should i choose love or arriange plz

Friends I have a question. Is it compulsory to love before marriage? Why can't people love their wife and children? Are they enemies or instrument to hate and torture?

Success rate is high in arranged marriages comparing to love marriages.

There is no data available if love marriage or arranged marriage is more successful. :blink:

Success rate is high in arranged marriages comparing to love marriages.

There is no data available if love marriage or arranged marriage is more successful. :blink:

This is true. There is no census of love or arranged marriages. But we witness marriages and separation in our neighborhood almost daily. Most marriages are arranged. These also are troublesome when there is compatibility problem not only among the couple but even if with mother in law, sister in law. The love marriages are based more on short term attraction and sentiments. The reality of life often upsets the couple. Also love is blind and very flexible. There is no guarantee of the couple in love for a long term. Ultimately, success of marriage depends on on the fact of arranged or love but on socially responsible and mature behavior.

More than anything there should be mutual trust and respect between the partners whether it is love marriage or arranged marriage.It is what follows is what counts, since falling in love or arranging a marriage normally is a very short process, what follows is far more significant since they have to live together..

both are good it's your personal matter so choice is yours

Taking a right decision will make your life happier other wise you will face problems.

We can not predict the future so if the relation is good then everything is well whether it is love or arrange.

You must not think about the both but only you m ust think about the girl if she is a good person you will be happy.

I think love come arranged is most better. But I prefer to arranged marriage. This is everyone's personal decision.

Arrange marriage and love marriage are both successful when both (husband and wife) are well mature and understanding.

It may be love marriage or arranged marriage but the mutual understanding between husband and wife is the main thing about the successful marriage and married life.

This is not an easy question to answer. Some people say love marriage while others say arranged. But there are some arranged marriages that end up in a disaster just like some love marriages. It really depends on the person that you are getting married to. The person should be compatible to you whether you tie the knot with him/her through love marriage or arranged marriage.

should go with our parents choice or mine own for marraige?

plz help me if i wanna choose love or arriange plz?

If you have love affair, you should go for love marriage. If you go for arranged marriage having live with soemone menas you are spoiling your life and lifer of other two as well.

If no love affairs at present, you can choose either.

should go with our parents choice or mine own for marraige?

plz help me if i wanna choose love or arriange plz?

Whatever the forum members say you do, even if its against your will?
This is marriage and a matter related to life, For such an important and vital issue you are the best to chose, not the forum members

should go with our parents choice or mine own for marraige?

plz help me if i wanna choose love or arriange plz?

Mutual Understanding is the major thing. Marriage may be either love or arranged. This was correctly explained by Sandhya.

After so much advice, the issue must have been resolved. so the thread is closed for further discussion.