Age suitable for marriage

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According to you, which age is more suitable for marriage, for both boys and girls?
Also tell, is age difference an influencing factor in the bond between husband and wife?
Also the age gap? ie. 20 years back, husband may be 10 years older. Now, it has very much reduced to 3 or 4. Is it a factor to influence the relationship?
If so, how can it be?

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According to me Girls age is between 23-25 and boys age is between 27-30...If boys marry after 30 then his children have to suffer in future because when he become mature at that time retirenment time of father comes closer and as a result of creating lots of pressure on guardian as well as children...............


Which pressure you are talking about Chandan. :unsure:

I had my kids at the age of 32 years will i be having that pressure. :)
Why every thing you are relating with you my dear i am not talking about you personally.................And about pressure if child were not settled in his life and your retirement was coming then you not feel pressure about your child career.................
At the time of retirement if the children would be established then it is ok.It does not depend on marriage age.You marriage in right age but take child in forty then the situation may come.
Ya you are true and i suggest everyone that get married in exact time and make his/her child career bright............
So how many years you have to wait.In your state many marriage happened in under age.(kidding).
Child marriage is a crime and this is happen not in my state all over the country.....This time i am not Kidding.........haa haaa haaa....
At the time of retirement if the children would be established then it is ok.It does not depend on marriage age.You marriage in right age but take child in forty then the situation may come.


Yes that is the problem and the wise people save money for that time period. :)
At the time of retirement if the children would be established then it is ok.It does not depend on marriage age.You marriage in right age but take child in forty then the situation may come.


Yes that is the problem and the wise people save money for that time period. :)

That is right if you do every thing on a planned basis you shall not face any problem in future.
You are right sunil, we should save money. But people around us always want to grab that money as they know that there is a person who is perform marriage so they have money. So we should be much careful
At the time of retirement if the children would be established then it is ok.It does not depend on marriage age.You marriage in right age but take child in forty then the situation may come.


Yes that is the problem and the wise people save money for that time period. :)


But very often, they spend their PF for their kids' education, marriage or home. Isn't it?
5 years gap is ok I think. More gap or no gap should be avoided. In my personal experience if 10 or 9 year gap the bonding is more high.
5 years gap is ok I think. More gap or no gap should be avoided. In my personal experience if 10 or 9 year gap the bonding is more high.


we have only 9 months gap :dry: :dry:

Today seeing our ration card, he is saying, am more aged than him in ration card. So, he don't want to keep it as records :woohoo: :woohoo: :woohoo:
So, i asked today, if I was more aged than you what would you do??? :laugh: :laugh: :laugh:

No reply came. He may have thought, if so, I would have never married you ;) :P


Mary, what's your age difference?
5 years gap is ok I think. More gap or no gap should be avoided. In my personal experience if 10 or 9 year gap the bonding is more high.


we have only 9 months gap :dry: :dry:

Today seeing our ration card, he is saying, am more aged than him in ration card. So, he don't want to keep it as records :woohoo: :woohoo: :woohoo:
So, i asked today, if I was more aged than you what would you do??? :laugh: :laugh: :laugh:

No reply came. He may have thought, if so, I would have never married you ;) :P


Mary, what's your age difference?


9 years. Not only my case. my mother and father also 10 years gap. They lived peacefully and lived with full of affection and I saw many cases like this.
I believe that couple with less age gap have more understanding as compared to those with a larger gap. There are many things people fail to relate to if they don't belong to the same age group. Though there are exceptions always :)
5 years gap is ok I think. More gap or no gap should be avoided. In my personal experience if 10 or 9 year gap the bonding is more high.


we have only 9 months gap :dry: :dry:

Today seeing our ration card, he is saying, am more aged than him in ration card. So, he don't want to keep it as records :woohoo: :woohoo: :woohoo:
So, i asked today, if I was more aged than you what would you do??? :laugh: :laugh: :laugh:

No reply came. He may have thought, if so, I would have never married you ;) :P


Mary, what's your age difference?


9 years. Not only my case. my mother and father also 10 years gap. They lived peacefully and lived with full of affection and I saw many cases like this.


My parents differ by 14 years :)
I think when a girl attend the of 25 it is suitable for them to get married and for boys it is at least 28.Both have the sense of relationship and it is very essential for a boy to settle first.
5 years gap is ok I think. More gap or no gap should be avoided. In my personal experience if 10 or 9 year gap the bonding is more high.


we have only 9 months gap :dry: :dry:

Today seeing our ration card, he is saying, am more aged than him in ration card. So, he don't want to keep it as records :woohoo: :woohoo: :woohoo:
So, i asked today, if I was more aged than you what would you do??? :laugh: :laugh: :laugh:

No reply came. He may have thought, if so, I would have never married you ;) :P


Mary, what's your age difference?


9 years. Not only my case. my mother and father also 10 years gap. They lived peacefully and lived with full of affection and I saw many cases like this.


My parents differ by 14 years :)


oh that is a very big difference. In previous generation more marriages like that.

Nowadays less gaps between couples
According to me the best age is 26 for girls and 28 for boys. Above that girls find it difficult to find a groom :evil: That is what I have been hearing very often. :P
yes asha, you are exactly right above 26 it is very difficult to find a groom
yes asha, you are exactly right above 26 it is very difficult to find a groom


And what about men B) They never age :silly:

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