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What we have and What we do not have

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There are two types of people in this world with contrasting types of attitudes towards life.  One type of people belong to the category of people who have a huge feeling of superiority complex and boast about what they have, while the other type of people belong to category of people with inferiority complex always thinking about what they do not have.  While the first category of people ruin the lives of others with their unnecessary boasting, the second category of people are even more dangerous ruining their own lives.

People with Superiority Complex:- People take great pride in telling others about their wealth, properties and achievements.  Among people with superiority complex, some of them are actually good people but then these people have a weakness  as they do not have the ability to resist their urge to convey about their achievements to other.  However  to many others boasting about things they have what others do not have is intentional and  it is a way of hurting others  and treat it is an opportunity to hurt others especially their enemies.   There are few others who derive sadistic pleasure in talking about their achievements to somebody who actually lacks it. A person who has lot of properties derives great sadistic pleasure in talking about the new properties he has purchased to somebody who is reeling under loans and one who wants to sell of his property.  These type of people always creates stress for others especially for those who are already suffering.

People with Inferiority Complex:- People with inferiority complex are one up on people with superiority complex as they take the responsibility on themselves to ruin their own lives.  These type of people always spoil their mind thinking about things which they do have, but others have. They create stress for themselves and the environment they live in.  They not only ruin their lives but also ruin the lives of people associated with them.  It is a well know that stress spoils our health.  These type of people not only spoil their health but also of their families.

While people who have everything in life should behave in a more mature manner in the general well being of the world, people who do not have should make an effort to live satisfied lives.

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Satish

 

 

 

Shirdi Sai Baba's Leelas before 1918

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Om Sai Ram

 

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In 1910, Ramachandra V.Pathankar, a Retd. Clerk of Alibaugh was in distress. His monthly earnings of Rs.30/- was not sufficient to meet his family expenses. There was a certain photograph of Akkalkot Swami at Balkrishna Buva’s Mutt, Dadar that attracted him. He visited that Mutt often, as he was devoted to Swami Samarth. One day Ghansham Gupta, a close friend of his, asked Pathankar to accompany him to Shirdi. Although he attended Das Ganu’s Kirtan and Pravachan but he did not have faith in Baba. He thought that Baba was a Muslim. Insisting him to come Ghansham assured Pathankar that all his expenses for the trip would be borne by him. Pathankar was reluctant at first, and then he agreed to accompany Ghansham, on the condition that he wouldn’t give any Dakshina to Baba. If he did, it would be no more than one rupee. Ghansham agreed to this and both of them went to Shirdi. At that time, there was only one hotel in Shirdi. Unfortunately, Pathankar found a few worms in the dal when he was having lunch. He started shouting at the top of his voice. “Did I come all the way to Shirdi to eat worms?” he said. Then, both the friends went for Baba’s darshan. Baba, on seeing Pathankar, flew into a rage and drove him away. Pathankar was upset and decided to leave Shirdi, without Baba’s consent. The other devotees consoled him and asked him not to do so. Later both the friends went for Baba’s darshan again. Baba had calmed down and looking at Pathankar, He said, “Do people come here to eat worms?” On hearing this vital question, Pathanknr fell at Baba’s feet. He realized that Baba was omnipresent. Then, Baba gave him darshan as Akkalkot Swamy, the very same form that he worshipped at Balkrishna Buva’s Mutt. Pathankar was over whelmed and realized that Baba was not different from Swami Samarth. He gave Baba one rupee Dakshina. But Baba asked for Dakshina again. He gladly gave another rupee. Then Baba gave him permission to leave. Upon returning home, he got another job, which gave him a better salary, and he could live comfortably. Baba took two rupees Dakshina and gave back a hundred. Courtesy- Ambrosia in Shirdi

Indictment

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from the poetry of sand,

to the novels of clay,

a behemoth sleeps, constructed

by bricks,

the souls of many are locked

in there,

you can hear them moan

or cry

about the agony

of their futile convictions

 

Iron bars of righteous esteem,

radiate memories

of the killings and the murders

and the robberies,

then suddenly, they forgo sordid ignorance,

the theft of the mind,

they're at home,

yet convicts of their wrong doing

 

Now, their vicions are tainted

with blood,

and their peace has been

stolen by their own cruel actions,

rattled conscience!

their sins ressurrect as ghouls

to hover over them

and their future,

they shall know no rest

till the truth has been spoken.

                                                        By Kakraba Afful

Weakling

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No, my parents didn't pamper me,

it was I, who pampered myself

with ignorance;

I became a weakling at last,

devoid of knowledge and understanding

 

No, my parents did all I could do,

but I injected myself

with the vaccine of shortcomings,

a strong, hazardous drug

I mistook for free freedom

 

but this freedom was evil,

it made my brain and hands

lazy,

so I could do nothing

I was capable of doing

 

Then laughter comes from all sides

and stabs me ravenously,

tis nothing but my ignorance

that haunts me

like a ghost of my existence.

                                                          By Kakraba Afful

cute piggy banks

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We are no more the rulers.. we are conqured by the li’ll champs..
They are the kings and queens in the consumer market..
Child is the new customer, and the most effective one..
Studies indicate that children constitute around 25% of the total consumer market. Now that’s a huge figure..

Kids rulezz.. not only the market but watever they do..cute quotient works I gues..be it tv ads ..movies or daily soaps..everywhere they hit the bulls eye..
Do I need to quote examples.. ofcourse not.. m sure while reading u might have already thought about the tare zamin per or the balika vadhu kid..

Yest I saw a kid in pantaloons rolling over the floor and crying out loud to black mail maa-paa.. they got embarrassed and had to but him the soft toy he liked..

M not saying kids are at fault.. but the market is flooded with cuuute products.. be it toys.. water bottles.. school bags.. stationary.. gadgets.. they are all soo irresistable..


Gone are the days when kids would save every single penny they could collect to put into their cute piggybanks.. they black mail the parents and parent out of competition they give best to their kid surrenders..

How do u overcome the same?

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1. Sonal149

Posted on Sun,Jul 19 at 11:21 PM

this is a bitter fact,but i think that we r more responsible than them.emtnl blkmlng is their weapon.just simply do 1 thing-let them cry 4 smtime thn give them sm options like if you want it u will have to eat karela ki shabji or sm bitter stuff.if u eat it 4 few days,i"l grt u the things..now see hw it workssssssssssssssssss.i hv tried it and it wrkd..sonal.
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2. Nanu19

Posted on Sat,Jul 18 at 11:49 PM

once i was in shopping mall at surat with my banji..just 22.5 years old...firstly she showed alot of nakhras for selecting cloths,,,and when she chose...usne usi wakht pahan liya...and she was crying when her mom tried to remove that cloth...and finally she ended up with all dirt on her new dress..when her mother tried to give her a slap,,she said in garden " ye meri mummy nai hai" i was shocked log kya sochenge..that will people think around us that we are bacha chor..the best way is to keep the kids at home
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3. Alpa19

Posted on Sat,Jul 18 at 5:03 PM

Hello Megha you are always right. this blog is so interesting for all the parents. I am not parent. but i understand what u tell and what the suffering children. and they are profitable for all. Pan te loko aa boj niche kyak dabai n jai.
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4. Aayu

Posted on Sat,Jul 18 at 4:31 PM

Hey Megha this time you are doing a nice job means you are talking about small child it is exactly true. your thinking about these all children are right. One little child coming in this world who dependant only his/her parents. Only his/her parents are them world and this world they are watching this type labourwork in which they doing a lots of work for his studies and also his/her extra activity like photoshut for add, for serials and for movies its like a labourer. Now this time they enjoy them fullife and enjoying childhood but they are not enjoy them life because of only this media and also them parents.Aaj nu balak e avti kal nu future che to su avu j apnu future hase? K j bija na enjoyment mate pota no bhog aptu rahse. Aaje to tea banavta j taro new blog read karyo and mane bahu j gamyo to thau lav tea pita pita j coment kari didhi. Ok bye.have a nice time.
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5. Umaket

Posted on Sat,Jul 18 at 3:07 PM

hey mirchidaar megha… it is really true that kids sometimes make you feel really awkward in a situation when they want something and it is not right according to you… in those cases, you are left in such a state where everyone around you thinks that the kid is so cute and the parents are so bad, they don’t allow him to buy such a small thing.. for them it is a small thing, but for the parents, it is about their habits being put at stake… my kid is quite small now, but I have a thought, a way that I have heard my parents used when we were small – they took us to a store, and if we liked 2 or more things, they would tell us that we can choose only one of them… this developed in us a thinking that we cannot get everything that we want at the time that we want… also it helped us understand the value of money… and yes it also developed a choice in us- which of the things is really important for us at the moment… I hope I can inculcate all this in my kid… I think it is not necessary whether you can afford it or not, but the point is that you need to know whether you really need it… even we can afford to get the best things for our kids, but I don’t think it is necessary that only the branded things show your value… you need to be really good at heart and a very good human being…
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6. Hiren009

Posted on Sat,Jul 18 at 2:37 PM

hi, Megha there is no need to embarrass coz parents around u know this blackmailing verry well n younger gen will know that sooner or later.... don't fulfill their each n every demand, wisely choose the need....othervise they will go for the habbit of doing blackmailing....once they know that blackmail works than they will go for that everytime......
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7. Nitu_hir

Posted on Sat,Jul 18 at 2:25 PM

i have the best idea for that..... as u say above, v saved single penny for the gift for our mom n dad, do u know why, coz v seen our parents to do so save money n go for the need only..... v can't force children to save money or resist them from unnecessary expance but v can do so....they will follow the parents only so as v will do they will learn..... this is mantra to make them learn anything possitive that v want.....isn't it? i haven't kid right now but i will see it will work or not, definitely it will help u in future..
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8. Himani_pathak

Posted on Sat,Jul 18 at 1:33 PM

Hi, Megha i have good incident 2 share with u. અમે એક દિવસ મુવી જોવાનું પ્લાન કર્યું, તો મારો નાનો ભાઈ અમારી સાથે આવવા માટે જીદે ચઢી ગયો અને અમને પણ નાતો જવા દેતો, અને અમારે એને નાતો લઇ જવો કારણકે એને મુવી જોવા માં કઈ જ રસ નતો, તો પછી અમે એને મનાયો કે જો મુવી માં તો ખાલી ત્યાં જઈને બેસી ને પાછુ આવાનું છે, એના કરતા તને lays નું packet અને એમાં પિચકારી Free આવે છે એ લઇ આપીશું તો એ તરત જ ખુશ થઇ ગયો અને અમને કીધું કે સારું તમે લોકો જાઓ , મારે નથી આવવું તમારી જોડે. અને એ ખાલી 10 RSમાં માની ગયો 150 Rs ની જગ્યા એ. એમને લાલચ આપી ને આવી પરીસ્તીથી hadle કરી શકાય . Himani Pathak
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9. Pareshb

Posted on Sat,Jul 18 at 1:26 PM

Hi, Megha, Yes u r right, today's kid's generation are much more intelligent and smart then 1980's. They know everything without train them, and their requirement are also costly to satisfy. but I feel, now a days with this fast growing world, what is happening with children, is good for them and they really want it. They must walk with this fast growing world. God knows what he is doing with little kids. Thanks Bye. Paresh Bhatt
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10. Drjs

Posted on Sat,Jul 18 at 1:22 PM

Hi Megha, The blog really is interesting.though being single, i really am concerned about my gen-next babies and their sweet tantrums simpally irresestable. Some examples... i was shopping at a populer hobby cum books store a month back. the crowd all included hardly 10% adults whose basic task was to bring the young brigade to the store and let them take the staff/store on a sroll. the entire stall was full of twittering of the kids going here and there and at the billing counter I saw the parents taking a big burn in their holes. books,toys, hobby things made none of the bills below Rs. 1000. take the example of my own home,where i see my young cousin haggeling with his parents for not keeping a normal soap at the wash basin but a liquid soap dispenser. where my uncle buys formal shoes worth rs 1000,he asks for casual crocs costing rs 1400. No doubt the young gen. is going to be smarter day-by-day here some tips to make them realise value of the hard-earnt money. -teach them to evaluate alternatives/ options.they have become conciuos about brands,make them aware of "value for money" mantra. -control/watch your own spending habit as your kids would follow what you do. -avoide use of credit cards. -make schedules for outing-malls are not the freakout destinations and they promote impulse buying. -try not to take children along when you go to malls for your daily shopping. -ask them about what they like and then make them aware of alternatives of the same. Thanks, Dhara Joshi (9879204865)
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