I think both external beauty and inner beauty is desirable in both the sexes. I mean beauty should not always be thought as good looking because a person with good heart and mind but an ugly look is also beautiful and acceptable and above par than those with beautiful look but mean heart and cheap mentality...!
I think beauty is not in the face but in the mind. A husband or a wife should be a person who understands each other, have a feeling of care towards the other. Beauty is not always there but the heart of a person is always there. Try to be good to each other and beauty will not come in the way.
But to be frank wife should be beautiful than husband. As in present world guys gives alot of importance to beauty. If their wife is not beautiful then they are trying for other women this is really bad on their part so I feel wife should be beautiful
In my opinion both bride and groom should be match mentally as well as physically it should not be like wife is beautiful and husband is below average or vice versa. :)
