Is there a need of a love life/lover before marriage?

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One of my friends told me some days before, he has never been in any relationship till now and hence he thinks, it's the worst drawback of his life!!! He asks me, why I was not loved by anyone? Am seeing it as the biggest loss of my youth life?

Do you also feel the same?
Do you think youth life always need a lover (some person who loves you) even if it's not carried till marriage?

I forget to tell, he said so because he believed a healthy relationship would have helped him to flourish as a good writer.

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sanjeev as it is not common in India and common in western countries thats why This is known as India. India is full of customs and tradition


Sarala,
You have not answered yet, my doubt
No, its not correct. it is not compulsory to have a love affair before marriage. The affair without marriage is correct


hahaha...Affair without marriage is not good thing in INDIA but its common in wetern countries even they rarely do marriages and beleive in live in relationships. ;)


Although this is not accepted in social circles of lower and lower middle classes but the love affairs are common in our country also.
I mean sandhya, having marriage without love affair, or having no lover affair before marriage is good for the people or couple
Can anyone of you tell with your open heart....during college days...never felt in heart at least one time, "If at least one girl/boy looks me or love me with open heart" :P :P :P
That's what my friend told....he was sad that he couldn't find at least one girl in his life who loved him. So he felt, he was not good at all. That's why no girl attracted towards me..... So he was not confident enough to got married. Hoping you understand what I am telling :)
yes, then he should observe himself, where he went wrong. If he wont look good then by his behavior he should be attractive. or he should try get a good look. He should get few suggestion from friends like you sandhya
yes, then he should observe himself, where he went wrong. If he wont look good then by his behavior he should be attractive. or he should try get a good look. He should get few suggestion from friends like you sandhya



He is my dearest friend and though may not appear very smart, he is very intelligent and a good person at heart.
I also know it from him a few months ago and I was really surprised to hear such a complex!!!
Now, no need to worry about him!!! He has got married last month...a sweet girl, who will fill his life with love and happiness :)
It's true, even if most people are not interested in a love relation before marriage, yet they love to be loved!!!! they feel more worth. Do you agree with this statement??
I feel that love is something that happens without planning at any stage in our life.But during college days one does go through the usual amount of crushes which may not last.It is natural and healthy...But our life does not depend on it because as you grow older your feelings become more intense and steady..
No, its not correct. it is not compulsory to have a love affair before marriage. The affair without marriage is correct


hahaha...Affair without marriage is not good thing in INDIA but its common in wetern countries even they rarely do marriages and beleive in live in relationships. ;)


Although this is not accepted in social circles of lower and lower middle classes but the love affairs are common in our country also.


Yes they are common in youngsters these days but still these are not accepted socially as most of them don't end up with marriage. :) :evil:
Yet, only a rare are there with no love affairs at school/college life. Isn't it?
I am the exception i never had an affair though i had lot of female friends in school as well as in college who are still in touch with me. :)
Even i too dont have affairs till now. even i have friends who are boys.
No there is no need of love befor marriage we can see examples of our ancestors.
No there is no need of love befor marriage we can see examples of our ancestors.


If Geeta didn't give you a nod, what would have been your answer?
Reply :P :P :P
You know these days people start asking question if some one has no affair after 18.
You know these days people start asking question if some one has no affair after 18.


yes, even my friends are asking the same "Don't you have any girlfriends" This is common nowadays.. :woohoo:
Then what do you tell them? have you or haven't you an affair yet?
Then what do you tell them? have you or haven't you an affair yet?


No, i dont have any affair still now. But, will be in future.. :P :P

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