Who is right? You or your parents???

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Suppose you are just 23 or 25 years old and just thinking about settling in life :woohoo: :woohoo: :woohoo: . You are telling your parents...."Father, mother, I want to marry now".
But if they respond, "No Beta..... you are too young and immature for marriage"
Who is right???? You or your parents????
Tell me...tell me :cheer: :cheer: :cheer:

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Yes but it is not happened in my life. Because most of decisions taken by me.



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ha ha ha
Yes I am the decision maker in my life. But it is gone to my wifes hands.
Yes I am the decision maker in my life. But it is gone to my wifes hands.

All men say so, after marriage.
But I don't think even a single woman in this world will agree to it :whistle: :whistle: :whistle:
Why a women wont agree this it is really in my wifes hands. Trust me.
Why a women wont agree this it is really in my wifes hands. Trust me.


Let me ask your Gita
Unfortunately my parents are not alive but they were always right. How can lesser experienced children can compete with their parents.
I even agree with parents. But there are few parents who say not to marry for their selfishness also so that they can enjoy for more days with the sons money.and there are parents who always think good about their children
That is possible but I am not aware of such parents, my parents were far richer than me and they only gave me, never took any thing from me.
Suppose you are just 23 or 25 years old and just thinking about settling in life :woohoo: :woohoo: :woohoo: . You are telling your parents...."Father, mother, I want to marry now".
But if they respond, "No Beta..... you are too young and immature for marriage"
Who is right???? You or your parents????
Tell me...tell me :cheer: :cheer: :cheer:

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what about my case where my parents have predecided after my 12th that you have now 5 years to make your carrier aftter that marriage.and this year i will be completing my graduation and then if not doing mba this year then by god's grace i will get 1 more extra year else i would have got married till 2014 or 2015. :( :( :(

but im trying to convince mumma-papa.
I even agree with parents. But there are few parents who say not to marry for their selfishness also so that they can enjoy for more days with the sons money.and there are parents who always think good about their children


thank god my parents are not like this they want my brother to get just after me and thats too early for him but my parents want that atleast my brother should enjoy his life with his life partner..
I think 25 is correct age for marriage,and i don't think parents would have any objection.
But if they are saying no,then there can be many reasons.
It is possible that they haven't found a suitable girl/boy for their child.
Financial Problems.etc etc
I think 25 is correct age for marriage,and i don't think parents would have any objection.
But if they are saying no,then there can be many reasons.
It is possible that they haven't found a suitable girl/boy for their child.
Financial Problems.etc etc


exactly sometimes this must be a problem that they are unable to find right match, or financial problem or may be because of other family trends and customs.
Baby angel, even there are some other problems also other than financial problems or not finding right match
Now I remember a Malayalam movie of 1993, "Meleparambil aanveedu"...a family of 3-4 boys.......Except our hero, all others have crossed 35-40. Still parents believe they haven't reach age of marriage :laugh: :laugh: :laugh:
Really a funny film. If priyadarshan see this post, he will definitely remake that film to HIndi.
The younger boy ...below 30(hero....Jayaram), parents think, still he is a small kid. While going to job in Tamil Nadu, situations prompt him to marry a Tamil girl Shobhana and since he is afraid, he is bringing her as servant to his home :cheer:
The way how his brothers flurt with her...one of them learning Tamil...and many such incidents....really a full packed comedy film....
At that time all think they are correct.So decision is quite hard to take.
If the parents tells us that you should not marry at the age of 25,after certain limit we should not argue with them.
I feel parents never say that wrong to the son, only few parents are selfish but all are not
I feel parents never say that wrong to the son, only few parents are selfish but all are not


My parents have said that once you get a job,you are free to find your better half of your life.
Baby angel, even there are some other problems also other than financial problems or not finding right match


yes there may be some other problems also like if in joint families and may be your cousin is elder than you and their may be trend that first elder will get marry so because of them you are not getting married. may be your job like you are not well established in life.etc.
exactly, and some times people may not like the person or the horoscope of both of them are not matching or any other problem

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