People are being sociable on the net, at the same time their social lives are taking a toll. These are some of the needs forced on humanity! (kuch jyada hi hua, muze bhi samaz main nahi aaya , what does this mean). thats what oldies tell us. It is a tough issue. every one is free to spend his/her time whatever way they prefer. Social networking CAN be of good cause. I remember, the anti reservation campaign picked up because of orkut. but how may times does that happen?
Orkut, Hi-five, Netlog, Bharat students, shelfari and many more. If we would ask about these words to even any sixth or sevenths standard students, we would find him easily explaining about the features of this social networking sites. These networking sites are mushrooming day by day while upgrading new features which is the cause of their success over existing chatting sites like yahoo messengers because these chatting sites fails to provides the lively appearance, blogs and various interesting feeds while communicating with friends, or business networkings.
Many issues have been raised to put a ban on Orkut, the most used social networking site after some incidents, like creating some communities against famous ideals, religions or countries. It is very easy to create such types of communities like “I hate Shivaji. I hate India “, fake profiles, by any user -mostly antisocials and insane type minds to create some disturbances and as ‘like begates like’ theory, interested persons join and support these communities and to catch them is a very hectic procedure, so inspite of raising the unnecessary issues, why don’t we create some communities against them “I love Shivaji and I Love India”.
It is never an intelligent step to raise an issue against these sites because they are providing a complete portal for networking whether we are enjoying a chat with a family, friend, looking for a business networking, or expressing thoughts locally or globally .It is providing a chance to be networked worldwide while sitting behind a desktop in a easy and inexpensive manner.
The only non- violent way to cope up with the problems of these sites is to understand the actual cause of this type of mischievous acts and and to response in the same manner by creating positive communities against such communities and administration should take right action to locate and identify the net-bugs who are creating such communities.
Various issues on incident of female abuse have also been heard through these sites, if the issue raisers take responsibilities to stop the female abuse completely in the real world, then only they look nice while raising such types of issues against the networking sites because if they are unable to stop these type of incidents taking place in front of their naked eyes, then it seems that all these issues are for just a local popularity Of their party / organizations.
Finally, I would like to say that we must welcome the positive sides of any new facility while understanding and finding the solution of the negative aspects. Raising an issue could never be the right solution. Don’t you think?"and its sure one day you can found such type of fakie and hatered community will wash out from social sites and we are seeing that day by day orkut is providing some good work like privacy and other legal action against hatered communities and fakies..as for as if we are getting any such type of stuff then we need to report our Cyber act and Crime deptartment for action"
I think there is sin in EVERYTHING if that is what a person is looking for. Social networking sites allows the user to share personal information and make friends but then again it all comes down to who the user is. Some people are on these sites to keep in touch with their existing friends and family and stay updated on their activities however some people solely join such sites in search of "FUN". Such people who are looking for so called FUN on the net can find the same means of fun else where. Adulterers existed before these sites and they are every where. I am not defending the social networking sites because in my opinion the stupidest thing any one can do is upload their personal photos and write their intimate thoughts in a public domain because that beats the purpose of privacy but that of course is my personal opinion!I think when a person male or female decides to do anything that is harm or even harmful to ones character they should stop and think that God is watching and the angels are recording. 
Furious competition between social networking sites such as Facebook and MySpace is compromising the protection of users' data, a Cambridge University study has concluded.The survey covered 45 global social networks, ranging from popular sites such as MySpace and Facebook to lesser-known networks.Its authors report 'serious concerns' about the extent to which these sites fail to keep users' personal information private. It is the first detailed analysis to examine the security provisions of a large number of social networks.
These sites are making youth hooked on to their computers, they are neglecting other things in life such as active sports, personal work, school work, office work, household chores, social activities etc.
It is essential for women to be employed. She must take up some kind of job which suits her. It is wrong to think that if a woman is employed she would not be interested in his house hold duties anymore. A woman will never ignore her responsibilities in the house.
Even when she comes home tired a woman will attend her husband and children. It is the right of a woman to work outside her home. Women all over the world have proved that they are capable of doing any job which men are capable of doing.
Employment will not only increase a woman’s income but also helps her to possess a broader view of life. She will learn how to deal with difficult situations. In this respect she would be a good companion to her husband sharing joys and sorrows with him in the house as well as outside the house. An employed wife will keep the family happy and well provided.
I often hear people complain about life. Some say they cannot make both ends meet. Others say they do not have the comforts which many people have. There are some others who are not happy because the cares of a family prevent them from doing well what they want to do in life. There are others who are unhappy about the corrupt and the heartless world they live in. in short, if you believe in, what most people say, we live in an unhappy world. Thomas Hardy said the same thing memorably “Happiness is but an occasional episode in the general drama of pain.” That is, happiness comes by fits and starts and rarely; human life is mostly full of sufferings.
What is my idea about a happy life? Before I give my views, it would be useful to see how others have answered this question. Some people believe that renunciation is the way to a happy life. They believe that happiness comes through giving up the cares or pleasures of the world. Some choose the way of religion. By turning their back on the man and the world, they hope to see a ray of happy light from heaven.
Others like the American philosopher, Thoreau, believe that our society is the cause of our unhappiness. So we should go away from the worldly and wicked society; we should withdraw into the woods. There is a life if simple living and high thinking, that alone can bring real happiness. But this , again, means searching for happiness away from one’s fellow beings. Clearly, this is not a healthy way for all to follow.
Some philosophers have written books about ideal imaginary countries where a happy life might be possible. Thus Plato, Sir Thomas Moore and Samuel Butler have written books to show that a better social, political and religious system could make a happy life possible. Their ideas, however not been put into practice till day. That is why we can get little help from them in answering the above question in a practical way. So let us try to suggest a few practical hints in order to express our idea of a happy life.
HINTS:
I believe that whatever be a man’s business or profession in life, he should have a worthy goal. He must feel that what he is doing is worth doing. He should also feel that the way he is doing it, is the best way he can do it. In other words, he should recognize the worth of what he is doing and adopt the best means and then work hard to do it. His means as well as ends should be good. He should plan carefully and work patiently.
Another important rule is to keep away from those activities which are anti-social. A man should not forget his social, domestic, personal and spiritual responsibilities. If even then things go wrong he should have trust in God and hope for the best. Faith in his work, in his own ability and in God is important.
Another way of ensuring a happy life, is by being friendly, fair, honest, helpful and being sympathetic to others. A man who is in the habit of back biting will soon be in trouble and hot waters. He will make enemies through his bad habits and ill nature. It is therefore necessary for a man to learn top adapt himself to new situations, use tact in dealing with people,and be willing to com[promise whenever necessary, to achieve a noble aim.
A happy life, for me, means keeping my wants limited and not desiring all things other people have. One should go on in being true to one’s own self , living hopefully, taking the good with the bad. That is the way to lead a happy life.
To sum up, blameless personal conduct, strict moral principles and honest pursuit of spiritual goals – these alone can enable us to achieve a happy life.
From time immemorial, communication among people has played a vital role in developing civilization. The mode has changed recording improvements butte ultimate goal has remained the same. The more the advancements the faster the development. Now, the world has shrunk to an unimaginable level. Further man is a social animal. He always had the urge to know things. He has cherished his ambition “To strive, to seek, to find and not to yield”.
Invention of printing helped mankind in early days to store what he saw. One of the benefits that printing gave man was “newspaper”. The very word ‘news’ denotes North East West South. A newspaper contains information about the various happenings from every nook and corner. Books ebooks periodicals, magazines have also come into being.
Newspapers have occupied an important place in the lives of men. Every one is eager to know what has happened on the previous daythroughout the world. Newspapers satisfy the news hungry populationproviding various facts and figures I detail. In addition to the news on world politics and current events the newspapers provide news on sports, science inventions, art and cultural affairs.
Newspapers also carry important advertisements. The unemployed who seek job go through the newspapers daily for advertisements and announcements given by various firms. The public can also write in newspapers expressing their opinions on various aspects of the society. Newspapers make people knowledgeable and keep them aware of the cay to day problems.
Nowadays gathering information at shorter periods and getting to know about the various happenings immediately has become the keyword. The television serves for this purpose. It is clear that things seen are better remembered that things heard or read. People watch various programmes (recorded) that are telecasted on the television. Nowadays direct telecast of programmes live on the air has become a way of our life. It is possible to conveniently relax in a rocking chair and watch the various programmes and happenings around the world not in the century old black and white but in the latest MPEG4 technology. Also science and technology has brought us portable small size televisions and televisions in our mobile phones and laptops.We can have newspapers wherever we go. They are light weighted and handy. Although televisions have now become portable and handy they are not suitable to newspapers for cost and availability reasons. Portable televisions and televisions in mobile or laptop does not come at an affordable cost top a common man and hence is a rarity.
Newspapers are eco friendly and bio degradable. We should not become an addict of sitting and watching television always as they may create eye fatigue. Youngsters must take care to avoid watching unwanted programmes.
Advancement in science and technology has opened many vistas for our development. But we should see that these advancements set healthier trends in the growth of our future generations – the student community in particular. Therefore in my opinion newspapers are the best and most popular mass media
Can You imagine someone getting close to the one you love even it be Your lover, friend or someone close to ur heart?feels like killing them. Right?The fear of losing those who are close Makes us possessive towards them, Which is obviously the reason why we lose them!!Do You feel pissed off when your friend, your lover, or smone you love talks or mingles more with some other girl/guy?Then you are posseive.Most of us are possessive,but only a few accept it.
Possesiveness, The unique feeling which does not bubble out towards everyone. Its something really close to the heart and which is showered on ppl who we feel are real close to us. But many do not accept it.Some feel it kills their privacy And disturbs them.
And Some people name it jealosy,but i say different, i say its possessiveness. On whom you are more possessed? It may be your friends,siblings or even your girl or boyfriend.At this occassion, i like to share one of my experience. my best friend,im just so possessive abt her, feel like killing people who try coming close to her.Just hate it and hate anybody coming in between us.
Possessiveness - like all other emotions.. is a manisfestation of human beings and their psychology.Possessiveness emanates from insecurity.. of what we would be without the person or feelings like we are the best.Anger at the same time is another emotion.All human emotions are inter-related.mbalance of one gives rise to the other.Thus possessiveness can pre-dispose into multiple emotions.Anger is just one of them.
When Possesivness happens you are in Love (in its most broad definition) You may not want to live your life with the friend.but atleast do not want to lose the friend.. Presence of others any closer than you are.. makes you jealous!This is a difficult situation to be in and more so dangerous because this can lead you to make mistakes which you would otherwise not do.
Balance! this also explains why lovers throw acid on faces of their girl friends.. This is not justifiable but a result of an emotional imbalance.And remember.. if you truly love someone, you can never hurt her if you feel like hurting the person you never loved the person!
Causes:
It is true that possessiveness hurts with possessiveness you start expecting a lot from her and when you see that it doesnt get fulfilled you feel hurt,it seems like hell to be in that situation and it feels like crying but then you see that its because of the person you love most.when the people we posses share time with someone other than us, when they talk abt someone more than talking aboutt us, when they respond to someone more than responding to etc, we feel our love is getting dispersed instead of reaching us.though it's not true at times, we tend to think so and that feeling cannot be explained in words.
Many would like to get rid of this, but actually it is very difficult, But it is true that only possessiveness brings out the true love without which you will not care about them and they wont care abt You,be possessive show them how much you really care for them and why you are so possessive. I am sure they will start to like you more than before as they will feel the true love and no one in this world hates being loved.
Real Incidents:
"You know something happens like when you call your love on phone and when you get the phone engaged, well for the first one or maximum two times its ok but the third time still engage what the damn you get."
we do get bugged when the phone's engaged,but cant help it, we may feel possessive,i do too,but we actually should think beyond that,have broad views that the other person would surely have picked our call when she or he was not attending some imp call/so we need to be a little patient, god!! feeling like killing the other person who has good relationships with our friend on whom we are this damn possessive,its really not a good thing according to me just my opinion, maybe you can realise one thing,even the other person would have felt the same with us when we attend some important call and get them waiting for a long time,who knows,if people cant understand your possessiveness,let them not we can't expect each and every individual to feel the same what we feel.life is beautiful,we must rid of this thing,it hurts but you have a solution to everything in this world,this is not an exception.
Possessiveness, is a good quality:
You feel possessive of your friends, and vice versa. It gives a feeling of care and closeness.Over-possessiveness is like a burden. When one seems to dictate the other and starts commanding. Time and space is equally essential in friendship, like love. Hence, over-possessiveness should not be there. It is like suffocation.
here is an example to differentiate possesivness and over-possesivness
According to me My thoughts will be filled of my images laughing, playing crying, eating with my friend. I feelnice to be with him again. Next mmoment i call him on his phone talk to him share some lighter moments crave to be with my friend. i am possesive about my friend.
He picks up the phone talks to me for a while i am happy, happier after a while we hang up. I again called him. Asked what are his plans he said he has something to study as his exams are fast approaching. I said fine. I went to his house in the evening where he was studying, talked to him for few hours. I went back home, had my dinner and went to bed. Before sleep i called him as to what are his plans tomorrow. He said nothing specifically, but plan to study. I told him i have a plan for him. Next day i go to his house pick him up and go out for some games. After a while, he want to go back and study. I insist to be with me and play for some more time.He agrees. Afterall he is my close friend. Now it is late evening. He says he wants to go back badly. I say lets have dinner and then go. He says no, but then i am his close friend, i insisted and he agreed. I decide what he has to do then i am over possesive about my friend.
"Imagine a group of five males and one female(One's girlfriend) haging arround together and cracking stupid jokes and giggling.This is what will be observed by his friends, if they see her with all her boy friends what his friends think about him and his girl friend"
What was more important ? girlfriend's happiness or what the world thinks. The world doesn't gain or loses anything These guys will always be mock spectators. Remember the story of the farmer and the son who lost their donkey because they cared only for the world and not the donkey. You should learn this lesson that over possessive is like a poison for any relationship.
"As long as keep your hand caringly open and allow it to remain there, it will always be there. However, if you attempt to close your fingers round it and try to posses it, it will spill through the first cracks it find. This is the greatest mistake that people do when they meet.
love they try to posses it, they demand, they expect and just like the water spilling out of your hand, love will retrieve from you.For love is meant to be free, you cannot change its nature. If there are people you love, allow them to be free beings.
Give and don't expect.
Advise, but don't order.
Ask, but never demand.
It might sound simple, but it is a lesson that may take a lifetime to truly practice.
Love and Let Love!!!
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