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Question for both, men and women
A- would you, as a wife agree to work on salary basis in your own household? What would you expect to do/not do if your hubby fail to pay you enough salary?

B- Would you, as a husband feel comfortable paying your wife a salary, What conditions would you want her to sign?


What's your definition of "Enough salary?"
As a man my definition salary is to see a 'woman as a woman.'
Two signatures are needed not signed with ink. With blood. Not on the physical papers.On the hearts of each other



Haha changed statement? I know we indians would never agree to salaried wives irrespective of man or woman. This concept would certainly not work in our country.


I'm yet to get your definition of "Enough salary." till then i stick to my opinion.


Whatever decided mutually or whatever wife thought she is worth.


Again i raise the same question. "Who will decide?". Who will have the final say? I know, its not yet decided, because its still a proposal. For the same reason I said unless a law comes in, none can decide the merits and demerits. what you and I said are just assumptions.


Although the very notion of 'salary to wife/ husband' is unacceptable, let us see the issue if at all this gets materialized. Then there will be advertisement for post of wife/ husband indicating salary payable and other terms. There would also be statutory minimum salary. Most probably, the family matters on financial issues will be dealt with by labor courts instead of family courts. If salary is payable, most probably, working hours, other facilities will also be decided as for factory workers.


Yes, so many factors are involved. I'm also of the opinion that once it materializes, its efficacy will be known.


Don't you find some very funny implications of the proposal ?"

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Question for both, men and women
A- would you, as a wife agree to work on salary basis in your own household? What would you expect to do/not do if your hubby fail to pay you enough salary?

B- Would you, as a husband feel comfortable paying your wife a salary, What conditions would you want her to sign?


What's your definition of "Enough salary?"
As a man my definition salary is to see a 'woman as a woman.'
Two signatures are needed not signed with ink. With blood. Not on the physical papers.On the hearts of each other



Haha changed statement? I know we indians would never agree to salaried wives irrespective of man or woman. This concept would certainly not work in our country.


I'm yet to get your definition of "Enough salary." till then i stick to my opinion.


Whatever decided mutually or whatever wife thought she is worth.


Again i raise the same question. "Who will decide?". Who will have the final say? I know, its not yet decided, because its still a proposal. For the same reason I said unless a law comes in, none can decide the merits and demerits. what you and I said are just assumptions.


Although the very notion of 'salary to wife/ husband' is unacceptable, let us see the issue if at all this gets materialized. Then there will be advertisement for post of wife/ husband indicating salary payable and other terms. There would also be statutory minimum salary. Most probably, the family matters on financial issues will be dealt with by labor courts instead of family courts. If salary is payable, most probably, working hours, other facilities will also be decided as for factory workers.


Yes, so many factors are involved. I'm also of the opinion that once it materializes, its efficacy will be known.


Don't you find some very funny implications of the proposal ?"


Base of husband and wife relation is not salary, it is based on love and affection.This relation is not a relation of employee and employer.. I will prefer to handover my earning to my wife and it is her duty to manage home.
Thank you said by: suni51
Question for both, men and women
A- would you, as a wife agree to work on salary basis in your own household? What would you expect to do/not do if your hubby fail to pay you enough salary?

B- Would you, as a husband feel comfortable paying your wife a salary, What conditions would you want her to sign?


What's your definition of "Enough salary?"
As a man my definition salary is to see a 'woman as a woman.'
Two signatures are needed not signed with ink. With blood. Not on the physical papers.On the hearts of each other



Haha changed statement? I know we indians would never agree to salaried wives irrespective of man or woman. This concept would certainly not work in our country.


I'm yet to get your definition of "Enough salary." till then i stick to my opinion.


Whatever decided mutually or whatever wife thought she is worth.


Again i raise the same question. "Who will decide?". Who will have the final say? I know, its not yet decided, because its still a proposal. For the same reason I said unless a law comes in, none can decide the merits and demerits. what you and I said are just assumptions.


Although the very notion of 'salary to wife/ husband' is unacceptable, let us see the issue if at all this gets materialized. Then there will be advertisement for post of wife/ husband indicating salary payable and other terms. There would also be statutory minimum salary. Most probably, the family matters on financial issues will be dealt with by labor courts instead of family courts. If salary is payable, most probably, working hours, other facilities will also be decided as for factory workers.


Yes, so many factors are involved. I'm also of the opinion that once it materializes, its efficacy will be known.


Don't you find some very funny implications of the proposal ?"


Base of husband and wife relation is not salary, it is based on love and affection.This relation is not a relation of employee and employer.. I will prefer to handover my earning to my wife and it is her duty to manage home.


I would like to repeat what I have said earlier also -You are not supposed to pay a woman a salary who is a wife, mother ,daughter and most of all a creator who does everything selflessly . You cannot hire a woman who works day in and day out for you. I agree maybe few of them will fall for the idea of money for time being, but it would fail the end. Let's start from our own household and see the result it will fail in any case.

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Question for both, men and women
A- would you, as a wife agree to work on salary basis in your own household? What would you expect to do/not do if your hubby fail to pay you enough salary?

B- Would you, as a husband feel comfortable paying your wife a salary, What conditions would you want her to sign?


What's your definition of "Enough salary?"
As a man my definition salary is to see a 'woman as a woman.'
Two signatures are needed not signed with ink. With blood. Not on the physical papers.On the hearts of each other



Haha changed statement? I know we indians would never agree to salaried wives irrespective of man or woman. This concept would certainly not work in our country.


I'm yet to get your definition of "Enough salary." till then i stick to my opinion.


Whatever decided mutually or whatever wife thought she is worth.


Again i raise the same question. "Who will decide?". Who will have the final say? I know, its not yet decided, because its still a proposal. For the same reason I said unless a law comes in, none can decide the merits and demerits. what you and I said are just assumptions.


Although the very notion of 'salary to wife/ husband' is unacceptable, let us see the issue if at all this gets materialized. Then there will be advertisement for post of wife/ husband indicating salary payable and other terms. There would also be statutory minimum salary. Most probably, the family matters on financial issues will be dealt with by labor courts instead of family courts. If salary is payable, most probably, working hours, other facilities will also be decided as for factory workers.


Yes, so many factors are involved. I'm also of the opinion that once it materializes, its efficacy will be known.


Don't you find some very funny implications of the proposal ?"


Base of husband and wife relation is not salary, it is based on love and affection.This relation is not a relation of employee and employer.. I will prefer to handover my earning to my wife and it is her duty to manage home.


I would like to repeat what I have said earlier also -You are not supposed to pay a woman a salary who is a wife, mother ,daughter and most of all a creator who does everything selflessly . You cannot hire a woman who works day in and day out for you. I agree maybe few of them will fall for the idea of money for time being, but it would fail the end. Let's start from our own household and see the result it will fail in any case.


As you said, let me tell you , when I said about this proposal a few months ago to my wife, she asked me, How much should I take. Or how much you permit me to take as a salary? I had no answer. It clearly indicates ‘lack of clarity’ in the said issue. So, I would reiterate, it would be a waste of energy to discuss on such a matter that has so many empty spaces. Then who would fill the empty spaces? My answer is ‘ Wait’. So, let’s wait.
If you have answers for the questions raised by my wife, please help with your answers.
Question for both, men and women
A- would you, as a wife agree to work on salary basis in your own household? What would you expect to do/not do if your hubby fail to pay you enough salary?

B- Would you, as a husband feel comfortable paying your wife a salary, What conditions would you want her to sign?


What's your definition of "Enough salary?"
As a man my definition salary is to see a 'woman as a woman.'
Two signatures are needed not signed with ink. With blood. Not on the physical papers.On the hearts of each other



Haha changed statement? I know we indians would never agree to salaried wives irrespective of man or woman. This concept would certainly not work in our country.


I'm yet to get your definition of "Enough salary." till then i stick to my opinion.


Whatever decided mutually or whatever wife thought she is worth.


Again i raise the same question. "Who will decide?". Who will have the final say? I know, its not yet decided, because its still a proposal. For the same reason I said unless a law comes in, none can decide the merits and demerits. what you and I said are just assumptions.


Although the very notion of 'salary to wife/ husband' is unacceptable, let us see the issue if at all this gets materialized. Then there will be advertisement for post of wife/ husband indicating salary payable and other terms. There would also be statutory minimum salary. Most probably, the family matters on financial issues will be dealt with by labor courts instead of family courts. If salary is payable, most probably, working hours, other facilities will also be decided as for factory workers.


Yes, so many factors are involved. I'm also of the opinion that once it materializes, its efficacy will be known.


Don't you find some very funny implications of the proposal ?"


Base of husband and wife relation is not salary, it is based on love and affection.This relation is not a relation of employee and employer.. I will prefer to handover my earning to my wife and it is her duty to manage home.


I would like to repeat what I have said earlier also -You are not supposed to pay a woman a salary who is a wife, mother ,daughter and most of all a creator who does everything selflessly . You cannot hire a woman who works day in and day out for you. I agree maybe few of them will fall for the idea of money for time being, but it would fail the end. Let's start from our own household and see the result it will fail in any case.


As you said, let me tell you , when I said about this proposal a few months ago to my wife, she asked me, How much should I take. Or how much you permit me to take as a salary? I had no answer. It clearly indicates ‘lack of clarity’ in the said issue. So, I would reiterate, it would be a waste of energy to discuss on such a matter that has so many empty spaces. Then who would fill the empty spaces? My answer is ‘ Wait’. So, let’s wait.
If you have answers for the questions raised by my wife, please help with your answers.


As another member said above, I never kept any thing for myself but gave every singe rupee to my wife. I asked from her whatever I needed even for my pocket money. I never counted money in my wallet whatever she kept was more than my needs. And to make things transparent we had joint accounts in every single head that was related to money, including our house and movables.

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Question for both, men and women
A- would you, as a wife agree to work on salary basis in your own household? What would you expect to do/not do if your hubby fail to pay you enough salary?

B- Would you, as a husband feel comfortable paying your wife a salary, What conditions would you want her to sign?


What's your definition of "Enough salary?"
As a man my definition salary is to see a 'woman as a woman.'
Two signatures are needed not signed with ink. With blood. Not on the physical papers.On the hearts of each other



Haha changed statement? I know we indians would never agree to salaried wives irrespective of man or woman. This concept would certainly not work in our country.


I'm yet to get your definition of "Enough salary." till then i stick to my opinion.


Whatever decided mutually or whatever wife thought she is worth.


Again i raise the same question. "Who will decide?". Who will have the final say? I know, its not yet decided, because its still a proposal. For the same reason I said unless a law comes in, none can decide the merits and demerits. what you and I said are just assumptions.


Although the very notion of 'salary to wife/ husband' is unacceptable, let us see the issue if at all this gets materialized. Then there will be advertisement for post of wife/ husband indicating salary payable and other terms. There would also be statutory minimum salary. Most probably, the family matters on financial issues will be dealt with by labor courts instead of family courts. If salary is payable, most probably, working hours, other facilities will also be decided as for factory workers.


Yes, so many factors are involved. I'm also of the opinion that once it materializes, its efficacy will be known.


Don't you find some very funny implications of the proposal ?"


Base of husband and wife relation is not salary, it is based on love and affection.This relation is not a relation of employee and employer.. I will prefer to handover my earning to my wife and it is her duty to manage home.


I would like to repeat what I have said earlier also -You are not supposed to pay a woman a salary who is a wife, mother ,daughter and most of all a creator who does everything selflessly . You cannot hire a woman who works day in and day out for you. I agree maybe few of them will fall for the idea of money for time being, but it would fail the end. Let's start from our own household and see the result it will fail in any case.


As you said, let me tell you , when I said about this proposal a few months ago to my wife, she asked me, How much should I take. Or how much you permit me to take as a salary? I had no answer. It clearly indicates ‘lack of clarity’ in the said issue. So, I would reiterate, it would be a waste of energy to discuss on such a matter that has so many empty spaces. Then who would fill the empty spaces? My answer is ‘ Wait’. So, let’s wait.
If you have answers for the questions raised by my wife, please help with your answers.


As another member said above, I never kept any thing for myself but gave every singe rupee to my wife. I asked from her whatever I needed even for my pocket money. I never counted money in my wallet whatever she kept was more than my needs. And to make things transparent we had joint accounts in every single head that was related to money, including our house and movables.


That's your way. But there are others who differ.
Question for both, men and women
A- would you, as a wife agree to work on salary basis in your own household? What would you expect to do/not do if your hubby fail to pay you enough salary?

B- Would you, as a husband feel comfortable paying your wife a salary, What conditions would you want her to sign?


What's your definition of "Enough salary?"
As a man my definition salary is to see a 'woman as a woman.'
Two signatures are needed not signed with ink. With blood. Not on the physical papers.On the hearts of each other



Haha changed statement? I know we indians would never agree to salaried wives irrespective of man or woman. This concept would certainly not work in our country.


I'm yet to get your definition of "Enough salary." till then i stick to my opinion.


Whatever decided mutually or whatever wife thought she is worth.


Again i raise the same question. "Who will decide?". Who will have the final say? I know, its not yet decided, because its still a proposal. For the same reason I said unless a law comes in, none can decide the merits and demerits. what you and I said are just assumptions.


Although the very notion of 'salary to wife/ husband' is unacceptable, let us see the issue if at all this gets materialized. Then there will be advertisement for post of wife/ husband indicating salary payable and other terms. There would also be statutory minimum salary. Most probably, the family matters on financial issues will be dealt with by labor courts instead of family courts. If salary is payable, most probably, working hours, other facilities will also be decided as for factory workers.


Yes, so many factors are involved. I'm also of the opinion that once it materializes, its efficacy will be known.


Don't you find some very funny implications of the proposal ?"


Base of husband and wife relation is not salary, it is based on love and affection.This relation is not a relation of employee and employer.. I will prefer to handover my earning to my wife and it is her duty to manage home.


I would like to repeat what I have said earlier also -You are not supposed to pay a woman a salary who is a wife, mother ,daughter and most of all a creator who does everything selflessly . You cannot hire a woman who works day in and day out for you. I agree maybe few of them will fall for the idea of money for time being, but it would fail the end. Let's start from our own household and see the result it will fail in any case.


As you said, let me tell you , when I said about this proposal a few months ago to my wife, she asked me, How much should I take. Or how much you permit me to take as a salary? I had no answer. It clearly indicates ‘lack of clarity’ in the said issue. So, I would reiterate, it would be a waste of energy to discuss on such a matter that has so many empty spaces. Then who would fill the empty spaces? My answer is ‘ Wait’. So, let’s wait.
If you have answers for the questions raised by my wife, please help with your answers.


There is no ready or acceptable answer to this except that , a certain percentage of the husbands salary can be given to the wife each month so that she need not feel as if she is more of a glorified maid in her house.I know that although men may not realise, most women feel so when they are just hoisewives depending on their husbands earnings only and be at their mercy for all their minor expenditure and many men take advantage...

Pay no mind to those who talk behind your back, it simply means that you are two steps ahead !!!

Thank you said by: suni51
Question for both, men and women
A- would you, as a wife agree to work on salary basis in your own household? What would you expect to do/not do if your hubby fail to pay you enough salary?

B- Would you, as a husband feel comfortable paying your wife a salary, What conditions would you want her to sign?


What's your definition of "Enough salary?"
As a man my definition salary is to see a 'woman as a woman.'
Two signatures are needed not signed with ink. With blood. Not on the physical papers.On the hearts of each other



Haha changed statement? I know we indians would never agree to salaried wives irrespective of man or woman. This concept would certainly not work in our country.


I'm yet to get your definition of "Enough salary." till then i stick to my opinion.


Whatever decided mutually or whatever wife thought she is worth.


Again i raise the same question. "Who will decide?". Who will have the final say? I know, its not yet decided, because its still a proposal. For the same reason I said unless a law comes in, none can decide the merits and demerits. what you and I said are just assumptions.


Although the very notion of 'salary to wife/ husband' is unacceptable, let us see the issue if at all this gets materialized. Then there will be advertisement for post of wife/ husband indicating salary payable and other terms. There would also be statutory minimum salary. Most probably, the family matters on financial issues will be dealt with by labor courts instead of family courts. If salary is payable, most probably, working hours, other facilities will also be decided as for factory workers.


Yes, so many factors are involved. I'm also of the opinion that once it materializes, its efficacy will be known.


Don't you find some very funny implications of the proposal ?"


Base of husband and wife relation is not salary, it is based on love and affection.This relation is not a relation of employee and employer.. I will prefer to handover my earning to my wife and it is her duty to manage home.


I would like to repeat what I have said earlier also -You are not supposed to pay a woman a salary who is a wife, mother ,daughter and most of all a creator who does everything selflessly . You cannot hire a woman who works day in and day out for you. I agree maybe few of them will fall for the idea of money for time being, but it would fail the end. Let's start from our own household and see the result it will fail in any case.


As you said, let me tell you , when I said about this proposal a few months ago to my wife, she asked me, How much should I take. Or how much you permit me to take as a salary? I had no answer. It clearly indicates ‘lack of clarity’ in the said issue. So, I would reiterate, it would be a waste of energy to discuss on such a matter that has so many empty spaces. Then who would fill the empty spaces? My answer is ‘ Wait’. So, let’s wait.
If you have answers for the questions raised by my wife, please help with your answers.


There is no ready or acceptable answer to this except that , a certain percentage of the husbands salary can be given to the wife each month so that she need not feel as if she is more of a glorified maid in her house.I know that although men may not realise, most women feel so when they are just hoisewives depending on their husbands earnings only and be at their mercy for all their minor expenditure and many men take advantage...


You could be right but as I am not aware of any such woman or came across any so far therefore I would agree with you. But one question comes to my mind, would paying a wife for her services would be the right solution? Won't it make look her more like a paid servant. It should rather be that a fixed amount paid directly to her account as her share and not as her salary. What do you say?

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Question for both, men and women
A- would you, as a wife agree to work on salary basis in your own household? What would you expect to do/not do if your hubby fail to pay you enough salary?

B- Would you, as a husband feel comfortable paying your wife a salary, What conditions would you want her to sign?


What's your definition of "Enough salary?"
As a man my definition salary is to see a 'woman as a woman.'
Two signatures are needed not signed with ink. With blood. Not on the physical papers.On the hearts of each other



Haha changed statement? I know we indians would never agree to salaried wives irrespective of man or woman. This concept would certainly not work in our country.


I'm yet to get your definition of "Enough salary." till then i stick to my opinion.


Whatever decided mutually or whatever wife thought she is worth.


Again i raise the same question. "Who will decide?". Who will have the final say? I know, its not yet decided, because its still a proposal. For the same reason I said unless a law comes in, none can decide the merits and demerits. what you and I said are just assumptions.


Although the very notion of 'salary to wife/ husband' is unacceptable, let us see the issue if at all this gets materialized. Then there will be advertisement for post of wife/ husband indicating salary payable and other terms. There would also be statutory minimum salary. Most probably, the family matters on financial issues will be dealt with by labor courts instead of family courts. If salary is payable, most probably, working hours, other facilities will also be decided as for factory workers.


Yes, so many factors are involved. I'm also of the opinion that once it materializes, its efficacy will be known.


Don't you find some very funny implications of the proposal ?"


Base of husband and wife relation is not salary, it is based on love and affection.This relation is not a relation of employee and employer.. I will prefer to handover my earning to my wife and it is her duty to manage home.


I would like to repeat what I have said earlier also -You are not supposed to pay a woman a salary who is a wife, mother ,daughter and most of all a creator who does everything selflessly . You cannot hire a woman who works day in and day out for you. I agree maybe few of them will fall for the idea of money for time being, but it would fail the end. Let's start from our own household and see the result it will fail in any case.


As you said, let me tell you , when I said about this proposal a few months ago to my wife, she asked me, How much should I take. Or how much you permit me to take as a salary? I had no answer. It clearly indicates ‘lack of clarity’ in the said issue. So, I would reiterate, it would be a waste of energy to discuss on such a matter that has so many empty spaces. Then who would fill the empty spaces? My answer is ‘ Wait’. So, let’s wait.
If you have answers for the questions raised by my wife, please help with your answers.


There is no ready or acceptable answer to this except that , a certain percentage of the husbands salary can be given to the wife each month so that she need not feel as if she is more of a glorified maid in her house.I know that although men may not realise, most women feel so when they are just hoisewives depending on their husbands earnings only and be at their mercy for all their minor expenditure and many men take advantage...


Even that condition, 'certain percentage of the husbands salary' ,should come in the form of an act. It's only then we will be in a position to test the feasibility part in real life.
Question for both, men and women
A- would you, as a wife agree to work on salary basis in your own household? What would you expect to do/not do if your hubby fail to pay you enough salary?

B- Would you, as a husband feel comfortable paying your wife a salary, What conditions would you want her to sign?


What's your definition of "Enough salary?"
As a man my definition salary is to see a 'woman as a woman.'
Two signatures are needed not signed with ink. With blood. Not on the physical papers.On the hearts of each other



Haha changed statement? I know we indians would never agree to salaried wives irrespective of man or woman. This concept would certainly not work in our country.


I'm yet to get your definition of "Enough salary." till then i stick to my opinion.


Whatever decided mutually or whatever wife thought she is worth.


Again i raise the same question. "Who will decide?". Who will have the final say? I know, its not yet decided, because its still a proposal. For the same reason I said unless a law comes in, none can decide the merits and demerits. what you and I said are just assumptions.


Although the very notion of 'salary to wife/ husband' is unacceptable, let us see the issue if at all this gets materialized. Then there will be advertisement for post of wife/ husband indicating salary payable and other terms. There would also be statutory minimum salary. Most probably, the family matters on financial issues will be dealt with by labor courts instead of family courts. If salary is payable, most probably, working hours, other facilities will also be decided as for factory workers.


Yes, so many factors are involved. I'm also of the opinion that once it materializes, its efficacy will be known.


Don't you find some very funny implications of the proposal ?"


Base of husband and wife relation is not salary, it is based on love and affection.This relation is not a relation of employee and employer.. I will prefer to handover my earning to my wife and it is her duty to manage home.


I would like to repeat what I have said earlier also -You are not supposed to pay a woman a salary who is a wife, mother ,daughter and most of all a creator who does everything selflessly . You cannot hire a woman who works day in and day out for you. I agree maybe few of them will fall for the idea of money for time being, but it would fail the end. Let's start from our own household and see the result it will fail in any case.


As you said, let me tell you , when I said about this proposal a few months ago to my wife, she asked me, How much should I take. Or how much you permit me to take as a salary? I had no answer. It clearly indicates ‘lack of clarity’ in the said issue. So, I would reiterate, it would be a waste of energy to discuss on such a matter that has so many empty spaces. Then who would fill the empty spaces? My answer is ‘ Wait’. So, let’s wait.
If you have answers for the questions raised by my wife, please help with your answers.


There is no ready or acceptable answer to this except that , a certain percentage of the husbands salary can be given to the wife each month so that she need not feel as if she is more of a glorified maid in her house.I know that although men may not realise, most women feel so when they are just hoisewives depending on their husbands earnings only and be at their mercy for all their minor expenditure and many men take advantage...


Even that condition, 'certain percentage of the husbands salary' ,should come in the form of an act. It's only then we will be in a position to test the feasibility part in real life.


How much percentage do you suggest? And what about people like us who have no salaries to share with wife? Would the government pay them from exchequer?
Alternately men should have everything in joint accounts, movables and immovables to provide women a sense of security. There is nothing better than sense of security.

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