Who should look beautiful?

In arrange marraige,now a days,the appearance in present life is taken aside and the boy background,from which culture he belong is seen.

Beauty is only timely.A mishap may loss all the beauty you valued so far.

Parents should only see how the inner soul of the boy or girl is. Thats it!!!

I think both external beauty and inner beauty is desirable in both the sexes. I mean beauty should not always be thought as good looking because a person with good heart and mind but an ugly look is also beautiful and acceptable and above par than those with beautiful look but mean heart and cheap mentality...!

You are right Ajay.But often all look the external beauty and misunderstands it as personality.

I agree with Rajani both bride and bridegroom should be beautiful ,specially with mind

I think beauty is not in the face but in the mind. A husband or a wife should be a person who understands each other, have a feeling of care towards the other. Beauty is not always there but the heart of a person is always there. Try to be good to each other and beauty will not come in the way.

But to be frank wife should be beautiful than husband. As in present world guys gives alot of importance to beauty. If their wife is not beautiful then they are trying for other women this is really bad on their part so I feel wife should be beautiful

In my opinion both bride and groom should be match mentally as well as physically it should not be like wife is beautiful and husband is below average or vice versa. :)

Now a days husbands are very low in beauty and wifes are dam beautiful. Parents are forcing their guys to marry such low glammar guys

Now a days husbands are very low in beauty and wifes are dam beautiful. Parents are forcing their guys to marry such low glammar guys

Actually parents don't see beauty in men they just see the male should be well settled and should be capable of taking responsibility of the family which I think is more important only beauty is not that important. :blink:

In general, many people seek for beautiful and intelligent bride. Do you think the husband should equally look handsome compared to his wife? Who must be better looking?

Beauty is skin deep and this true in life...it doesn't really matter if the husband is average looking or vice versa since marriage is based on totally different things....A lazy and uncaring but beautiful wife will not be liked by the husband or for that matter a uncaring and self centered but handsome husband by the wife..

It is a bad think that most of us think that ladies/women should look beautiful and Men should be a good earner.

As far as myself is concerned, Every human being should look beautiful (Women - Beautiful & Man - handsome). I mean internal beauty not the external one. Internal beauty can be acquired by good characters. Internal beauty makes you look beautiful. In Tamil there is a proverb ' Agathin azhagu mugathil theriyum'. In English it is, 'Face is the index of mind'.

In most of the cases, bride looks good than Groom. Indian Grooms are mostly Chocolatey Grooms. Brides are White.
But now situations are changing, now many girls looks almost like Groom.
What i think is that now a days the importance of Color is gone. How good person is, that is all important.

Caring & Sharing Makes the life beautiful and multiplies the love as well. Lets care & share that will make us beautiful & handsome.

yes. SJ, what you said is right. Parents never see the beauty, but the girl should get some interest after all she is marrying. It is her life right. Every girl will have some tast about her husband. she dreams how her husband should look and all.

Beauty in outlook is not all ,It should be internally beautiful.
I have seen many times that a good looking boy or girl is taking benefit but not a good minded.

yes. SJ, what you said is right. Parents never see the beauty, but the girl should get some interest after all she is marrying. It is her life right. Every girl will have some tast about her husband. she dreams how her husband should look and all.

Yes a girl should see a boy before marrying him if it is an arranged marriage its her right to do that. I am not beautiful like my wife but my wife chose me and we married with each other's consent. :)

Girl should not take decision in pressure about her marriage. She should look at the boy very carefully.

Everyone likes to be beautiful and there are various beauty aids. Enough has been discussed on this in this thread and now this is diverted to discussion on marriage and selecting match. It seems that now is the time to lock this thread.