I have always thought that growing old is wonderful. It is freedom from many problems even if this is one of the
problems in itself but that depends upon person to person. It is a like enjoying our life totally without any
responsibilities and going back in to memories while still enjoying the present. I know people in their forties and
fifties who appear and behave older than others behave in much older age.
I know people who are well into their old age and doing reasonably good, getting into all the rough and climbing
in and out of life's hard and soft corners despite having all kind of problems they had to go through. I know,
number wise I am older than, some of you are, but still feel and act as if I am in my twenties. That simply
depends on how I take life, positively or negatively. I take it most positively, enjoying to the core. Let me recall
the incidents regarding some of my women friends and coworkers. They say women feel that they are going in
to reverse when they hit their middle age and remain at a certain age for years to come. I think there is any
thing wrong with that if only they can maintain themselves, they have every right to feel and behave that way.
Yes, I am, blessed with wonderful genes, a gift to me by my ancestors, I am a vegetarian, for years that helps
keep some of the problems away, and I do not smoke, drink wine etc. exercise regularly and get quality sleep,
not long though. Moreover, I laugh aloud every day and perhaps forgot to mention, drink a lot of water every day
that really helps. That is like a part of water therapy that keeps system clean and healthy. Any one can try that
to give it a shot and see the difference within a week. This is too good a therapy to keep hypertension etc away
and not to mention your kidneys.
The most important is to stay young at heart and in the mind, and to enjoy all the fun and frolic the world has to
offer during our journey here. How to keep going and stay young was the dictum of my friends and parents, all of
whom tried very hard to go against aging. I did not do that by going with artificial ways but with natural methods
and many efforts. In my case though, I actually live by this and knowing who I am, how could I possibly go and
shout-out loud about the fact that I am old and therefore not able to keep pace with younger lot.
I am always, prepared by giving surprises to my friends and relatives. More years to our life simply mean
becoming that much more experienced and more things to share with others. Getting old but staying young at
heart is a wonderful way of becoming, more experienced only; this has nothing to do with sitting an armchair
and reading newspapers. I would like to mention that I did all this despite being too busy traveling and tending
to all my duties throughout my too busy call of duty. As one who will never act my age, I can say to all who act
joyful, to live your life the way you want to live, your own way. You are always and truly only as young or old, as
you feel. I have my plans on feeling young for a long time, as long as I would live.
What I feel that my mind is still young enough, and I still can shock some of the younger lot with so many ways,
things I can do or share. There reaction is always so amazing ‘you are not as old as much I thought’. I really
liked that, I really did and that made me even younger. I do not mind being a senior at all, sometimes although
not too often, you get away with things, that maybe you should not.
However, as long as you are fit and healthy this does not matter whatever number you are. I do not need an
excuse to have fun as much younger people do, eat whatever I like, go for outings etc. and enjoy the way I like.
This is our jolly nature that keeps us young; all the other good habits probably help, of course. We are only as
young or old as much we think we are feeling at the time. Therefore, age means nothing. This is what is in the
heart and mind and certainly not in numbers. Although, I do not mind growing old, however, I wish the pains and
sufferings do not become the part of me, they need not be the part of me Enjoy as long as you can.
Facebook is, known as a chitchat kind of site but this site has its own plus points as well. Facebook proves its worth by giving poor people their firs library. The donor and the one who requested to set it are as praiseworthy.
Social networking sites are proving their role in the lives of ordinary people successfully now and this is happening repeatedly.
This is in contrary to general belief that social networking sites especially Facebook is playing a major role in making people addictive to chatting and activities those are not so good for them and making them irresponsible.
There was an incident in a backward area of India where a man donated three hundred books to a village to open a library. In fact, Suraj Prakash a resident of Mumbai who works for Reserve bank of India had written on his wall that he wanted to donate his four thousand books to needy people who so ever want to read them.
A man, Pathak from Bakswaha village of Chatarpur district in Madhya Pradesh, reading this, requested Suraj to give some of the books to his village so that poor people of his village could also take advantage of quality literature. Suraj did provide them several hundreds of his books and helped them open a library in that small village.
Another villager of that locality Rajesh Khare was so happy to know about this library when he said ‘We never thought that there could be some one in this world who will ever be so kindly to provide us a library’ he was all praise for Facebook and Suraj for his noble deed. Therefore, we should be thankful to Facebook for this library, as this particular media provided the basic information and the needful way for communication.
People are apt to express who they really are. Helpful people are usually helpful wherever they are. Most people need some relaxation and simple friendly interaction, too, which social sites provide, too. Maybe both uses are positive and each of them may even be productive in its own way and purposes served for people that are a wonderfully commendable use and result of a social network. Just goes to prove that good people want to help and generosity can be, found anywhere.
The social network simply multiplies the effects because so many more people are made aware quickly and simultaneously of such a project. That should be a good deal. It is nice that because of communication via Facebook many people benefited because of this one man's generosity in donating his books so that others could read
Have you ever heard about grand design those are, made for you, I have mentioned this in so many times in my different articles on different sites. Believing in destiny though is tricky; people have different views on this subject. I believe that destiny is real, that there is one person or job destined for you. If not then there is a single turning point in your life when you will find that particular person or job in your destiny. Therefore, it could probably be true that destiny is real, and that no effort is, needed because destiny will find its way to you on its own way.
However, love is not the same. Love requires efforts. Achieving goals is not the same. Achieving goals require efforts again. Success is not the same. Success requires your efforts. It could be your destiny to be, loved by someone, but if you have not exerted effort to find the love of your life, there will be no love even if destiny finds it for you. It could be your destiny to achieve a goal, but if you have not exerted any effort in achieving that goal, then the goal is meaningless if destiny achieves it for you.
Going south
It could be true destiny will find its way to you. However, everything that makes that destiny worthwhile is in your own doing. "An apple you've harvested from the tree, you yourself planted will always be sweeter than any apple you ever buy from the market.
I know many people want so badly to believe there is some kind of sacred timeline already written for them, I sometimes find myself in that place as well. Sadly, that is never the case, except in movies of course, what would not we give to be those people? It could be your destiny to be successful, but if destiny succeeds for you then it is not at all your success, so keep making efforts to reach their where you are destined to be.
Reaching North
I have always leaned more towards a deterministic view of the world. Being familiar with quantum mechanics and Heisenberg’s uncertainty principle, I still believe that the outcome of the world could actually be, forecasted if we had all the necessary variables.
Now, does that mean that everything has already been, decided beforehand? Not at all, within those variables lies the freedom of choice. I believe in destiny. If you are destined for each other no matter what comes between you and your partner, no matter what travails and trials are met, it you are really destined for each other all these will be overcome. Happy are those who found their destiny in life. I myself am thinking where my destiny is, is it in this life or in another life. It may have passed me unknowingly when I was not looking. I just wish that if he is somewhere around that I should meet him before it is too late. However, if destiny brings him in the twilight of my life, so be it.
That is destiny
Well, what I do think is that there are possibilities and situations destined to happen but we still have the free will to manipulate that destiny. As for example, one company is destined to fail but the employees who work in that company work hard to keeps the company going. So despite the fact that destiny says it will fail, people still work around things to overcome that destiny. This world is full of possibilities, every action you do (or not do) leads to a consequence which may be good, bad or really too bad. Life is what you make it; you only get out of life what you put into it. Every thing happens for a reason, not sure if I believe in destiny, each day to me is a blessing, what ever happens each day is a destiny.
Social life is a combination of every individual's personal relation along with following the measures in the society. Social life cannot be defined in one particular definition.It differs from each individual according to one's thoughts.Few people might consider as going out in the weekend is one part of social life. Social life not only means partying at night clubs and going out or freaking out. It is also one kind of social responsibility that every individual has towards the society.
It need not be in one particular format. It is important that every individual takes part in the events of the society and not just feel that it is a burden and start accepting it as a responsibility. Each religion has its own culture. Each culture has its own style. Similarly each society has its own standard of acceptance and taste. For example Food, there are lots of varieties of foods, even the same kind of food tastes different in each and every society.
Likewise there is certain style of dressing which each and every society follow or is accepted. There are certain places where styling is considered as a crime.Even though we like it or not we have to follow the rules of the society as it is the same group of people whom we live with and hence their view also matters which is the part of the society. There are lots of things that happen in the society. Moving socially with others is always better and in return showing concern will give back one day.
Social life is a combination of: Emotions of the people Spiritual believes of the people Everybody would want the society to change in some or the other way, but none of them is ready to take or start the change. They are expecting it to change all of a sudden. Change is something which won't happen all of a sudden somebody needs to take initiative and the change should be accepted in the society.
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