Good things should not be shared before it happens.

I will give an example from my life. My husband was expecting a very good increment from his company this year. It was almost confirm that all the employees will have a good wage revision since the company is in profit. That definately was a good news.But suddenly in the last month, the company faced a terrible loss and there was tremendous decrease in production and the condition was that the regular monthly salary was also paid late and the increment was postponed. Thus the good thing which was about to happened did not happened.[/quote]

That is absolutely possible but what I feel the impact also loose its weight if shared before time.

Revealing any good news before its happening might create hurdles. People may feel jealous and may create problems or the good event may not happen due to certain reason and we may feel embaraced.

Can you explain those reasons??
Actually my answers are hidden in those lines, which actually no one know its answer :S :S :S

I will give an example from my life. My husband was expecting a very good increment from his company this year. It was almost confirm that all the employees will have a good wage revision since the company is in profit. That definately was a good news.But suddenly in the last month, the company faced a terrible loss and there was tremendous decrease in production and the condition was that the regular monthly salary was also paid late and the increment was postponed. Thus the good thing which was about to happened did not happened.

But what is the hidden reason behind it? :blink: :dry:
Is it because life is full of uncertainties :ohmy: :ohmy:

Can anyone of you answer my last question?

It is often told, if we are waiting for some good things or luck to happen, we should never reveal it to anybody. If so, it will face more obstacles to happen.
For example: a job, a promotion, a profit etc. Is it a truth or just a saying.
What do you think?
Should we reveal it only after it happens? :whistle:

my husband always saying this. don't tell anybody about good thing. It will never happen he used to say always.

Good or bad, nothing should be shared before it happens as there is a slip in between cup and the lip.

Sunil ji, what is this slip in between cup and the lip. i didnt understand, is it a proverb. can you please explain me please

Sunil ji, what is this slip in between cup and the lip. i didnt understand, is it a proverb. can you please explain me please

I am surprised to read that- this is very famous saying - read it here for your knowledge
http://www.hindu.com/thehindu/edu/2003/04/08/stories/2003040800050202.htm

good things shared before they happen, i feel that the power of that good thing will be lost

It is very true. WE should not reveal the good news before it happens.Many people ha bad mentality or jealousy. They may secretly create obstacles in the way of good happening.

Yes they could not be shared some times we get the negative results at that time we must feel alot.

Yes that could be one reason if you have jealous friends then of course you should not reveal any good things before they take final shape.

Yes that could be one reason if you have jealous friends then of course you should not reveal any good things before they take final shape.

good friends are very few but jealous friends are more in the world. so we shouldnot reveal to them good things