If you're together for a while, and you begin to feel uncomfortable or unhappy in your relationship, then it's time to take action. Check first if the fun and romance back to reach, by another, happy or fun things to do with each other or talk to each other. If not, do not stay together, but end the relationship. This prevents you both unhappy. Are you gonna make? Put it in a mature way.

Are you quite sure?

Before you decide to go, you should also be sure that you really want to belong. Is there a chance to save the relationship? Do not start saying that you want to make it out, but do you like about your relationship with each other to talk. Otherwise it looks like a next time, if you are unsure, or there is always room to make it right. That's the recipe for muddle in an unhappy relationship. Know for yourself that your relationship to stop and stay there for.

Find a good spot and say the face-to-face

Find a good place to her, without anyone being able to hear, tell and tell her right away without turning around it. Take time and listen to her response, but do not take too long. If you said what you say and you have to make her opportunity to respond, then then little more sense to sit together. Add the action to the word and go apart. Are you in a situation where you can run away together, for example in the train? This is not a good place or a good time, because you make it more difficult for her and for yourself.
Needless to say you do not mind it a text message or an e-mail, voice mail to her speaking, her "through the grapevine" to inform or just never heard anything from you.

Share their values

When a relationship is always about two people and what these two people feel for each other. It is possible that bothers you on a certain property of her, but another boy who could feature again just very attractive. It is therefore not one, but it is the combination of you two together. Do not say that it is up to her, or go bashing her, but approach it from yourself, you say you feel uncomfortable or unhappy with the things she does or says. Then let your hair in its value and do your hair short.

Give her not 'blame' but you take responsibility

Is it for you feel more than certain properties that are bothering you, and you are angry about things she has done or said to you? Is it for you a clear case that its "guilt" and give her the 'guilt' and find that you are absolutely right and you? Because they are angry or try to do to you has been unfaithful? It may seem strange, but if you blame the other, you are always wrong. Perhaps you think yourself a bit better off comes as the failure of the relationship you not to charge, and it's not your responsibility? It is time to take a very honest about yourself, who you are and how you behave, because the other blaming solves nothing, unfortunately. Chances are that even following a relationship again exactly develops, not when you look at yourself. What would you have done differently in this relationship, you'd might be better to know before you began the relationship, you're just not ready for a solid relationship, you had to give her more attention, etc. If you look at your self and your own behavior looks you learn it and you will get a next time in a different way behave.

Forget the nice time together not

If you ended a relationship after a more difficult time together, it seems sometimes as if it was always difficult and you forget the good times from the beginning. While it is good form to tell her that you look back positively on your relationship. Give examples of what you have done and tell her why you liked her then. By a positive way to look at the past, make it better for both. Then it is not a failed relationship, but have you had and have much to you means a lot to each other. It now appears that it was not forever, does not change anything you guys have done with pleasure.