I came across this fabulous Chinese proverb "Think of your faults the first part of the night when you are awake, and the faults of others the latter part of the night when you are asleep" , which says it all...
Self analysis on our daily actions ,activities and interactions with others do help us grow as individuals, please add your own views..
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When we start looking at an issue from the other side, the persons perspective things seem lot more different to what we earlier felt.That has been my experience.Once you begin analysing an issue impartially taking both sides into account it becomes very easy to solve the problem at hand...It also help us grow as individuals..
True Usha!! Introspection goes a long way in our personal growth as well as makes us more empathetic towards others' problems!
Exactly ! But very few people do it and even when they have an opportunity to do so, they dont want to do it...I have seen scores of such situations where people have made a mess of their life because of ego and false prestige !
When we start looking at an issue from the other side, the persons perspective things seem lot more different to what we earlier felt.That has been my experience.Once you begin analysing an issue impartially taking both sides into account it becomes very easy to solve the problem at hand...It also help us grow as individuals..
True Usha!! Introspection goes a long way in our personal growth as well as makes us more empathetic towards others' problems!
Exactly ! But very few people do it and even when they have an opportunity to do so, they dont want to do it...I have seen scores of such situations where people have made a mess of their life because of ego and false prestige !
Probably because they are not willing to concede that they are wrong and others may be right???? or better still, they are so busy fueling their own self-inflated egos that they are blind to the obvious!!
I think we should make our mind such that we don't commit mistakes.
Its upto us,how we do it.
yes thats true, but how do we do that unless we analyse our actions .As human beings we can never be perfect and mistakes are bound to happen, sometimes knowingly and sometimes unknowingly...
I think we should make our mind such that we don't commit mistakes.
Its upto us,how we do it.
yes thats true, but how do we do that unless we analyse our actions .As human beings we can never be perfect and mistakes are bound to happen, sometimes knowingly and sometimes unknowingly...
We are not always good at our Analysis.
According to us,it may be right, but according to the universe,it may be wrong.
I think we should make our mind such that we don't commit mistakes.
Its upto us,how we do it.
yes thats true, but how do we do that unless we analyse our actions .As human beings we can never be perfect and mistakes are bound to happen, sometimes knowingly and sometimes unknowingly...
We are not always good at our Analysis.
According to us,it may be right, but according to the universe,it may be wrong.
when you make a self analysis it is an impartial introspection about your days activities and interactions with others and whether there was anything that needs to be done to make things better etc etc it really does not concern anyone else and one need not really bother about the universe.You cannot please all even if you are right all the time..
I think we should make our mind such that we don't commit mistakes.
Its upto us,how we do it.
yes thats true, but how do we do that unless we analyse our actions .As human beings we can never be perfect and mistakes are bound to happen, sometimes knowingly and sometimes unknowingly...
We are not always good at our Analysis.
According to us,it may be right, but according to the universe,it may be wrong.
when you make a self analysis it is an impartial introspection about your days activities and interactions with others and whether there was anything that needs to be done to make things better etc etc it really does not concern anyone else and one need not really bother about the universe.You cannot please all even if you are right all the time..
What i want to say that From ourside,we could say that we are right, But we can't be right always.
I think we should make our mind such that we don't commit mistakes.
Its upto us,how we do it.
yes thats true, but how do we do that unless we analyse our actions .As human beings we can never be perfect and mistakes are bound to happen, sometimes knowingly and sometimes unknowingly...
We are not always good at our Analysis.
According to us,it may be right, but according to the universe,it may be wrong.
when you make a self analysis it is an impartial introspection about your days activities and interactions with others and whether there was anything that needs to be done to make things better etc etc it really does not concern anyone else and one need not really bother about the universe.You cannot please all even if you are right all the time..
What i want to say that From ourside,we could say that we are right, But we can't be right always.
When you feel you are right, you have to be right, otherwise you hesitate to say so because to come to such a conclusion one has to analyse the situation from all angles..It doesn't really matter what others think, as long as your conscience is clear nothing else matters and one should not hesitate to say one is right in such circumstances.
It's really a nice way to understand ourself and I think once in a while we need to follow it :)
Once in a way is fine, but doing it on a regular basis is definitely even better since it keeps you on your toes by sharpening your senses..
I agree then it should be part of yoga and other mind controlling exercises ?
yes, It is said that before you see others back first correct your back.. means it is tough to see our back but easy others... :dry: :dry: :dry:
even though it is tough, first we have to correct ourselves before criticizing or judging others..... :silly: :silly: :silly:
it will definitely make us a good one to all... :) :)
even though it is tough, first we have to correct ourselves before criticizing or judging others..... :silly: :silly: :silly:
it will definitely make us a good one to all... :) :)
Self analysis is must for every person. With out knowing our strength we cannot do the things which are more tough to us.
Know your Strengths and weaknesses too !That's where self analysis is even more useful because most people never want to admit to any negative aspects about themselves and that's what needs to be fine tuned :dry:
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