Which Is Better.. Relations In Our Country In India or Freedom Of Western People

Both these concepts have their respective merits and demerits and the bottomline is how these fare in the face of times.In India traditional family concept is meeting a lot of resistance these days and joint family norm is almost on its way out and the youngsters these days are not subject to the control of elders of the family as it used to be earlier.In a way we too are slowly moving towards individual freedom as prized and practised in the West.

In western world individual freedom is just temporary which leads to permanent loneliness which inturn results into bad habits.

Jayen wrote:
[quote]In western world individual freedom is just temporary which leads to permanent loneliness which inturn results into bad habits.[/quote]

jayen who told you that they are alone. They are happy with their life. In western countries when a child got up a age of 16 to 18 years he/she leave his home and stands on their on feets. But in our India 50% students can't stand upon their feets upto 21 or 22.

In those countries parents never incist their children to do this and this. They give space to their children to live with their style.

chinmoymukherjee wrote:
[quote]Both these concepts have their respective merits and demerits and the bottomline is how these fare in the face of times.In India traditional family concept is meeting a lot of resistance these days and joint family norm is almost on its way out and the youngsters these days are not subject to the control of elders of the family as it used to be earlier.In a way we too are slowly moving towards individual freedom as prized and practised in the West.[/quote]

Join families are getting decrease. But in our relations a lot of interfere is done by famailies. If you wanna do love marriage, family persons interfere a lot. They didn't see their child is happy or not. Firstly they see cast, money and a lot.

But one of the good point in western countries is: They never interfere in the marriage decision of their children.

That's true but in recent years more and more young people are just ignoring such interferences and showing their independence in this regard.

The west has nuclear families and there is no interference by other relations. We have still a sort of joint family relations. Here everyone has a role. The joint family system is now breaking as the villagers are moving to cities and living with their own nuclear families. We need neither strict control of join family variety nor complete freedom as in west. We have less number of divorces owing to influence of elders in joint family. While there should not be much interference in nuclear families, the elders in larger joint family should be respected and consulted in key matters.

chinmoymukherjee wrote:
[quote]That's true but in recent years more and more young people are just ignoring such interferences and showing their independence in this regard.[/quote]

I know but due to this action youth and old persons of family are getting far from each other. Senior family members are not understanding the feelings of youth.

There are cases when both side look at things from different perspectives which have their own limitations.Ultimately we have to reconcile the views of all to ensure a harmonious existence.

In western culture love bond between the hearts will be less. Where as in India every one will have love and affection towards each other.That affection long lasts for ever. In western countries the love and affection lives for only less time. They wont stick for one.

Mounica wrote:
[quote]In western culture love bond between the hearts will be less. Where as in India every one will have love and affection towards each other.That affection long lasts for ever. In western countries the love and affection lives for only less time. They wont stick for one.[/quote]

Dear nothing like that.. In these days divorce cases are getting increased in India. Trust is the main key factor of Love bonds.. It can be in both western and Indian.

Well i have experienced both the things and i feel that...in some areas freedom is necessary and in some areas concern from elders is necessary or else we may not choose the right path some time...

In western country freedom is too much ..were as in india we respect our elders as in some cases their concern is needed..But in any way elders should not force youngster in the family as it is wrong way of using their seniority...they should suggest or alert when ever we do wrong things..

Freedom Of Western People

Personally I feel from my own experience that parental interference is not at all bad and it all depends on the kind of situations this is being done.Freedom should not be allowed to degenerate into a licence for whatever one wants to indulge in.A balance has to be struck.The so-called Western freedom has its seamy side too.Let us not romanticize it!!

I think Chinmoy is right. Parental intervention at right time in right manner is very important structured growth of children.

Both have their merit and demerit

Relation in other country are much more stronger than ....realtion in westrn country