I want to know about marriage rituals & dishes of your place

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It's sure, each person belonging to different parts have different customs and dishes. Let us take marriage ceremonies. It's sure, dishes provided will be grand and it truly reflects culture and customs of that particular region.
In Kerala, Both Christians and Muslims prefer non-veg.......Christians normally serve Fried rice while Muslims Biryani only. For Hindus, vegetarian meal only with a variety of side dishes, curries and payasam.
If we travel from capital city to Kasargode, vegetarian meal of weddings known as Sadya(not sandhya :dry: :dry: :silly: ) differs slightly.
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Sadya
Southern parts serve more dishes while northern parts like Palakkad, just 4-5 side dishes along with rice. What about you?
Let us share a few variations of such dishes

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let me add one more question now......tell something about marriage rituals, functions and ceremonies.....
Also quote some strange rituals, if you have any. :) :)

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Fish is not normally served in Hindu marriages....but I have seen it served in Christian marriages for lunch....fish kabab etc..
Bengali wedding is a long process that's what I have heard and seen in movies. I know that the face of bride is covered with the leaves which she will be holding in her hand. She will sit on a tool. Her brothers would carry the tool and make her move around the groom. Groom will put sindoor on her head with his gold ring. The first time she would look her husband's face during marriage procedure that is called "subho drishti". Three times couples would exchange the wedding flower necklace.
It's sure, each person belonging to different parts have different customs and dishes. Let us take marriage ceremonies. It's sure, dishes provided will be grand and it truly reflects culture and customs of that particular region.
In Kerala, Both Christians and Muslims prefer non-veg.......Christians normally serve Fried rice while Muslims Biryani only. For Hindus, vegetarian meal only with a variety of side dishes, curries and payasam.
If we travel from capital city to Kasargode, vegetarian meal of weddings known as Sadya(not sandhya :dry: :dry: :silly: ) differs slightly.
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Sadya
Southern parts serve more dishes while northern parts like Palakkad, just 4-5 side dishes along with rice. What about you?
Let us share a few variations of such dishes

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let me add one more question now......tell something about marriage rituals, functions and ceremonies.....



Sandhya what is the image you posted here is the same things which we will have in our marriages.
Also quote some strange rituals, if you have any. :) :)
Fish is not normally served in Hindu marriages....but I have seen it served in Christian marriages for lunch....fish kabab etc..


Bengali are non-vegetarian. Different types of fishes are served in bengali wedding.
@Sasi...
I think all South Indian veg meals are provided in banana leaves, though dishes are different
@Sasi...
I think all South Indian veg meals are provided in banana leaves, though dishes are different


But now a days we cannot see any banana leaves as they are using paper plates or plastic plates.
@Sasi...
I think all South Indian veg meals are provided in banana leaves, though dishes are different


But now a days we cannot see any banana leaves as they are using paper plates or plastic plates.


Thank God,
we are not using paper banana plates for our marriages
@Sasi...
I think all South Indian veg meals are provided in banana leaves, though dishes are different


But now a days we cannot see any banana leaves as they are using paper plates or plastic plates.


Thank God,
we are not using paper banana plates for our marriages


What is paper banana, I have never seen it. :)
It's instant plastic banana leaf.....which looks exactly like banana leaf......use once and throw
It's instant plastic banana leaf.....which looks exactly like banana leaf......use once and throw


Yes it is a use and throw plates just look like banana leaves.
It's instant plastic banana leaf.....which looks exactly like banana leaf......use once and throw


Yes it is a use and throw plates just look like banana leaves.


can you tell me a brief about your marriage functions...also dishes prepared.....
I think, north Indian Hindu marriages......swayamvar in front of fire while South Indians lit a bronze lamp. All other rituals, it seems almost the same
Bengali wedding is a long process that's what I have heard and seen in movies. I know that the face of bride is covered with the leaves which she will be holding in her hand. She will sit on a tool. Her brothers would carry the tool and make her move around the groom. Groom will put sindoor on her head with his gold ring. The first time she would look her husband's face during marriage procedure that is called "subho drishti". Three times couples would exchange the wedding flower necklace.


Leaves? Which plant's leaves do you use and what is its significance?
I think, north Indian Hindu marriages......swayamvar in front of fire while South Indians lit a bronze lamp. All other rituals, it seems almost the same


You mean in south India the couples move in circle around the bronze lamp?
I think, north Indian Hindu marriages......swayamvar in front of fire while South Indians lit a bronze lamp. All other rituals, it seems almost the same


You mean in south India the couples move in circle around the bronze lamp?


No, rituals are performed in front of a deepam and they revolve Mandapam as a whole, the place where marriage is performed.

We do exchange flower or tulsi garlands.......of course ladies first :P like swayamvar after mangal sootr is tied.
Bengali wedding is a long process that's what I have heard and seen in movies. I know that the face of bride is covered with the leaves which she will be holding in her hand. She will sit on a tool. Her brothers would carry the tool and make her move around the groom. Groom will put sindoor on her head with his gold ring. The first time she would look her husband's face during marriage procedure that is called "subho drishti". Three times couples would exchange the wedding flower necklace.


Leaves? Which plant's leaves do you use and what is its significance?


I think beetal leaves.....I have seen in films :unsure: :unsure:
Rice, Sambar,Rasam,Butter milk, Side-dish using Vegitable, Sweet and Banana and Ice cream
I am from Bengal and as a Bengali in our custom our marriage ceremony held according to the time.It may be at evening or night .In our marriage we used to serve people with veg and non veg dishes.Specially the dishes include muton,chicken,pulao,sweets,ice cream,puri and many more things.
I think, north Indian Hindu marriages......swayamvar in front of fire while South Indians lit a bronze lamp. All other rituals, it seems almost the same


The most important part of a Hindu marriage in our parts is a Saptapadi, commonly known as Seven times round the fire while Pandits chanting Shlokas and telling the pair about importance of married life.
It depends on the money one would like to spend.One can serve as many dishes he would like there is no such rule about it.These days they serve fast food too before dinner in which many of the items like chowmein,pao bhaji,Dosa,tikki all are served and in the dinner 3~4 vegetables,rice,dahi bhalla,sweets or ice cream are served. :)

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