If you're together for a while, and you begin to feel uncomfortable or unhappy in your relationship, then it's time to take action. Check first if the fun and romance back to reach, by another, happy or fun things to do with each other or talk to each other. If not, do not stay together, but end the relationship. This prevents you both unhappy. Are you gonna make? Put it in a mature way.

Are you quite sure?

Before you decide to go, you should also be sure that you really want to belong. Is there a chance to save the relationship? Do not start saying that you want to make it out, but do you like about your relationship with each other to talk. Otherwise it looks like a next time, if you are unsure, or there is always room to make it right. That's the recipe for muddle in an unhappy relationship. Know for yourself that your relationship to stop and stay there for.

Find a good spot and say the face-to-face

Find a good place to her, without anyone being able to hear, tell and tell her right away without turning around it. Take time and listen to her response, but do not take too long. If you said what you say and you have to make her opportunity to respond, then then little more sense to sit together. Add the action to the word and go apart. Are you in a situation where you can run away together, for example in the train? This is not a good place or a good time, because you make it more difficult for her and for yourself.
Needless to say you do not mind it a text message or an e-mail, voice mail to her speaking, her "through the grapevine" to inform or just never heard anything from you.

Share their values

When a relationship is always about two people and what these two people feel for each other. It is possible that bothers you on a certain property of her, but another boy who could feature again just very attractive. It is therefore not one, but it is the combination of you two together. Do not say that it is up to her, or go bashing her, but approach it from yourself, you say you feel uncomfortable or unhappy with the things she does or says. Then let your hair in its value and do your hair short.

Give her not 'blame' but you take responsibility

Is it for you feel more than certain properties that are bothering you, and you are angry about things she has done or said to you? Is it for you a clear case that its "guilt" and give her the 'guilt' and find that you are absolutely right and you? Because they are angry or try to do to you has been unfaithful? It may seem strange, but if you blame the other, you are always wrong. Perhaps you think yourself a bit better off comes as the failure of the relationship you not to charge, and it's not your responsibility? It is time to take a very honest about yourself, who you are and how you behave, because the other blaming solves nothing, unfortunately. Chances are that even following a relationship again exactly develops, not when you look at yourself. What would you have done differently in this relationship, you'd might be better to know before you began the relationship, you're just not ready for a solid relationship, you had to give her more attention, etc. If you look at your self and your own behavior looks you learn it and you will get a next time in a different way behave.

Forget the nice time together not

If you ended a relationship after a more difficult time together, it seems sometimes as if it was always difficult and you forget the good times from the beginning. While it is good form to tell her that you look back positively on your relationship. Give examples of what you have done and tell her why you liked her then. By a positive way to look at the past, make it better for both. Then it is not a failed relationship, but have you had and have much to you means a lot to each other. It now appears that it was not forever, does not change anything you guys have done with pleasure.

Suppose you have a first date with a girl and found her very much. You have arranged a night out with her and you're pretty nervous: it all goes well, she finds me funny, I can make her laugh, she wants to kiss me, etc. So what is the ideal place for such 's first night together and to spend really a success? Learn the pros and cons of a few possibilities.

Cinema

It's dark, you're sitting next to each other, you do not have to talk ... It looks great, especially if you're a bit shy or do not know what to say to her. Girls find it generally good for a first date to a place tonight, if you do something else afterwards. The advantage is that you later tonight and have plenty of conversation can continue talking about the movie. The cinema is pretty easy and just, you can with some popcorn and cola to make it simple fun. Surprise her by choosing a movie that girls like, or let her pick the movie.

Dinner

Maybe not the best idea for a first date. It seems very tempting to do that, and you show that your hair very seriously, but it's not wise to start with, because it can be quickly formee l and therefore uncomfortable for both of you. Keep the meal for later. A quick bite somewhere, or a snack at McDonald, during your first date? If you both fall over from hunger, you should definitely do, but it is better to eat well in advance so that you get through the night without a snack stop. Less food than boys and girls find a snack bar or McDonald generally not so romantic. Do you still hungry? Order a snack in a cafe or an appetizer with your drink. Everyone is so nice suits wherever they fancy it.

To the cafe

A bar or pub is always good for a first date. It is casual and of things happen around you, so it's okay if you just know nothing to say. Make sure you can understand each other in the cafe and there are seats if they prefer it. Prepare yourself for a bit and remember a conversation with some one throw where you can talk to her about. You do your senses and of course the conversation word for word to prepare, but a few things you can say about something, and where they can answer. Never talk about other girls have what you date anyone, or more. Girls are insecure when they are positive, and if you're negative about them, she thinks you will soon be negative about her talk with others. Are you a regular customer at the cafe? Make sure your friends a little bit at bay and make the girl at the center of your attention.

A party of a friend of yours

Well ... no, rather not. Of course it is nice to show that you're a girl, but look at it from her point of view. Generally, a party of an acquaintance of yours for her difficult, if not a true test. You know everyone and you must divide your attention, she knows no one and do not know what to do when you are talking with others. Unless they are very socially gifted, and loves to meet new people, you really just can not do better.

A performance or concert

If you both love music and there is a concert that you really do not want to miss, it's a nice way to spend the evening together. A concert is lively and there is much to see and hear. You convince them that they are acting as artist as you like, otherwise it is natural for her not at all fun. The sound is very loud? Combine the concert with something you can understand each other.

A walk

Yes! Always good. Because you walk next to each other, and do not have to look at, it's a great way to relaxed a bit more about each other to learn. In the air you feel in general also freer and happier because you get lots of oxygen. It is also a perfect conclusion to your date. Because you easily can an arm around her store, and it can push against you.

Be careful with alcohol and drugs ...

Of course you make sure you remain in your senses. Drunk is never attractive, especially if your first date, you should absolutely do not want. Girls do not like a drunken date. Drug is the same: keep you and stick to your senses.

It together at home ...

Your date will end up together and her house. Make sure you all evening with her remains. You can talk to other people is natural, but keep it short and stick together in the neighborhood. Let her not only during the evening and not let her go home alone. You're a real gentleman if your hair at her door sales. With or without a kiss, let yourself in this way at least your best.

* After school. Joseph and Akbar are sitting compound wall of a school and chatting,

Joseph: - I think `we should go home now. It is quite late; my father will get worried. Mother may also require my help’.

Akbar: - why are you worried? She will manage things and your father comes late. I need your company. I do not feel like going home.

Joseph: - why do not you feel going home? Are you unhappy?

Akbar: - how can I be happy to go home? My father comes home drunk. He always makes a scene. He shouts at my mother. He beats to my brothers. I can not bear him.

Joseph: - your mother and your brothers must very unhappy. You should do your duty as eldest son and elder brother and try not to escape from your responsibilities.

Akbar: - what can I do? My father will beat me also with long stick.

Joseph: - you can take the help of your neighbors when your father comes home drunk. Your chawl committee can help you.

Akbar: - how is it that you are so attached to your family?

Joseph: - ours is a happy home. My parents are busy throughout the day.

There is lots of work in the house.

My brother and sister are small. We have divided the work in the house.

a)     Father manages the house, when mother is not at home. Father teaches me English and asthmatics.

b)     Mother plans everything for us and keeps things ready to avoid any problems. She teaches to my little brother.

c)     I buy things from the market, and look after my brother and sister.

Akbar: - do not you have any quarrels in the house?

Joseph: - why should we quarrel? There is lots of affection and co-operation. We are a happy family.

Akbar: - how can we ever become a happy family? Father drinks, my mother, my brother and sister are unhappy. We have no money to buy things!

Joseph: - we can always find solution to our problems. Do not lose courage. I have a friend who is a social worker. He can definitely help you. We will go to him.

Joseph takes Akbar to the social worker, Mr. Rao.

Mr. Rao: - Akbar, I am happy that Joseph has brought here. I will come and meet your parents. Do not lose hope can help family by taking your father to alcoholics Anonymous, the organization that helps people to give up alcoholic drinks. Do not be angry with father. Help him and have patience. We can make yours also a happy family. Your mother can get work from a women’s organization and increase the family income.

• Joseph goes home satisfied that he has done a good deed towards his friend. Akbar and Mr. go home too. Mr. Rao talks to Akbar’s parents. He does all what he can do to help the family. Akbar’s father gives up drinking. His mother gets some contract job and starts earning. All the members of the family begin to care for one another and everyone performs their duties. Akbar’s family becomes `a happy home’.

Most of us at certain point of time in our lives have always come to a conclusion that school life has been the most memorable phase in our lives. However when we were in school there is one thing we hated the most and that is the school uniform.  I recall the school in which we studied school children would be happy to come on Saturdays because that is the only day when children were permitted to wear clothes of their own choice and children used to give the impression that they were celebrating freedom on every Saturday.

Uniform and restrictions end with school life when children graduate to college wherein students are at liberty to wear dresses of their choice except in some colleges which still impose dress restrictions.  However for many they get into a situation when they have to wear uniform all over again and that is when they start working after having graduated from college.  While uniforms in lower grade staff are common all across the globe there are certain companies which make it mandatory for all grades of staff including officers to wear a uniform.  With due respects to heads of companies and their senior management that while one cannot understand the logic behind employees and officials made to wear uniforms one thing is for sure that many do not like to uniform and the reasons for that are give below:-

1. Firstly most of the uniforms are plain and of a single colour.  It is a very common sight to see men wearing shirts either coloured blue or green.  Ladies too wear either green or blue saris.

2. Since the employees wear clothes of the same colour, they will be having maximum 2 or sets only as a result of which they will not be washing them everyday. That means most of them will be wearing sweat stained dresses every day.

3. Some employees wear uniforms which has lost its original colour.  This is because of the fact that employees do not buy new sets of uniforms with the money allocated by their companies.  As they know that there is no point in replacing same type of colour with a new one they prefer to wear the old one and make money by submitting false bills and due to this very reason some companies have made it a point that new clothes are purchased by them and hand over to the employee for stitching. Still there are employees who sell the new cloth and make money by selling them at a discounted price and producing a fake bill for tailoring expenses.

4. Some companies pay washing charges on a weekly or monthly basis to the employees. However many employees especially those who are not financially sound are known for treating washing charges as a means of savings and would wash clothes only after many days if it becomes too dirty or when they are instructed to do so.  Sometimes employees wash only when their fellow colleagues or clients make fun of them.

While there may be valid reasons for companies to make their staff wear uniforms one should also admit that it  is tough on the part of a employee to wear the same uniform.  Apart from this clients also would feel sick seeing the employees wearing the same uniform day in and day out.  Here are some suggestions which should help in inspiring a employee to wear a uniform.

1. The uniform can be made slightly more attractive by having at least some medium or thin stripes on it.  These days even schools are having uniforms for their children with stripes.  When schools can modify their rules for the better there is no reason why companies cannot follow suit.  When it comes to their women employees companies should look at allowing at least some light designs on their sarees.

2. It is advisable to have uniforms of at least two colours which can be worn every alternate day or alternate week. It not only helps the employee in feeling better but it also makes clients feel better seeing a different set of colours in their subsequent visits.

All of us like to wear good clothes and see others wearing good clothes and companies keeping the interest of their employees and visitors should take up initiative in making uniforms slightly more attractive.