Do all parents need a girl child????

I have both and thats true boys are naughty compared to the girls but i always wanted to have a child and never thought of a girl or a boy i am lucky that i have twins otherwise i would have a girl or a boy and now when i have both i can't imagine it. :blink:

If both were boys you would have suffered a lot :woohoo: :woohoo: :laugh: :laugh: :laugh:
You may have bought an extra loud speaker :laugh: :laugh:

I already have an extra loud speaker and a stick to handle my son :woohoo: he is too naughty and is really tough to handle even at the age of 4 years unlike my daughter who is very obedient and listens to us and donot do anything which we don't like her to do. :whistle:

That's why I told...boys make their parents more rough and tough :woohoo: :woohoo: :laugh: :laugh:

I already have an extra loud speaker and a stick to handle my son :woohoo: he is too naughty and is really tough to handle even at the age of 4 years unlike my daughter who is very obedient and listens to us and donot do anything which we don't like her to do. :whistle:[/quote]

Be careful boys keep a logbook to settle the account when their time comes. :evil:

It is not compulsory. the people who have only son's will love to have girl child but they dont have.

I have both and thats true boys are naughty compared to the girls but i always wanted to have a child and never thought of a girl or a boy i am lucky that i have twins otherwise i would have a girl or a boy and now when i have both i can't imagine it. :blink:

If both were boys you would have suffered a lot :woohoo: :woohoo: :laugh: :laugh: :laugh:
You may have bought an extra loud speaker :laugh: :laugh:

I already have an extra loud speaker and a stick to handle my son :woohoo: he is too naughty and is really tough to handle even at the age of 4 years unlike my daughter who is very obedient and listens to us and donot do anything which we don't like her to do. :whistle:

stick for 4years old boy..isint it that much big punishment. :angry: :angry: :huh: :huh:

It is not compulsory. the people who have only son's will love to have girl child but they dont have.

Single child is OK. Am saying about 2-3 boys only in a family :woohoo:

Sandhya am talking about the people who have 2 or 3 boys only, such parents also love to have girls.

Sandhya am talking about the people who have 2 or 3 boys only, such parents also love to have girls.

But in most cases, I have seen daughter-in-laws treated worst by persons who don't have a female child. :woohoo: :woohoo: :woohoo:

Then sandhya, in a family if there are daughters then the daughter treat the daughter in law very badly and she even show the daughter in law a hell. till now i have seen many cases.

Actually everything depends up on the attitude of a person

But I always feel so..
Suppose a family contain 3 or 4 boys only. It takes a lot of effort for parents to maintain discipline in the family. By this way, they need to be more strict...their necessity demands so. Girls need only soft words, no hard words to bring her up. By this way, if a family contains boys only, gradually parents become more strict which reflects more in their character too. That may be the reason why they are not able to maintain a calm relationship with daugher-in-laws. They know only to teach discipline in strict manner. Isn't it?

Are boys and girls treated differently. parents should be soft to both- son or daughter. These days, boys and girls work similarly in the society and so a baby is a baby- son or daughter.

But I always feel so..
Suppose a family contain 3 or 4 boys only. It takes a lot of effort for parents to maintain discipline in the family. By this way, they need to be more strict...their necessity demands so. Girls need only soft words, no hard words to bring her up. By this way, if a family contains boys only, gradually parents become more strict which reflects more in their character too. That may be the reason why they are not able to maintain a calm relationship with daugher-in-laws. They know only to teach discipline in strict manner. Isn't it?

Are boys and girls treated differently. parents should be soft to both- son or daughter. These days, boys and girls work similarly in the society and so a baby is a baby- son or daughter.

Yet I feel...girls are more sensitive than boys. Isn't it? :woohoo:

still there are parents who want a boy child then a girl and they if dont get boy from one wife marry other.isint it totally absurd?

and even first episode of satyamev jayathe was on the same topic.

still there are parents who want a boy child then a girl and they if dont get boy from one wife marry other.isint it totally absurd?

and even first episode of satyamev jayathe was on the same topic.

Really a heart touching episode!!!


Actually most parents say I wish to have a girl child. When they get one in the form of a daughter-in-law only a few are able to love her and treat her good, sincerely.

After the marriage of my daughter recently, I wanted to adopt a girl to start allover again. But stopped short as I am planning to move away and the rules are strict for an adopted child.

One of our neighbour's daughter. She was married to a family of two boys. She has a kid too.
2 years before, that boy took her to her family along with the kid because promised dowry was not given. Later , family paid that dowry and then only he took her back. At that time I thought, if they had a girl kid they would have understood the difficulties of a father conducting marriage of a girl. Isn't it? Am I not right?

Yes. several couples wish to get a girl child. girl child is loving and caring always

I do not see any thing wrong with a girl child as the time is changing fast. No one should bother for their girl child any more.

Your points are really good. but parents can make them good and guide them to find a good path of life .........parenting is not easy.....that is really show your hard work and responsibility to the world. :) :) :) :) :) :)

Your points are really good. but parents can make them good and guide them to find a good path of life .........parenting is not easy.....that is really show your hard work and responsibility to the world. :) :) :) :) :) :)

You know I am darned good at parenting and I have brought-up my only child a daughter with utmost care, now she is doing wonderfully well and I am so happy for her.

sunilji, may i know what your daughter doing, is she studying or working or got married and looking of the family.?

Previously all parents need boy child but today there is no discrimenation between boy and girl so no problem whether it is boy or girl child.... :huh: :huh: :huh: