Do you want to be happy ?

jabeen wrote:

anil wrote:

Noting new in this article. Best mode of happiness is keep busy and ignore all rubbish things..

Keeping oneself busy, keep you away from useless thoughts. When we ve nothing much to do we tend to indulge in silly things . 

Activity in which you are interested will be of use to drive away vague thoughts. An idle man's Brain is a Devil's workshop,

jabeen wrote:

anil wrote:

Noting new in this article. Best mode of happiness is keep busy and ignore all rubbish things..

Keeping oneself busy, keep you away from useless thoughts. When we ve nothing much to do we tend to indulge in silly things . 

Possibly even dangerous things , we have a saying in Tulu which means ...a jobless carpenter began to carve his baby's backside... that's what happens with many women,mainly stay at home wives who tend to while away time in gossip and other things that can actually harm others.

Happiness is a virtue we all are born with, but tend to loose as we grow up. Because then we unknowingly and unconsciously try to push down competitiveness and blind rat race down our throats. We invite stress from mounting expectations and our urge to live others life

Babu saroj wrote:See I am person of least expectation and I become happy in every small things which I want to do or achieve.

Yes. One need not be very rich to be happy. Spend time with Friends and family. Enjoy your work. Do what you love

Life without expectations is aimless. Having realistic expectations leads to better understanding of situation, self and people around us. We seem to meet realistic expectations and those little achievements add to our happiness. Unreal expectation is the recipe for disaster and leaves you drained out of happiness

Arunima Singh wrote:

Life without expectations is aimless. Having realistic expectations leads to better understanding of situation, self and people around us. We seem to meet realistic expectations and those little achievements add to our happiness. Unreal expectation is the recipe for disaster and leaves you drained out of happiness

Expectations must be there. But they should feasible and achievable.

Name any person who want to be unhappy.

anil wrote:

Name any person who want to be unhappy.

Well said. Every body from Monarch to street beggar, without exception want to be happy

rambabu wrote:

anil wrote:

Name any person who want to be unhappy.

Well said. Every body from Monarch to street beggar, without exception want to be happy

This question, do you want to be happy is meaning less.

anil wrote:

rambabu wrote:

anil wrote:

Name any person who want to be unhappy.

Well said. Every body from Monarch to street beggar, without exception want to be happy

This question, do you want to be happy is meaning less.

 Exactly ...

Though the thread started with the question, " Do you want to be happy ?.  later it was clarified. Those who have gone through the post will grasp it.

I want to be happy. I am happy because I choose to be happy. It is a choice we make everyday. 

Nongmaithem Rakesh Singh wrote:

I want to be happy. I am happy because I choose to be happy. It is a choice we make everyday.

Yes it is perfect answer, happiness is with in us. 

Thank you for agreeing with me. 

anil wrote:

Nongmaithem Rakesh Singh wrote:

I want to be happy. I am happy because I choose to be happy. It is a choice we make everyday.

Yes it is perfect answer, happiness is with in us. 

Happiness is well within us. If you think, you are happy you are happy. if not, you are unhappy. It is a state of your mind.

Nongmaithem Rakesh Singh wrote:

I want to be happy. I am happy because I choose to be happy. It is a choice we make everyday. 

Very true, because happiness is not something which can be guaranteed and permanent. Near my school there lives an old childless couple in their eighties, living in a small broken down house. The enthusiasm they have for life even in their every day appearance , neat and tidy,  in cleaning the house during festivals  and preparing special dishes and distributing it to others. They are not only happy with whatever little they have and make sure they enjoy life to the maximum but make all others around them  happy too , which is a great inherent quality some people possess !

Nongmaithem Rakesh Singh wrote:

I want to be happy. I am happy because I choose to be happy. It is a choice we make everyday. 

Very true! It is the choice that we make. There is no prerequisite for happiness. If you make a choice to be happy, you are bound to be happy.

rambabu wrote:

anil wrote:

Nongmaithem Rakesh Singh wrote:

I want to be happy. I am happy because I choose to be happy. It is a choice we make everyday.

Yes it is perfect answer, happiness is with in us. 

Happiness is well within us. If you think, you are happy you are happy. if not, you are unhappy. It is a state of your mind.

Some time some thing give us happiness. When I saw picture of cute baby I feel much happy.

anil wrote:

rambabu wrote:

anil wrote:

Nongmaithem Rakesh Singh wrote:

I want to be happy. I am happy because I choose to be happy. It is a choice we make everyday.

Yes it is perfect answer, happiness is with in us. 

Happiness is well within us. If you think, you are happy you are happy. if not, you are unhappy. It is a state of your mind.

Some time some thing give us happiness. When I saw picture of cute baby I feel much happy.

 True. Even small things like a beautiful flower or birds flying in the sky will cause happiness.