According to you, which age is more suitable for marriage, for both boys and girls?
Also tell, is age difference an influencing factor in the bond between husband and wife?
Also the age gap? ie. 20 years back, husband may be 10 years older. Now, it has very much reduced to 3 or 4. Is it a factor to influence the relationship?
If so, how can it be?
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According to me Girls age is between 23-25 and boys age is between 27-30...If boys marry after 30 then his children have to suffer in future because when he become mature at that time retirenment time of father comes closer and as a result of creating lots of pressure on guardian as well as children...............
Which pressure you are talking about Chandan. :unsure:
I had my kids at the age of 32 years will i be having that pressure. :)
At the time of retirement if the children would be established then it is ok.It does not depend on marriage age.You marriage in right age but take child in forty then the situation may come.
Yes that is the problem and the wise people save money for that time period. :)
That is right if you do every thing on a planned basis you shall not face any problem in future.
At the time of retirement if the children would be established then it is ok.It does not depend on marriage age.You marriage in right age but take child in forty then the situation may come.
Yes that is the problem and the wise people save money for that time period. :)
But very often, they spend their PF for their kids' education, marriage or home. Isn't it?
5 years gap is ok I think. More gap or no gap should be avoided. In my personal experience if 10 or 9 year gap the bonding is more high.
we have only 9 months gap :dry: :dry:
Today seeing our ration card, he is saying, am more aged than him in ration card. So, he don't want to keep it as records :woohoo: :woohoo: :woohoo:
So, i asked today, if I was more aged than you what would you do??? :laugh: :laugh: :laugh:
No reply came. He may have thought, if so, I would have never married you ;) :P
Mary, what's your age difference?
5 years gap is ok I think. More gap or no gap should be avoided. In my personal experience if 10 or 9 year gap the bonding is more high.
we have only 9 months gap :dry: :dry:
Today seeing our ration card, he is saying, am more aged than him in ration card. So, he don't want to keep it as records :woohoo: :woohoo: :woohoo:
So, i asked today, if I was more aged than you what would you do??? :laugh: :laugh: :laugh:
No reply came. He may have thought, if so, I would have never married you ;) :P
Mary, what's your age difference?
9 years. Not only my case. my mother and father also 10 years gap. They lived peacefully and lived with full of affection and I saw many cases like this.
5 years gap is ok I think. More gap or no gap should be avoided. In my personal experience if 10 or 9 year gap the bonding is more high.
we have only 9 months gap :dry: :dry:
Today seeing our ration card, he is saying, am more aged than him in ration card. So, he don't want to keep it as records :woohoo: :woohoo: :woohoo:
So, i asked today, if I was more aged than you what would you do??? :laugh: :laugh: :laugh:
No reply came. He may have thought, if so, I would have never married you ;) :P
Mary, what's your age difference?
9 years. Not only my case. my mother and father also 10 years gap. They lived peacefully and lived with full of affection and I saw many cases like this.
My parents differ by 14 years :)
5 years gap is ok I think. More gap or no gap should be avoided. In my personal experience if 10 or 9 year gap the bonding is more high.
we have only 9 months gap :dry: :dry:
Today seeing our ration card, he is saying, am more aged than him in ration card. So, he don't want to keep it as records :woohoo: :woohoo: :woohoo:
So, i asked today, if I was more aged than you what would you do??? :laugh: :laugh: :laugh:
No reply came. He may have thought, if so, I would have never married you ;) :P
Mary, what's your age difference?
9 years. Not only my case. my mother and father also 10 years gap. They lived peacefully and lived with full of affection and I saw many cases like this.
My parents differ by 14 years :)
oh that is a very big difference. In previous generation more marriages like that.
Nowadays less gaps between couples
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