Do you think these days parents are happy?

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Wednesday, 07 December 2011 10:04

Exceptions exist only to the existence of general rule which has been explained by some members very well!

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Wednesday, 07 December 2011 10:12

As children understood that parents are living for the sake of their children only so children also now a days living for becoming a reason of parents smile

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Wednesday, 07 December 2011 10:13

That is what should be an ideal situation to be! If both are satisfied you can't expect anything more!

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Wednesday, 07 December 2011 10:14

Yes it is ofcourse fill up ourselves with hug happiness when we find ourself helpful for parents or if we are capable for accomplishing their expectations. But due to difference in thinking it doesn't happen at all times.Sometimes we have to adjust and sometimes our parents adjust .

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Wednesday, 07 December 2011 10:16

There are always difference in any honest relationship and when both sides remain respectul to each others' points of views, a solution is just a few steps away!

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Wednesday, 07 December 2011 16:37

Now a days parents are happy with their children because they are borned with more advance intelligence.

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Wednesday, 07 December 2011 16:42

Happiness is a state of mind. If any body nourishes unreasonable expectations which are frustrated, he will be unhappy- may be parent, may be son.

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Wednesday, 07 December 2011 17:04

It is usual. So everyone should understand the other one .Proper understanding can lead to satisfied life only.

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Wednesday, 07 December 2011 18:40

Many of you have rightly pointed unreasonable and at times unrealistic expectations cause unusual stress in this heavenly relationship.

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Wednesday, 07 December 2011 20:31

I liked this reply best. What Gulshanji has written here goes to show that wisdom he has gained by age and experiences.And i agree that unreasonable expectations are the root cause of sorrow in this world.

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Thursday, 08 December 2011 00:55

even i agree with gulshanji. whatever he said is true ,everything depends upon our state of mind

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Thursday, 08 December 2011 05:52

unreasonable expectations are the root cause of sorrow..but i believe that the parents have the right to expect from their children.it cannot be disregarded.

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Thursday, 08 December 2011 09:53

Ideally there should be balance based on pragmatism. After all there is no point in chasing a wild goose - to use a cliche!

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Thursday, 08 December 2011 10:49

That is what should be an ideal situation to be! If both are satisfied you can't expect anything more!

Not both are satisfied these days.. in all manner parents are adjusting. i am not giving blame to the youngsters but still youngsters are not adjusting these days.
Life goes with cooperate.. little bit from your side little bit from other side.. then we can live happily.

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Thursday, 08 December 2011 10:53

Absolutely! After all life is like that - you gain some you lose some!

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Thursday, 08 December 2011 10:54

Happiness depends upon many factors in family.It depends upon culture,adjustment,economic condition etc.

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Thursday, 08 December 2011 10:57

Absolutely! After all life is like that - you gain some you lose some!

Thats right and this called sacrifice.But the sacrifice which is for our beloved happiness like specially for parents in the end gives peace to own soul also.

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Thursday, 08 December 2011 11:03

Absolutely! After all life is like that - you gain some you lose some!

Thats right and this called sacrifice.But the sacrifice which is for our beloved happiness like specially for parents in the end gives peace to own soul also.

Well said Isha.. :) :)

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Thursday, 08 December 2011 11:11

The bond of any relationship based on mutual sacrifices stands like a rock!

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Thursday, 08 December 2011 18:57

any relationship depends upon mutual understanding, mutual sacrifice,trust, love and interest

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