should i choose love or arriange plz

i will say if you think your love marriage will be best for your life then you should go with love marriage.

choose love or arrange depends on how U r by patience ...so 1st test U'r capabilty 2 marry a gal /guy & if u r 100 % ready 2 marry a gal /guy U will nvr ever say should i choose love or arriange plz

[quote]Life is not only for marriage. there are alot of things which we can spend our life with that like doing inventions, treating orphan children , helping others etc[/quote]
I am appreciating your thought.

Thank you ramprosad.
You most of the girl dont like to marry. but due to parents force and for their happiness they do marriage.

If you are in love then go for love marriage. If you don't have lover then go for arrange marriage. very simple.

vimala you have given a correct answer.
Really reasonable answer

Love or arranged marriage is person's choice there is nothing like love marriage is bad and arranged marriage is good or vice versa. But add to it,it is always better to marry with parents consent. :)

Parents choice is better. In arrange marriage all relations support you always. In love marriage they wont support us.

:) I am in favour of love arrange marriage. Love marriage means that you married with any one without the permission of parents, Parents give you berth they are your well-wisher. You are in love with any one asked it to your parents. And than married.

Parents choice is better. In arrange marriage all relations support you always. In love marriage they wont support us.

Not always there are parents who always accept what their kids like they are not totally against love marriages. :blink:

Parents choice is better. In arrange marriage all relations support you always. In love marriage they wont support us.

Not always there are parents who always accept what their kids like they are not totally against love marriages. :blink:

The more enterprising and innovative with initiative go for love marriage. The timid and dull have no choice but accepting arranged marriage. some will neither fall in love nor accept arranged marriage. They will be chronological bachelor in the long run.

Parents choice is better. In arrange marriage all relations support you always. In love marriage they wont support us.

Not always there are parents who always accept what their kids like they are not totally against love marriages. :blink:

The more enterprising and innovative with initiative go for love marriage. The timid and dull have no choice but accepting arranged marriage. some will neither fall in love nor accept arranged marriage. They will be chronological bachelor in the long run.

Any examples of such persons please, I mean is that limited to dull and timid only?

:) I am in favour of love arrange marriage. Love marriage means that you married with any one without the permission of parents, Parents give you berth they are your well-wisher. You are in love with any one asked it to your parents. And than married.

That is the most suitable arrangement in the Indian context - a diplomatic and politically correct arrangement lol...Now there is a system of arranging the love/marriage between the youngsters by introducing them in the presence of the elders and let them make the future decisions.There was an amusing incident in our community when the girl refused to marry the fellow after going round with him because she was not very happy with his attitude and the two families are at war :P

Parents choice is better. In arrange marriage all relations support you always. In love marriage they wont support us.

Not always there are parents who always accept what their kids like they are not totally against love marriages. :blink:

The more enterprising and innovative with initiative go for love marriage. The timid and dull have no choice but accepting arranged marriage. some will neither fall in love nor accept arranged marriage. They will be chronological bachelor in the long run.

Any examples of such persons please, I mean is that limited to dull and timid only?

They are dull and timid only in romance and not otherwise. I've myself been timid as well as dull. I'm still bachelor. Abul Kalam, Atal Behai Vajpayee, V.K. Krishna Menon could not find match for themselves and also not cared about marriage. They may be smart in other matters but dull in romance. May be they are too intelligent, intellectual and lack sentimentality that a romantic person would need. For them, all women are same.

I feel it may be love marriage or arranged marriage, but love, affection, and mutual understanding, respect towards each other in important.

Parents choice is better. In arrange marriage all relations support you always. In love marriage they wont support us.

Not always there are parents who always accept what their kids like they are not totally against love marriages. :blink:

The more enterprising and innovative with initiative go for love marriage. The timid and dull have no choice but accepting arranged marriage. some will neither fall in love nor accept arranged marriage. They will be chronological bachelor in the long run.

Any examples of such persons please, I mean is that limited to dull and timid only?

They are dull and timid only in romance and not otherwise. I've myself been timid as well as dull. I'm still bachelor. Abul Kalam, Atal Behai Vajpayee, V.K. Krishna Menon could not find match for themselves and also not cared about marriage. They may be smart in other matters but dull in romance. May be they are too intelligent, intellectual and lack sentimentality that a romantic person would need. For them, all women are same.

Jayalaitha too ;)

I feel it may be love marriage or arranged marriage, but love, affection, and mutual understanding, respect towards each other in important.

That is what should be there should be love even if it is an arranged marriage it hardly matters then if there is love and respect for each other. :)

That we cannot say what you must choose as it is your life. You must take a correct decision towards this.

Success rate is high in arranged marriages comparing to love marriages.

If you like someone, talk to your parents. Learn what's good and what's bad in your choice. Try to obey your parents. If your choice is good. You will get your love. Better to take parents in confidence before any serious attempts.