Love at first sight?

Friends just a single question. Is there anyone working here in boddunan who has done love marriage? I think he or she can write about their love story and make us clearly differentiate between love and attraction.

Sasi and Sunil....Any more names?????

Friends just a single question. Is there anyone working here in boddunan who has done love marriage? I think he or she can write about their love story and make us clearly differentiate between love and attraction.

I had never love marriage. But I had love. Attraction is essential element of love. If attraction is long lasting, this is love. On the other hand, if attraction fades when you are away, this is mere attraction. Out of sight out of mind- is the phrase that defines what is mere attraction.

I have started a similar thread some days before, now vanished....All these things are clearly quoted there. I think, I should bring that thread back to discussion

[quote]Devyani Sarkar wrote:
Friends just a single question. Is there anyone working here in boddunan who has done love marriage? I think he or she can write about their love story and make us clearly differentiate between love and attraction.


Sasi and Sunil....Any more names?????[/quote]
Then two members only.
I know my wife from childhood but there was no love. our parents arranged our marriage.

Friends just a single question. Is there anyone working here in boddunan who has done love marriage? I think he or she can write about their love story and make us clearly differentiate between love and attraction.

Sasi and Sunil....Any more names?????

Sandhya I don't understand what you want to make us understand. Kindly explain it.

@Devyani Sasi and Sunil told in an old thread that that had done love marriage.

There is artile about love vs arrange already posted

http://www.boddunan.com/component/content/article/77-write-ups/5014-arranged-marriage-or-love-marriage.html

[quote]Devyani Sarkar wrote:
Friends just a single question. Is there anyone working here in boddunan who has done love marriage? I think he or she can write about their love story and make us clearly differentiate between love and attraction.


Sasi and Sunil....Any more names?????

Then two members only.
I know my wife from childhood but there was no love. our parents arranged our marriage.[/quote]

I also know my husband from degree life...again it is a pakka arranged marriage

Friends just a single question. Is there anyone working here in boddunan who has done love marriage? I think he or she can write about their love story and make us clearly differentiate between love and attraction.

Sasi and Sunil....Any more names?????

Sandhya I don't understand what you want to make us understand. Kindly explain it.

Its answer :cheer:

But I never mean they married each other...ha ha :laugh: :laugh: :laugh:

Love at first sight is also appreciable as after they start loving they will understand each other before they marriage this will help them in life to live together. :cheer:

Now one question-do you believe in live together before marriage? In high society it is seen but I think in our culture it is mismatched.

Now one question-do you believe in live together before marriage? In high society it is seen but I think in our culture it is mismatched.

Yes....we should never accept it as a part of our culture. After all, we all are Indians. Isn't it?
I think, present Bollywood films are misleading people in this way :angry: :angry: :angry: :angry:

Actually Indian culture is loosing its values too fast due to films and TV. But most of the people would call us backward people if we shall raise our voice. The same people would react otherwise if this would be their turn, they are on the receiving end.

Actually Indian culture is loosing its values too fast due to films and TV. But most of the people would call us backward people if we shall raise our voice. The same people would react otherwise if this would be their turn, they are on the receiving end.

I have quoted in filmy thread also....youth always see actors/actresses as icons. So, they will imitate everything and see it as a part of fashion and culture. I think, they should think, before taking such roles. Isn't it?

Money face...Money is the evil face. Money would let them do every thing on the screen. They are after money rest comes later.

Money face...Money is the evil face. Money would let them do every thing on the screen. They are after money rest comes later.

Can you answer Devayani's question....
Your love experience?

Every one has his or her own quota of love. This is give and take. The more you offer the more you get. I don't wat to make it controversial.

Every one has his or her own quota of love. This is give and take. The more you offer the more you get. I don't wat to make it controversial.

It is right.
But sometimes, more you give, more others expect from you also...

I never use harsh words against others. But, if I become angry even a little, I don't know why, the other person can't tolerate it. All expect a lot from me. Even if I give a lot, they ask more :laugh: :laugh: :laugh:
Everyone has given me the permission to love, but no one gives me permission to criticize or say a wrong word against them :woohoo: :woohoo: :woohoo:

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I never use harsh words against others. But, if I become angry even a little, I don't know why, the other person can't tolerate it. All expect a lot from me. Even if I give a lot, they ask more :laugh: :laugh: :laugh:
Everyone has given me the permission to love, but no one gives me permission to criticize or say a wrong word against them :woohoo: :woohoo: :woohoo:[/quote]

I am also the same sentimental fool, so I delete them from my list of friends and never add them back. I give them chances as long as I can tolerate them. After that I make it obvious that they are no more welcome.

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I never use harsh words against others. But, if I become angry even a little, I don't know why, the other person can't tolerate it. All expect a lot from me. Even if I give a lot, they ask more :laugh: :laugh: :laugh:
Everyone has given me the permission to love, but no one gives me permission to criticize or say a wrong word against them :woohoo: :woohoo: :woohoo:

I am also the same sentimental fool, so I delete them from my list of friends and never add them back. I give them chances as long as I can tolerate them. After that I make it obvious that they are no more welcome.[/quote]

Can I delete my husband from my list :woohoo: :woohoo: :woohoo:
He also can't tolerate even a angry look at him :laugh: :laugh: :laugh:
That's why we quarrel only in 6 months or 1 year :P

Everyone has given me the permission to love, but no one gives me permission to criticize or say a wrong word against them :woohoo: :woohoo: :woohoo:[/quote]

I am also the same sentimental fool, so I delete them from my list of friends and never add them back. I give them chances as long as I can tolerate them. After that I make it obvious that they are no more welcome.[/quote]

Can I delete my husband from my list :woohoo: :woohoo: :woohoo:
He also can't tolerate even a angry look at him :laugh: :laugh: :laugh:
That's why we quarrel only in 6 months or 1 year :P[/quote]

I agree your hubby is your best friend, use your BRHMASTRA while dealing with him. Show him the face of DURGA the CHANDEE.