How do you respond if somebody criticizes you? do you smile and avoid the situation or do you shout back? do you examine the criticizer to see whether at least a part of what he has said about you may be true or do you try to prove him as a madman in front of others?
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Honestly I may change my reaction as per person. If one of the known person who knows me well will criticize me then I would surely think about it and try to do something about it.
We should understand that if a criticism comes from a real friend, it should be accepted wholeheartedly . The critism that comes from a well wishing friend or a relative is an advice to correct and amend our way of working. It's as precious a priceless jewel. Others can be ignored.
My stand is 'critics are my best friends' but if someone is doing for the sake of criticism only, he should be ready to take his due fee for that.
Yes a biased and purposeless criticism should be rebuffed. Better ignored. Why a person should create headache for himself because of a fool who prattles nonsense ?
No body likes criticism if it is being done to provoke you, but positive criticism from friends is not called criticism but friendly suggestion.
suggestion is a soft criticism. Criticism comes in many many shapes. Even with slight gesture of body organs.
That is positive criticism but if it comes from unfriendly circles, it should be given a proper response.
Yes, it should be. Otherwise our silence will be treated as our weakness.
This is obvious for everybody. We should avoid such people.
Golden rule is keeping quite for some time. In the heat of the moment a good and constructive criticism also may rouse your temper. Give it time and act appropriately.
Yes, we have to act according to the situation. Creating an unnecessary situation is not good for you.
Even a scathing criticism also helps in creating a sense of determination and grit that makes you shoot ahead.
What ever the situation, we must think before reacting on any condition.
Honestly I may change my reaction as per person. If one of the known person who knows me well will criticize me then I would surely think about it and try to do something about it.
We should understand that if a criticism comes from a real friend, it should be accepted wholeheartedly . The critism that comes from a well wishing friend or a relative is an advice to correct and amend our way of working. It's as precious a priceless jewel. Others can be ignored.
My stand is 'critics are my best friends' but if someone is doing for the sake of criticism only, he should be ready to take his due fee for that.
Yes a biased and purposeless criticism should be rebuffed. Better ignored. Why a person should create headache for himself because of a fool who prattles nonsense ?
No body likes criticism if it is being done to provoke you, but positive criticism from friends is not called criticism but friendly suggestion.
suggestion is a soft criticism. Criticism comes in many many shapes. Even with slight gesture of body organs.
That is positive criticism but if it comes from unfriendly circles, it should be given a proper response.
Yes, it should be. Otherwise our silence will be treated as our weakness.
This is obvious for everybody. We should avoid such people.
Golden rule is keeping quite for some time. In the heat of the moment a good and constructive criticism also may rouse your temper. Give it time and act appropriately.
Yes, we have to act according to the situation. Creating an unnecessary situation is not good for you.
Even a scathing criticism also helps in creating a sense of determination and grit that makes you shoot ahead.
What ever the situation, we must think before reacting on any condition.
Reacting in the fit of anger will yield undesirable results.
Honestly I may change my reaction as per person. If one of the known person who knows me well will criticize me then I would surely think about it and try to do something about it.
We should understand that if a criticism comes from a real friend, it should be accepted wholeheartedly . The critism that comes from a well wishing friend or a relative is an advice to correct and amend our way of working. It's as precious a priceless jewel. Others can be ignored.
My stand is 'critics are my best friends' but if someone is doing for the sake of criticism only, he should be ready to take his due fee for that.
Yes a biased and purposeless criticism should be rebuffed. Better ignored. Why a person should create headache for himself because of a fool who prattles nonsense ?
No body likes criticism if it is being done to provoke you, but positive criticism from friends is not called criticism but friendly suggestion.
suggestion is a soft criticism. Criticism comes in many many shapes. Even with slight gesture of body organs.
That is positive criticism but if it comes from unfriendly circles, it should be given a proper response.
Yes, it should be. Otherwise our silence will be treated as our weakness.
This is obvious for everybody. We should avoid such people.
Golden rule is keeping quite for some time. In the heat of the moment a good and constructive criticism also may rouse your temper. Give it time and act appropriately.
Yes, we have to act according to the situation. Creating an unnecessary situation is not good for you.
Even a scathing criticism also helps in creating a sense of determination and grit that makes you shoot ahead.
What ever the situation, we must think before reacting on any condition.
Reacting in the fit of anger will yield undesirable results.
Any work commit during anger is not good. A person felt it after anger....
Honestly I may change my reaction as per person. If one of the known person who knows me well will criticize me then I would surely think about it and try to do something about it.
We should understand that if a criticism comes from a real friend, it should be accepted wholeheartedly . The critism that comes from a well wishing friend or a relative is an advice to correct and amend our way of working. It's as precious a priceless jewel. Others can be ignored.
My stand is 'critics are my best friends' but if someone is doing for the sake of criticism only, he should be ready to take his due fee for that.
Yes a biased and purposeless criticism should be rebuffed. Better ignored. Why a person should create headache for himself because of a fool who prattles nonsense ?
No body likes criticism if it is being done to provoke you, but positive criticism from friends is not called criticism but friendly suggestion.
suggestion is a soft criticism. Criticism comes in many many shapes. Even with slight gesture of body organs.
That is positive criticism but if it comes from unfriendly circles, it should be given a proper response.
Yes, it should be. Otherwise our silence will be treated as our weakness.
This is obvious for everybody. We should avoid such people.
Golden rule is keeping quite for some time. In the heat of the moment a good and constructive criticism also may rouse your temper. Give it time and act appropriately.
Yes, we have to act according to the situation. Creating an unnecessary situation is not good for you.
Even a scathing criticism also helps in creating a sense of determination and grit that makes you shoot ahead.
What ever the situation, we must think before reacting on any condition.
Reacting in the fit of anger will yield undesirable results.
Any work commit during anger is not good. A person felt it after anger....
Anger stops your thinking process.
Honestly I may change my reaction as per person. If one of the known person who knows me well will criticize me then I would surely think about it and try to do something about it.
We should understand that if a criticism comes from a real friend, it should be accepted wholeheartedly . The critism that comes from a well wishing friend or a relative is an advice to correct and amend our way of working. It's as precious a priceless jewel. Others can be ignored.
My stand is 'critics are my best friends' but if someone is doing for the sake of criticism only, he should be ready to take his due fee for that.
Yes a biased and purposeless criticism should be rebuffed. Better ignored. Why a person should create headache for himself because of a fool who prattles nonsense ?
No body likes criticism if it is being done to provoke you, but positive criticism from friends is not called criticism but friendly suggestion.
suggestion is a soft criticism. Criticism comes in many many shapes. Even with slight gesture of body organs.
That is positive criticism but if it comes from unfriendly circles, it should be given a proper response.
Yes, it should be. Otherwise our silence will be treated as our weakness.
This is obvious for everybody. We should avoid such people.
Golden rule is keeping quite for some time. In the heat of the moment a good and constructive criticism also may rouse your temper. Give it time and act appropriately.
Yes, we have to act according to the situation. Creating an unnecessary situation is not good for you.
Even a scathing criticism also helps in creating a sense of determination and grit that makes you shoot ahead.
What ever the situation, we must think before reacting on any condition.
Reacting in the fit of anger will yield undesirable results.
Any work commit during anger is not good. A person felt it after anger....
Anger stops your thinking process.
Yes, anger destroy your thinking power. Any how you want to down people on other side.....
Honestly I may change my reaction as per person. If one of the known person who knows me well will criticize me then I would surely think about it and try to do something about it.
We should understand that if a criticism comes from a real friend, it should be accepted wholeheartedly . The critism that comes from a well wishing friend or a relative is an advice to correct and amend our way of working. It's as precious a priceless jewel. Others can be ignored.
My stand is 'critics are my best friends' but if someone is doing for the sake of criticism only, he should be ready to take his due fee for that.
Yes a biased and purposeless criticism should be rebuffed. Better ignored. Why a person should create headache for himself because of a fool who prattles nonsense ?
No body likes criticism if it is being done to provoke you, but positive criticism from friends is not called criticism but friendly suggestion.
suggestion is a soft criticism. Criticism comes in many many shapes. Even with slight gesture of body organs.
That is positive criticism but if it comes from unfriendly circles, it should be given a proper response.
Yes, it should be. Otherwise our silence will be treated as our weakness.
This is obvious for everybody. We should avoid such people.
Golden rule is keeping quite for some time. In the heat of the moment a good and constructive criticism also may rouse your temper. Give it time and act appropriately.
Yes, we have to act according to the situation. Creating an unnecessary situation is not good for you.
Even a scathing criticism also helps in creating a sense of determination and grit that makes you shoot ahead.
What ever the situation, we must think before reacting on any condition.
Reacting in the fit of anger will yield undesirable results.
Any work commit during anger is not good. A person felt it after anger....
Anger stops your thinking process.
Yes, anger destroy your thinking power. Any how you want to down people on other side.....
That's a negative thought which never works.
Honestly I may change my reaction as per person. If one of the known person who knows me well will criticize me then I would surely think about it and try to do something about it.
We should understand that if a criticism comes from a real friend, it should be accepted wholeheartedly . The critism that comes from a well wishing friend or a relative is an advice to correct and amend our way of working. It's as precious a priceless jewel. Others can be ignored.
My stand is 'critics are my best friends' but if someone is doing for the sake of criticism only, he should be ready to take his due fee for that.
Yes a biased and purposeless criticism should be rebuffed. Better ignored. Why a person should create headache for himself because of a fool who prattles nonsense ?
No body likes criticism if it is being done to provoke you, but positive criticism from friends is not called criticism but friendly suggestion.
suggestion is a soft criticism. Criticism comes in many many shapes. Even with slight gesture of body organs.
That is positive criticism but if it comes from unfriendly circles, it should be given a proper response.
Yes, it should be. Otherwise our silence will be treated as our weakness.
This is obvious for everybody. We should avoid such people.
Golden rule is keeping quite for some time. In the heat of the moment a good and constructive criticism also may rouse your temper. Give it time and act appropriately.
Yes, we have to act according to the situation. Creating an unnecessary situation is not good for you.
Even a scathing criticism also helps in creating a sense of determination and grit that makes you shoot ahead.
What ever the situation, we must think before reacting on any condition.
Reacting in the fit of anger will yield undesirable results.
Any work commit during anger is not good. A person felt it after anger....
Anger stops your thinking process.
Yes, anger destroy your thinking power. Any how you want to down people on other side.....
That's a negative thought which never works.
We must balance our negative and positive thought to win over criticzes.
If we look around, people love to criticise others most of the time without even analysing the situation and it also would be negative criticism , so one should learn to take any criticism with a pinch of salt and simply ignore ones without any merit and iintrospect when there is reason to do so ...
If we look around, people love to criticise others most of the time without even analysing the situation and it also would be negative criticism , so one should learn to take any criticism with a pinch of salt and simply ignore ones without any merit and iintrospect when there is reason to do so ...
I do agree with you. A bit of introspection will enable us to peep in to ourselves. Thank the critic if there is truth in the criticism. If not just ignore. In this respect your own heart knows better.
If we look around, people love to criticise others most of the time without even analysing the situation and it also would be negative criticism , so one should learn to take any criticism with a pinch of salt and simply ignore ones without any merit and iintrospect when there is reason to do so ...
I do agree with you. A bit of introspection will enable us to peep in to ourselves. Thank the critic if there is truth in the criticism. If not just ignore. In this respect your own heart knows better.
Yes, responsible people welcome positive criticism and neglect negative criticism.
If we look around, people love to criticise others most of the time without even analysing the situation and it also would be negative criticism , so one should learn to take any criticism with a pinch of salt and simply ignore ones without any merit and iintrospect when there is reason to do so ...
I do agree with you. A bit of introspection will enable us to peep in to ourselves. Thank the critic if there is truth in the criticism. If not just ignore. In this respect your own heart knows better.
Yes, responsible people welcome positive criticism and neglect negative criticism.
There are many people who criticise over criticisms. That's what many of us do.
If we look around, people love to criticise others most of the time without even analysing the situation and it also would be negative criticism , so one should learn to take any criticism with a pinch of salt and simply ignore ones without any merit and iintrospect when there is reason to do so ...
I do agree with you. A bit of introspection will enable us to peep in to ourselves. Thank the critic if there is truth in the criticism. If not just ignore. In this respect your own heart knows better.
Yes, responsible people welcome positive criticism and neglect negative criticism.
There are many people who criticise over criticisms. That's what many of us do.
I accept them if there is substance in the criticism. They help me in mending my flaws.
If someone criticizes me i welcome their view and try to improve it.......If i think that criticises really mean for me.
Yes. Constructive criticism that enables us to amend our flaws should be accepted with thanks.
ya but many peoples are here who criticise us to make us feel low so beware from that person.........
If someone criticizes me i welcome their view and try to improve it.......If i think that criticises really mean for me.
Yes. Constructive criticism that enables us to amend our flaws should be accepted with thanks.
ya but many peoples are here who criticise us to make us feel low so beware from that person.........
Either you should turn your deaf ear or simply retaliate in the most befitting manner, if someone criticizes you for no reason.
If someone criticizes me i welcome their view and try to improve it.......If i think that criticises really mean for me.
Yes. Constructive criticism that enables us to amend our flaws should be accepted with thanks.
ya but many peoples are here who criticise us to make us feel low so beware from that person.........
Either you should turn your deaf ear or simply retaliate in the most befitting manner, if someone criticizes you for no reason.
This is very true......i try this always when someone criticise for no reason.......
Honestly I may change my reaction as per person. If one of the known person who knows me well will criticize me then I would surely think about it and try to do something about it.
We should understand that if a criticism comes from a real friend, it should be accepted wholeheartedly . The critism that comes from a well wishing friend or a relative is an advice to correct and amend our way of working. It's as precious a priceless jewel. Others can be ignored.
Yes.. That's why I mentioned that its also depends on where it is coming from. Friend or relative can criticize you for your well and surely it can be take as advice for our good.
True. If the criticism comes from those who are jealous of you because of your achievements or success, such criticism can be ignored.
Best solution is to stay quiet and smile.It really pisses them and keeeps them haunting for some time.
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