Is there a need of a love life/lover before marriage?

One of my friends told me some days before, he has never been in any relationship till now and hence he thinks, it's the worst drawback of his life!!! He asks me, why I was not loved by anyone? Am seeing it as the biggest loss of my youth life?

Do you also feel the same?
Do you think youth life always need a lover (some person who loves you) even if it's not carried till marriage?

No,I don't feel the same way! There are many instances of success of marriage which is basically founded on love,happening without any such love-making before marriage!

I also feel the same. Actually I kept thinking, what should I give him in reply, while he said so...actually to comfort him

In fact,those who are bitten by love at too early age and stage of their lives, face some problems by not paying adequate attention to other more important parts of life!

No not at all it is not necessary to have a love affair before marriage.But people think so.It depends on the person's behaviour he may or may not have an affair.For me i also did not have an affair before marriage but i am living good marriage life and i think i knew what is love after marriage only.This is a myth people think they will fail in marriage life as they don't have an experience of love before. :evil:

No not at all it is not necessary to have a love affair before marriage.But people think so.It depends on the person's behaviour he may or may not have an affair.For me i also did not have an affair before marriage but i am living good marriage life and i think i knew what is love after marriage only.This is a myth people think they will fail in marriage life as they don't have an experience of love before. :evil:

Really nice answer.
Am impressed.

Actually, I pray...no one should enter into a relationship which has to end meaningless :)

No not at all it is not necessary to have a love affair before marriage.But people think so.It depends on the person's behaviour he may or may not have an affair.For me i also did not have an affair before marriage but i am living good marriage life and i think i knew what is love after marriage only.This is a myth people think they will fail in marriage life as they don't have an experience of love before. :evil:

Really nice answer.
Am impressed.

Actually, I pray...no one should enter into a relationship which has to end meaningless :)

The kind of casual relationship that we come across amongst some of our youngsters these days are neither serious nor desirable!

No not at all it is not necessary to have a love affair before marriage.But people think so.It depends on the person's behaviour he may or may not have an affair.For me i also did not have an affair before marriage but i am living good marriage life and i think i knew what is love after marriage only.This is a myth people think they will fail in marriage life as they don't have an experience of love before. :evil:

Really nice answer.
Am impressed.

Actually, I pray...no one should enter into a relationship which has to end meaningless :)

The kind of casual relationship that we come across amongst some of our youngsters these days are neither serious nor desirable!

Absolutely they make relationships and repent afterwards h=when it breaks. I have seen lot of youngsters doing this and when get mature realise it what they did was a blunder. :)

Actually, most of them want a girl/boy friend in the youth or college days. Isn't it?...also a lot of admirers

Absolutely they have made it as a status symbol these days those who don't have Boy friend/girl friend are treated as dumb by their companions. :evil:

Absolutely they have made it as a status symbol these days those who don't have Boy friend/girl friend are treated as dumb by their companions. :evil:

Of course.

I forget to tell, he said so because he believed a healthy relationship would have helped him to flourish as a good writer :evil:

One falls in love and 'does not' love. Love is spontaneous and not a deliberate action. 'Love affair' differs from 'love'. This is a past time.

Marriage is a social custom and establishes family unit. This is distinct from 'love', 'love affair'.

'Love' or 'affair' is an integral part of 'love marriage' and has nothing to do with 'arranged marriage'.

One falls in love and 'does not' love. Love is spontaneous and not a deliberate action. 'Love affair' differs from 'love'. This is a past time.

Marriage is a social custom and establishes family unit. This is distinct from 'love', 'love affair'.

'Love' or 'affair' is an integral part of 'love marriage' and has nothing to do with 'arranged marriage'.

But do you feel, if someone has previous love experience, he will love his wife more dearly???????

One falls in love and 'does not' love. Love is spontaneous and not a deliberate action. 'Love affair' differs from 'love'. This is a past time.

Marriage is a social custom and establishes family unit. This is distinct from 'love', 'love affair'.

'Love' or 'affair' is an integral part of 'love marriage' and has nothing to do with 'arranged marriage'.

But do you feel, if someone has previous love experience, he will love his wife more dearly???????

Love is not a matter of experience. If it were so, the prospective bride and groom would be required to produce 'experience certificate' duly signed by lover. This would read as under:

"Mr. (Rakesh) is a very smart and joyous fellow. He always kept me in good humor and bought me gifts and dined with me in nice restaurants. He is very courteous, polite and obedient. I am sure that any girl who marries him will never repent the choice.
This certificate is issued to whomsoever this may concern."

No, its not correct. it is not compulsory to have a love affair before marriage. The affair without marriage is correct

No, its not correct. it is not compulsory to have a love affair before marriage. The affair without marriage is correct

Can't understand. can you explain?

No, its not correct. it is not compulsory to have a love affair before marriage. The affair without marriage is correct

Can't understand. can you explain?

There appears some mistake in arranging words. Perhaps, she means: Marriage without affairs is correct.

No, its not correct. it is not compulsory to have a love affair before marriage. The affair without marriage is correct

Can't understand. can you explain?

There appears some mistake in arranging words. Perhaps, she means: Marriage without affairs is correct.

Really changed its meaning :woohoo: :woohoo: :woohoo:
Hoping Sarala will correct it soon :P

No, its not correct. it is not compulsory to have a love affair before marriage. The affair without marriage is correct

hahaha...Affair without marriage is not good thing in INDIA but its common in wetern countries even they rarely do marriages and beleive in live in relationships. ;)

@Sanjeev,
i have edited my question so that you people never misunderstand it. I am saying about love relationships not living together relationships.

sanjeev as it is not common in India and common in western countries thats why This is known as India. India is full of customs and tradition