parenting. One who knows the nuances is a successful parent.

Withiut using any physical punishment one can still be firm and get the message across, and I feel that is much more effective ...

Withiut using any physical punishment one can still be firm and get the message across, and I feel that is much more effective ...

I am of the same opinion.punishment in any form will yield negative results.

Physical punishment or harassment towards children for any reason is not encouragable.

Hmm.. This topic surely have mix opinion. For me I guess beating should be the last option when parents not having any option when kid is not listening at all. Otherwise we always have other good options. :)

Hmm.. This topic surely have mix opinion. For me I guess beating should be the last option when parents not having any option when kid is not listening at all. Otherwise we always have other good options. :)

I think kid still needs another chance even if you thought it was your last option. Sometimes diverting his attention works wonders when nothing else seems to work at all.

Hmm.. This topic surely have mix opinion. For me I guess beating should be the last option when parents not having any option when kid is not listening at all. Otherwise we always have other good options. :)

I think kid still needs another chance even if you thought it was your last option. Sometimes diverting his attention works wonders when nothing else seems to work at all.

No doubt that at times young children can be very difficult to handle and the parent may be tired and at her/his wits end.But with all that it is better to deal with them firmly rather than use physical force.I remember an incident where a mother was so angry with her child for being difficult that she pushed the child away and the child slipped and feel against the wall splitting the side of the face and ear deformed for life...