Yes, good to get your idea, present am doing that only. but small hope to convince them.
And more over am near to 30 ,thats why i worry to sacrifice the aim. because in India no one will take people for job after 30. So now there is no other go.
thats why am so worried. I dont like to live life without any satisfaction.
This issue is not about fulfilling the desires but is the need of the hour that once parents educate their children, they should give them liberty also to decide about their career since you are harnessed with experience and degree in a particular field.
Still if he is not allowing you to go ahead and chose the career path,he is really becoming stubborn and selfish and taking such decisions under the pressure of the society, the cost of which is being borne by you.
Either put him under the influence of such people who have studied with you and are successful and have come out of the same circumstances as that of yours.I think comparision and relativity will open his eyes which can be a ray of hope for you.If not, go ahead and take a stern step and break the barrier in order to cross through the gate of opportunity.
Arise Awake and Rest Not till the Goal is Achieved.
I think what gulshaji has told is quiet suited to your situation. We often try not to hurt parents by trying to convience them but time will not wait for us and give us more oppurtunities. Try and try again but only if it is not related to time.If you think after 30 years you are not eligible to get job this is the best time for you to join that job with your own willingness.
i usually convience my parents by explaining all the expects of what i am wanting and and i assure them that there is nothing harm and trust me thats it and they get convince only few matters are so on which they dont as they have fear in mind that i am a girl and still not so mature enough.
