I should not take every advice seriously

Yes, you heard me right- I have been getting to many advices lately, some of them coming from totally strangers. I know every capable person can find a solution of his problem according to his own caliber and this is not necessary that he has a very high IQ to solve his problems.

I do not think for a moment that people who are sitting in higher places are more talented than I do. They might have used some special techniques to reach there. There could be another aspect of their being so successful- They found their own decision better than what they got from other sources.

We hesitate to commence some thing

Most of the times we hesitate to begin any new assignments thinking of failure that puzzles our mind and makes us believe that we shall not be able to complete the job. The fact is, unless we start a job with our full capacity keeping doubts in our minds the chances are that we are bound to fail because we have no confidence in ourselves. Trust me this is matter of ‘once’ only. Once you achieve your target with your knowledge, willpower and capacity to ‘do’ it, you shall never find yourself at a point where you would look behind.

You do not have to follow every one but who matters
Be sure that you do not have to follow every one just for the sake of the advices coming thick and fast, some people are good at suggestions because they have nothing better to do. You see, I am member of few open forums where I get those dozens a dime. Now if I keep following all of them, I am simply ruined. Therefore, decide what is good and bad for you and act accordingly. You shall have to convert you according to your own ability and what you think is best for yourself.

You think he knows better than you do
I know this is another big problem, which you have to face such people with big IQ and all the advices at your work place, as this is part of your job. You cannot avoid them but at the same time, you cannot accept all undesired advices lying down. That is certainly your own choice as to how you handle these advices because you are the one who shall have to face consequences. Therefore, this is an undesired advice here- Never take them if you are not convinced.

NO Problem

The best advice is ‘do not give or take advices’
Yes. This one is for free, this I read some where and noted it down to use it in one of my articles, rather decided to write a full article about it- sounds so good- ‘Do not take or give advices’ unless you want one or asked for one. Let me share a secret with you- we are not an agricultural oriented country any more but Advices oriented. Any one can offer to help you without you asking for the same. They do it without any consultation charges or a fee in lieu of that. We are too generous while it comes to advices, unlucky too.
Some times people pose too big and knowledgeable without considering your abilities just because they have a slight edge over you due to their powers that they enjoy at official level and use it as weapons to offer you advices, which they never have followed ever themselves. You must think twice and smile while alone considering that you are capable enough to sort out your problems without any trouble…. Yes, you have sorted out your problems many times big or small so, why do you need those unwanted advices coming from strangers without asking for those.

Trust me you are no lesser capable

I mean it, you are no lesser capable and knowledgeable than any one in this world when it comes to solving your problems irrespective of what some of them make you believe to show their importance. Listening to no good for nothing advices, you are loosing nothing but your valuable time and self-confidence only. Try to improve your will power, self-confidence and power to take right decisions that would create a positive energy in you. Never have doubt in your own ability that would make you a perfect decision maker all the way. You are out to win the world and you shall win over every problem.