You think marriage makes a person useless??

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I will not be surprised if most people who could not face the demands of spouses would say- YES !!
Although they want to admit it secretly
What is your idea about marriage??
An honest opinion is expected!! ;)

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Yes I feel marriage made me useless as after marriage I can't get time to look after me but I have to take more responsibility of my family unlike in my unmarried life where I was so free and had lots of time for myself. :blink:
Yes I feel marriage made me useless as after marriage I can't get time to look after me but I have to take more responsibility of my family unlike in my unmarried life where I was so free and had lots of time for myself. :blink:


I thought so, I was expecting you to answer it in this manner, congratulations for being honest. You won the best answer. :P
Yes I feel marriage made me useless as after marriage I can't get time to look after me but I have to take more responsibility of my family unlike in my unmarried life where I was so free and had lots of time for myself. :blink:


I thought so, I was expecting you to answer it in this manner, congratulations for being honest. You won the best answer. :P


This is reality but most of the husbands won't expect it may be they are scared of their wives. :woohoo:
Yes I feel marriage made me useless as after marriage I can't get time to look after me but I have to take more responsibility of my family unlike in my unmarried life where I was so free and had lots of time for myself. :blink:


I thought so, I was expecting you to answer it in this manner, congratulations for being honest. You won the best answer. :P


This is reality but most of the husbands won't expect it may be they are scared of their wives. :woohoo:


I have the honor to be not one of them and trust me this has nothing to do with being scared any ways.
Yes I feel marriage made me useless as after marriage I can't get time to look after me but I have to take more responsibility of my family unlike in my unmarried life where I was so free and had lots of time for myself. :blink:


I thought so, I was expecting you to answer it in this manner, congratulations for being honest. You won the best answer. :P


This is reality but most of the husbands won't expect it may be they are scared of their wives. :woohoo:


I have the honor to be not one of them and trust me this has nothing to do with being scared any ways.

I hope you are telling truth. :laugh:

But you did not say it that your life has been useless after marriage so why to fear. :laugh:
Yes I feel marriage made me useless as after marriage I can't get time to look after me but I have to take more responsibility of my family unlike in my unmarried life where I was so free and had lots of time for myself. :blink:


I thought so, I was expecting you to answer it in this manner, congratulations for being honest. You won the best answer. :P


This is reality but most of the husbands won't expect it may be they are scared of their wives. :woohoo:


I have the honor to be not one of them and trust me this has nothing to do with being scared any ways.

I hope you are telling truth. :laugh:

But you did not say it that your life has been useless after marriage so why to fear. :laugh:


No actually some members thought that life of an actress has been wasted after she got married recently. :whistle:
Yes I feel marriage made me useless as after marriage I can't get time to look after me but I have to take more responsibility of my family unlike in my unmarried life where I was so free and had lots of time for myself. :blink:


I thought so, I was expecting you to answer it in this manner, congratulations for being honest. You won the best answer. :P


This is reality but most of the husbands won't expect it may be they are scared of their wives. :woohoo:


I have the honor to be not one of them and trust me this has nothing to do with being scared any ways.

I hope you are telling truth. :laugh:

But you did not say it that your life has been useless after marriage so why to fear. :laugh:


No actually some members thought that life of an actress has been wasted after she got married recently. :whistle:


Hmm..who was that. :blink:

In my knowledge no one said that but I think she could have delayed it to cash her reputation now in the film industry. :blink:
Yes I feel marriage made me useless as after marriage I can't get time to look after me but I have to take more responsibility of my family unlike in my unmarried life where I was so free and had lots of time for myself. :blink:


I thought so, I was expecting you to answer it in this manner, congratulations for being honest. You won the best answer. :P


This is reality but most of the husbands won't expect it may be they are scared of their wives. :woohoo:


I have the honor to be not one of them and trust me this has nothing to do with being scared any ways.

I hope you are telling truth. :laugh:

But you did not say it that your life has been useless after marriage so why to fear. :laugh:


No actually some members thought that life of an actress has been wasted after she got married recently. :whistle:


Hmm..who was that. :blink:

In my knowledge no one said that but I think she could have delayed it to cash her reputation now in the film industry. :blink:


She would cash it all the more since her hubby is media moghal. She would get best publicity and chances to act. Ghar ki kheti.
If marriage is out of love, this may be true. Ghalib said- Ishq ne ghalib nikkamma kar diya, varana aadami hum bhi the kaam ke (Love spoiled Ghalib( the poet)- otherwise he was okay.

Actually this depends on compatibility between the spouses. Bad combination may spoil both spouses. A good one may make them more useful.
If marriage is out of love, this may be true. Ghalib said- Ishq ne ghalib nikkamma kar diya, varana aadami hum bhi the kaam ke (Love spoiled Ghalib( the poet)- otherwise he was okay.

Actually this depends on compatibility between the spouses. Bad combination may spoil both spouses. A good one may make them more useful.


I am afraid sir, in this case we are going to see lot of spoiled cases as most marriages are turning sour these days. I am getting to hear in most cases that wife has applied for divorce the next morning after marriage. Maybe the Ishque is the real culprit in such cases.
If marriage is out of love, this may be true. Ghalib said- Ishq ne ghalib nikkamma kar diya, varana aadami hum bhi the kaam ke (Love spoiled Ghalib( the poet)- otherwise he was okay.

Actually this depends on compatibility between the spouses. Bad combination may spoil both spouses. A good one may make them more useful.


I am afraid sir, in this case we are going to see lot of spoiled cases as most marriages are turning sour these days. I am getting to hear in most cases that wife has applied for divorce the next morning after marriage. Maybe the Ishque is the real culprit in such cases.


In many cases, the marital relation is just dragged on as a formality.
Spouse must have mind to understand what his partner can/can't do. Hence they should put forth their demands. It is not posible for anybody to fulfill abnormal or baseless demands. Very few people are mundane and live their married life seriously. if bith are compatible to each other, they can live happily by satisfying each other's wants.


Baseless,abnormal or whatever - Demand and command never works in life especially in a marriage .If it does for some reason then there is imbalance and the frustration is bound to come out at some time or the other...
No I don't think so.I think many person changes after marriage.


why and how do they change and if they do- do they become good or bad?


Both could be possible
No I don't think so.I think many person changes after marriage.


why and how do they change and if they do- do they become good or bad?


Both could be possible


So let's be positive and assume that they change for better because no one can afford to or would like to become worse.
B) B) B) B)

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Spouse must have mind to understand what his partner can/can't do. Hence they should put forth their demands. It is not posible for anybody to fulfill abnormal or baseless demands. Very few people are mundane and live their married life seriously. if bith are compatible to each other, they can live happily by satisfying each other's wants.


Baseless,abnormal or whatever - Demand and command never works in life especially in a marriage .If it does for some reason then there is imbalance and the frustration is bound to come out at some time or the other...


Demand and command could work with some. This depends on personality. There are dominant as well as submissive persons. Ideally, one partner should be dominant and other submissive. qIf both are dominant or submissive, relation may not work.
Spouse must have mind to understand what his partner can/can't do. Hence they should put forth their demands. It is not posible for anybody to fulfill abnormal or baseless demands. Very few people are mundane and live their married life seriously. if bith are compatible to each other, they can live happily by satisfying each other's wants.


Baseless,abnormal or whatever - Demand and command never works in life especially in a marriage .If it does for some reason then there is imbalance and the frustration is bound to come out at some time or the other...


Demand and command could work with some. This depends on personality. There are dominant as well as submissive persons. Ideally, one partner should be dominant and other submissive. qIf both are dominant or submissive, relation may not work.


Marriage is an event in which male loses his bachelor degree and female gains master degree. Just kidding.
Spouse must have mind to understand what his partner can/can't do. Hence they should put forth their demands. It is not posible for anybody to fulfill abnormal or baseless demands. Very few people are mundane and live their married life seriously. if bith are compatible to each other, they can live happily by satisfying each other's wants.


Baseless,abnormal or whatever - Demand and command never works in life especially in a marriage .If it does for some reason then there is imbalance and the frustration is bound to come out at some time or the other...


Demand and command could work with some. This depends on personality. There are dominant as well as submissive persons. Ideally, one partner should be dominant and other submissive. qIf both are dominant or submissive, relation may not work.


Marriage is an event in which male loses his bachelor degree and female gains master degree. Just kidding.


I agree but does that make male a useless one or female becomes overconfident and becomes useless? tell me the exact situation man, I am too confused.
Hmm. I would like to keep my personal opinion pending till I experience. :D

About seeing other couples , I guess its not true for all... Most of them are enjoying in fact.
B) B) B) B)

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This seems to be a case where he forgot to bring her B'day present. I think he was busy in his jungle matters. :laugh:

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