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Should I Follow My Dreams - Yes, You Should

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Follow Your DreamsFirst of all, I would like to thank the Boddunan community for compelling me to write this article.  You all wanted to know how I have managed to pursue my dreams and whether one should pursue his own dreams or not.  Well, one should always follow his passions and I hope my personal story inspires you to follow and successfully complete your dreams.

Life is Too Short - Do What You Like:

Seriously speaking, life is too short.  So you have to make the most of it.  Treat every minute as your last and enjoy and do whatever you have in mind.  When I scored 82% in 10th, my parents wanted me to do commerce as ours is a business family, but I wanted to do science as that's what most of my friends took.  My parents agreed and thus, began my science journey.

Only after a month I realized science was not meant for me.  I mean I was passing but passing marks was not something I was used to.  Also, I was in bad company and did not focus much on studies.  As a result, I scored only 52% in 12th board exams.  That was a shocker for my parents, society and everyone who knew me.  They always thought I was a gifted child and was kind of a role model in my area.  Honestly, my parents were embarassed.  

They asked me the reason and I told them that I was not made for the subject.  They asked me to take a different subject and I took biotechnology.  I liked the subject but again I hit a road block.  No doubt I was a good student and teachers also liked my remarkable grasp on the topic.  But I could not give my final exams as trains were extremely crowded and I could not board it.   This really irked my parents and they were mad at me.  But I knew one thing that they will always be there for me.  But I was also feeling sad for them.

So this time I gave a serious thought as to what I want to do and after careful analysis I opted for a business management degree.  And this was the best decision I took related to my education.  I really exceled in all the subjects and many of my thought breaking ideas were implemented by the college.  I really liked it.  

I graduated with flying colors and now was the next step I had to take, whether to go for a regular job or start your own business.  Though I always liked the idea of being my own boss, I still wanted to get the feel of what a company is like, how a company is run and what does an employee think.  I was planning to use this experience when I plan to launch my own venture.  And what a remarkable experience it was.

I worked for 3 reputed companies and numerous small business firms.  And I left all the job after exceling in each.  My scope of thinking was broaden and  my approach towards things changed.  Now I can see myself in others' shoes while making decisions.

It was around this time that I was accepted by Google in their adsense program and working from home was a brand new comcept to me.  It was challenging.  And since I like challenges I decided to give it a go.  After numerous falls, I learnt the trick of the trade and now I am a full time blogger, freelancer, web developer, web designer, SEO specialist and all these skills are self learnt.  And I am making a comfortable living by monetizing these skills.

So What Can You Learn From Me:

  • Goal of education should be knowledge and not getting a good job.
  • Remember you are unique, what is good for your friends may not be good for you.
  • Always ask you're heart, if you will be happy doing this thing.
  • Be honest to yourself.
  • Always take your own decisions. 
  • You can make money out of any knowledge and skill you have.  It is not necessary that you can only achieve a desired salary if you are an MBA or CA.  Currently my earnings is at par or maybe even more than what a normal MBA gets.

What You Should Not Learn From Me:

  • Don't be impulsive like me.  Not many parents will take that.
  • Carefully think before you decide what you want in life, rash decision making may burn your bridges behind you.  I normally don't do that.
  • Commit yourself to one goal.  Don't chew more than you can eat.

I will end this article here and I hope you will find this useful.  In short, all I would say is to listen your heart at all times.  WIll be publishing my experience soon as a full time blogger.  So do come back!!

Meter fault in Autos

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Rickshaws basically we all call as Auto are found all over India with different colour like yellow,black, red etc, it is a cheap mode of transportation after bus.People specially middle class family can't afford a car.hence, the mode to travel will be bus, Auto or two wheeler vehicle. These days every one has two wheeler. When the family or group of friends want to go out some where they can't switch to their two wheeler.thus, they like to go by Auto. Auto rickshaws these days cant be trusted at all.the reason behind blaming them is, the meter fault in Auto's.The driver of the auto fidgets with the meter by which the meter runs very fast for 1 kilometer the meter reading shows that the kilometer is 3 and we need to pay 32 instead of rs 14.Another trick to extract money from the public is if we tell the Auto driver i want to go to certain place and he will demand for money and will take the passenger with out putting the meter down.To these type of Auto drivers if we say that please put the meter and we will pay accordingly to the reading, the answer will be "No". Very few auto driver are left where such fraud is not done .such Auto driver's we must give tips so that they will be happy to live a honest way. Now coming back to the point of auto drivers who loots public.Who is encouraging them to do this? I say the public its self. The reason behind such cheating is the passenger don't say any thing the meter will be running fast they will just watch it and later after coming out of an auto and argue that why so much we need to pay this and that... it makes no sense because we have to pay the amount what the meter shows. How this can be stopped? How public can be saved from such cheaters? The answer is right here. Its simple and easy steps to follow: 1.If an auto rickshaw meter runs faster and you feel at once get down of it and take another auto. 2. If an auto driver demands for money before hand so please don't agree of it. 3. you can take the auto driver to the traffic police and make a complain regarding the issue. When all will do this ultimately the public will not face any cheating.By just watching and not taking any action .its waste we must give lesson to such an auto drivers.The public these day's don't have that much money for nourishment how can we bear cheating. we need to do some action to stop malpractice.

work load- no time for family

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In India the timing of working hour was around from 9.00am to 5.00pm for all the working people accept teachers, now there is no time limits at all most of the time goes in doing job ,what about the family? no time for family? why is this ? many question comes in my mind. are we born to be a labour the whole day to get money to live. why is life so tuff? . A man/women comes home tired at 10 pm and sleep the next day again the same thing gets repeated. This what is happening to each and every one.Is there any time for family and friends. Half of our life goes on studies and the rest on doing job.I accept this that every one must study and i also agree that for living we should work ,these things should be in our life .but, we must also have time for our self for our family and friends. If during the study level the school should not give home works and so much loads to study. It must be such in the timing of studies like 9 to 3 the school must teach them in such a way so that there is no requirement for the student to study at home and avoid playing games and having ample of time for their family and friends. In the same way as how it was before the timing was fixed for job, again such rule should be executed in pvt sectors and they should give 2 days holiday ie Saturday and Sunday.The working men and women can take rest for one day and enjoy with family on the next day.By this the parents will have much time for their children and family and also much time for them self.Because life is not ever lasting one or other day we will die.So change must happen,time is very important for us .the schedule of working timing should be changed to live a better life. Like other country we too should have two days holidays and have ample of time for every one.

Civil judgement in India

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Civil judgement in india

In today's world as we all know that to earn for living is so hard enough. We study hard so that in future we can earn a solid amount ,and make all the dreams possible like in having a house, car, etc. suppose a man dreamt for such and done hard work to get all of what he wanted there after due to his busy schedule his land or other asset was taken by some one making all papers .when the man came to know about this it was too late he moves to the court for help to get his hard earned property back.

He appoints a lawyer for Justice. will he get his assets in a week or two? No, this what happens here. years after year he needs to come to the court and fight for his right .May be he will get after 5 years or more .may be he can loose the case. this is not at all possible that he can get his property in a week or month.

Who is responsible for this, the man himself who purchase the asset to have a good standard of living? or , the judge who is taking long to give judgement? according to me every one is involve to bring such a situation. i can discuss this in brief: public property: if any one purchase a house or a land he need to register and do all the legal activity. so he must look after his asset and keep a look so that such thing must not occur  judgement: here judge should not give any chance to the lawyer to prolong the case.give a fix time or day to bring evidence and solve the problem as soon as possible. the delay in judgement is because of the lawyer some times and also the cheater who wants to grab some one's asset. a message to the young generation. " study law and give justice to the right don't study law to earn money by becoming a layer". I believe when every thing these days are progressing then why not the Indian court. where people will get judgement soon.this is possible by the people.

Sexual Harassment.

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Today we live in a civilised society and it is also a fact that we have achieved a lot of success in curbing down corruption and events that were prevalent in our society  through the ages. But the same doesn't hold true when we speak about the sexual harassment that our women genre face today. She has to go through the phase of whistles, unwanted touchings and forced intimacy regularly in her day to day life. Women working in offices or going to the colleges or universities or even schools experiences sexual harassment. But before to the Supreme Court guidelines on sexual harassment at workplaces there were hardly any suitable provisions to deal with such a behaviour.
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Issues of sexual harassment in work places and academic institutions are on the rise as more and more women move out from their house to the world outside. Women of every social class and community are affected by this menace and even those from the highest strata or level of society are not spared and they go through some sort o sexual assault in some form or the other.
The Silence Culture
Now the question that crops into our mind is that then why women don't protest or complain against such an unbearable violence? Maybe the fear of getting unheard or social dignity or honour of the family coming at stake preventing them from lodging any complaint as such against sexual harassment and therefore it is taken as something very ordinary, normal and trifle matter. Women learn to accept unwanted sexual behavior as a part and parcel of their modern life. To be precise, its overall effects on women are just ignored and kept in silence.
Companies, offices and organisations utilises this silence of women to the maximum and often refuses to accept the occurrence of any sexual harassment as they fear that it might ruin the image of their institutes. There are some examples when women finally raised their voices to the authorities but it was met with the common reaction of ignorance or denial by the authorities. Sexual harassment is not rare and it is touching the lives of almost 40% to 60% of working women going to colleges and universities.
Reality

In our day to day lives, the increasing number of eve-teasing, rape and murder across the country proves the existence of sexual harassment in our society. There are so many examples and evidences to reflect the nature, type and effect of sexual harassment in academic institutions.
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Sexual harassment among students
During festivals like Holli and Diwali and in colleges during ragging of freshers or in college fest incidents of sexual harassment among students are at the peak. But this doesn't mean that harassment doesn't occur at other times and places. A lot of sexual harassment among students takes place through verbal comments and jokes:-  "He is my senior in college. Everyday he suggests me to go out on dates with him and seems to always complimenting me on my look and clothes. Whenever I walk past him, his friends jokes about us as if we are a couple. This really irritates me, but there is not much I can do about it. My friends tell me I am over reacting", says a first year students of economics.
Sometimes harassment like this takes uglier forms. Deep humiliations as at times forced students to take their lives. Says a fifth-year engineering student, "It is a traditional practice that freshers are paraded in the nude, before the boys/girls hostel amidst cheering and catcalls. Some are unable to bear this and leave the college".
When teachers turns abusers.
At times, teachers abuses their power and position upon the female students. They ask the students for sexual favours in exchange for better grades and academic performance. This is particularly true of research scholars. A girl doing a doctorate in Physical Education in a university near Kolkata had been sexually abused by her research guide over a period of time. On completion of her research she lodged  a written complaint with the university authorities. " I dared not protest during my research as the occused was my guide and could tamper with my results", said she. This fear of reprisal often forces many women to bear the abuse silently while others give up their acacemic careers in dispair.
To prove that sexual harassment is prevalent in educational institutes I am providing a part of the news printed out in The Telegraph newspaper on August, 1999."The case at Presidency College also received media attention. A teacher of the Zoology department of the college had allegedly attempted to molest a post graduate student when she went to his chamber before class hours to get her copies corrected. The teacher himself had asked the student to see him. Following agitation from students and activists in the city, the government later suspended the teacher of the state-run institution".                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                           The  Telegraph : August 1999
Vulnerable situations
Students appear particularly vulnerable in some situations : while working in the laboratory during sports training, in drama and classes. A student of chemistry, talks of her professor : "I was working in the lab when he suddenly embraced me. This was nothing new. Many of us have been his targets in the past...." Another recounts her harrowing experiences with a particular professor at drama school. While training his students, his teacher often abused them physically. He also found other ways of demeaning them. "Once, he asked me to go home, examine my body before the mirror and submit a detailed, descriptive account or 'what you saw' to him. Apparently, this was the only way I'd learn to appreciate my physical assets which could enhance my performance on stage."
Students fear harassment from college staff
Many students complained of being harassed by members of the non-teaching staff. Says a student of district College : "We have to get our attendance records updated prior to the examinations. The office clerks do the required paper work. Sometimes they promise to overlook errors in the records of female students if the later were are already to comply with their sexual demands." A second year student in a college in Kolkata feels that his classmates do not always perceive that they are being harassed. "The clerks detain some of the girls unnecessarily, chatting and joking with them." Recently, a student of Raja Narendra Lal Women's College in Midnapore, has accused a class four staff of molestation. The girl's father has lodged a complaint with the police. The accused in his turn has testified that he is not guilty rather the girls in the college hostel often harass him in this manner. The students of the college say : "The incident occurred in front of a music teacher of the college, yet the Principal is trying to overlook the matter."
                                                                                                                                                                                                                                       Ananda Bazar Patrika : May20, 2001
Campus turns unsafe
Strangers and outsiders also pose a threat to the students. Eve teasing and rude comments by strangers, who hover around college and hostel campus and crank calls at midnight, disturbing girls at college hostels, are regular features in most institutions. Girls are frequently harassed by local youths on their way to the college. This is why, especially in the suburbs and districts, few parents allow daughters to be educated if the school or college which is situated far from home.
Cases of sexual harassment and eve teasing against girl students in Lucknow University are on rise. According to a study conducted by the women's studies department of the University, on an average each girl student on the campus is subjected to some form of sexual harassment at least five times a day. Cases of eve teasing in canteens, classrooms and buses have gone up. Calling the trend on the campus "retrogressive, embrassing and humiliating", the authorities said that the policemen in plain clothes would be deployed to keep an eye on eve teasers and take action against them.                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                     The Telegraph : August 27,2000
School children : not spared either
Incidents of sexual harassment of young girls in schools are on the rise. A fifteen year old girl was allegedly raped by her tutor at Prunahar in Labpur area in Birbhum. The tutor is also a science teacher in the school where the girl is a student of class 9. On the day of the incident, he sent back his other students but asked the girl to stay, saying he would solve sums for her. Once the others had left, the tutor raped her.                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                The Telegraph : July 7, 2001
Teachers : How safe is their work place?
Within the teaching community, harassment among colleagues is not rare. Says a woman teacher : "I was appointed as junior lecturer to the university on a temporary basis. A senior professor in the department assured me a permanent post if I accompanied him on weekend trips. When I reported the incident to my departmental head, he advised me to remain silent as the harasser's influence in academic circles could jeopardise my future prospects."
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Other forms of sexual harassment are also prevalent. Sexist jokes are common in staff rooms of some colleges. Offensive behavior includes singing lewd songs, cracking vulgar jokes and other behavior creating a hostile work environment.
Sexual harassment remains to a large extent an invisible crime. The cases narrated above reveal only the tip of the iceberg, a small reflection of sexual violence in academic institutions. Unless we can explore the deep links between the status of women and the incidence of sexual harassment, the nature and pattern of the crime and its widespread acceptance in society, sexual harassment will continue to remain invisible and unchecked.
It is the Supreme Court Guidelines on Sexual Harassment at work place that made the first attempt to break the silence that surrounds the sexual harassment, by defining it and providing adequate measures to all women, to fight for their rights.
The Supreme Court Guidelines
Many more cases of sexual harassment at work places were being reported from different parts of the country. The question arose, whether the State and employer have any accountability in ensuring safe working environment for women.Leading social activists filed a writ petition in the Supreme Court of India demanding protection of women workers
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And in a landmark judgement on August 13, 1997, the Supreme Court of India issued guidelines on Sexual Harassment at Workplace.
Applicable to
* Schools, colleges and universities, hospitals, government, public and private organisations, both organised and unorganised sectors of work.
* All women employees, irrespective of their posts and earning pattern, will benefit from this guidelines - those drawing a regular salary, or receiving an honorarium, or working in a voluntary capacity. Students in colleges and universities and all the undergraduate, postgraduate and research levels also falls under this purview.
Definition
Sexual harassment is any conduct that is sexual in nature and unwelcome.The Supreme Court of India defines sexual harassment as any unwelcome
* Physical contact and advance
* Demand or request for sexual favour
* Sexually coloured joke or remark
* Display of pornography
* Any other physical, verbal or nonverbal behaviour with sexual undertones.
Impact and consequences
For Women : In addition to psychological and emotional effects like anger, helplessness and depression, women also suffer from physical maladies like headaches and nervous breakdowns. Sexual harassment causes a hostile, intimidating and offensive work environment. It limit's women's career options, training opportunities and earning potential. This can adversely affect the performance of the students.
For Institution: For the institution, in addition to sick pay and medical insurance, consequences also include reduced work efficiency and at times, high legal costs and fines. Costs of recruiting and training new people may also emerge, especially where an employer has failed to undertake effective intervention. Drop out and failure levels of students are high and the institution receives a lot of negative publicity.
What Institutions Can Do?
Authorities often tend to turn a blind eye, thinking that sexual harassment happens only in certain kinds of institutions and that if they do not receive any complaints from women, it means their institution is gender friendly. They could not be more mistaken! Women are often silent because they believe that the authorities are reluctant to take action and studies indicate the response of authorities to sexual harassment has been generally poor.
Adopt Policy
The onus of adopting a policy on sexual harassment lies with the management. The attitude of an institution towards its students and employees is reflected on how sensitively the policy is drawn up. The policy will establish certain rules and standards of behaviour and shapes the culture of the institution. The policy will give us a clear signal :
* the institution will not tolerate behaviour that vitiates the work atmosphere.
* disciplinary action will be taken against complaints.
* complaints will be treated with sympathy, confidentiality and seriousness.
Implement The Policy
In an effort to mainstream institutional accountability of women's rights, the Supreme Courts Guidelines mentions the formations of a Complaints Committee. This Committee can be responsible for implementing the institution's policy on sexual harassment. The role and responsibility of the Committee is to prevent sexual harassment in the institution and to provide redress if a complaint is lodged.
For The Larger Good
The Supreme Court Guidelines on Sexual Harassment at work place aim at assisting a transition of attitudes as well as assuring greater respect for women as workers in the community, students in educational institutions and employees in public or private sector industry. However, most women are unfamiliar with the legal measures available to redress or combat sexual harassment. It is imperative that awareness be generated to acquaint people of their rights and provide measures of support.
Universities in Delhi, Maharashtra and Tamil Nadu have taken the first step towards ensuring a harassment free environment for their students and employees by adopting sexual harassment policies that outline preventive and redress mechanisms.

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