Is it right to have expectations from people close to you ?

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Is this justified? It is only natural that people have some expectations from others close to them.But where does one draw the line? When it goes beyond a certain limit ,this can lead to a lot of unhappiness and the relationship can suffer...

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I people who willingly fulfills our desire for nothing in return are automatically becomes very special for us. They are very close to us, Thus if they any how could not do what we expect, even though we have not asked them to do so for us, they no longer remain special for us. This is the mental setup of human beings.
we often say to ourselves and others also that not to expect anything from anyone howsoever close he/she might be but actually some or the other time we do start expecting as because of human tendency.



Thats true, we do have some expectations from people close to us.When it is mutual it draws people close to one another, but when it is one sided and demanding it can spell trouble :unsure:
I people who willingly fulfills our desire for nothing in return are automatically becomes very special for us. They are very close to us, Thus if they any how could not do what we expect, even though we have not asked them to do so for us, they no longer remain special for us. This is the mental setup of human beings.


I dint get you , but when people do something without our asking for it, we should be immensely grateful to them and definitely not expect anything more, in fact, if possible we should do something that they would like and appreciate ..
In my case,every time when i had expected from other,i didn't got that much response.
So,now i have left all expectations and started to live a life without help.
This has helped me.
I people who willingly fulfills our desire for nothing in return are automatically becomes very special for us. They are very close to us, Thus if they any how could not do what we expect, even though we have not asked them to do so for us, they no longer remain special for us. This is the mental setup of human beings.


I dint get you , but when people do something without our asking for it, we should be immensely grateful to them and definitely not expect anything more, in fact, if possible we should do something that they would like and appreciate ..


But I feel unwanted help very disgusting. I politely refuse such help. Nobody can be sure of ultimate motive behind such help.
Well, Yes I have few expectation from my close one.. But I know we shouldn't that much expect as any closer one can break them..
Well, Yes I have few expectation from my close one.. But I know we shouldn't that much expect as any closer one can break them..


If our demands are not money related, most probably they will oblige you. Money is the main problem for relations.
Sunil.. That's so true.. It is surely main problem behind breaking relations.

But sometimes even in non money matters, few expectation gets failed.
Sunil.. That's so true.. It is surely main problem behind breaking relations.

But sometimes even in non money matters, few expectation gets failed.


Expectation related to money most of the time get failed but people do respond to if it is other help we ask/expect. :blink:
I don't think they do those other help in all cases.
I don't think they do those other help in all cases.


Not always but sometime we may expect from them. :)
Well, not sometime , we can expect most of the time.. but only rarely they not get full fill. I am talking about close one.
Well, not sometime , we can expect most of the time.. but only rarely they not get full fill. I am talking about close one.


And when they don't fulfill our expectations then we come to know how are they close to us. :blink:
Hmmm.. That's how it is like.

We can't except to complete our expectation 100%. ha ha
Hmmm.. That's how it is like.

We can't except to complete our expectation 100%. ha ha


I expect 80% of my expectation get fulfilled i will be satisfied then also. :laugh:
Ha ha.. Well, I expect form others but not feel that bad as I know even I can not full fill others expectation all times.
Ha ha.. Well, I expect form others but not feel that bad as I know even I can not full fill others expectation all times.


Don't worry i will check you some other time. :woohoo:
What do you mean?! *confused*


Check you if you fulfills my expectation. :woohoo:
Sunil.. That's so true.. It is surely main problem behind breaking relations.

But sometimes even in non money matters, few expectation gets failed.


I said the same. If this is not money related they will help you.

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