After exam
Today on 3rd of June 3, 2010, I am feeling very happy. You all know that why I m feeling so happy and writing this article. As you all know that I m an engineering student of information technology. May be you all knowing that I finished my 2nd semester exam on 2nd of June? And I m feeling very happy because finally I got entered in to the 2nd year, now I am a second year engineering student of information technology studying in Dr. M.G.R university situated in maduravoyal, Chennai, Tamil Nadu, India. But a problem is that our vacation is only till 20th June, but no problem all will celebrate the vacation till 20th July. A great and very important time to celebrate in our engineering life, but it should also not to be overlooked that we are living in a very tough competitive world and specially just after 12th we have become a member of peoples who are living a stress full and a very competitive life, where there is no time to meet our school friends and even our closed colleagues. No even time to sit relax with our parents. We are to face at least 62 exam including labs and practical in a year. A very big reasons to worry and fear, but please don’t fear I insist, this fear is only for me because I will have to study well to be a good student and I will do it with sincerely and honestly and the most important thing in this disturbing is the focus on our aim, I will have to concentrate in my profession to succeed in my life. yes, I want of succeed in my life and want to be a such type of man so that people say about me that he is really a true man. He is helpful to all and a human lover. I want to do so that all influence with me and work like a good man and also help people who need help. I want to do some extra effort to excel in my life including the study. My 1st semester performance was not so much good and my 2nd semester exam was also good, but I want to get top marks and want to be a topper in 3rd semester. For all this I have to concentrate in my subject. In 3rd semester I have to study six theory papers, they are as follows:
Semester III theory
Discrete mathematics, electronic devices and circuit, object oriented programming, communication skills for engineering, digital electronics, data structures and algorithms.
Semester III practical
Circuits and devices lab, DS & OOPS lab.
Thus, these are the theory and practical that I have to study well to excel in my class. So pray for me to do well.
To be continued……………………………………4
Hey if you would like to discover the best manner to resolve interview questions and then I've a couple of points for you here. I believe that this is a immense trouble that many people have, & they get pre-interview jitters just experiencing that they've to go into same. Let's come in it, how to resolve interview questions in good order.
Ascertain What They wishing to Hear
This is likely among the most unmarked processes of responding the enquiries. You can probably believe up what would attain an eminent candidate for them, & you can develop a scheme to kind of "foreground" your great traits into your accountsor example, each interviewer commonly asks a set of queries... One of them might wind up being "are you a team participant?"
Now... You'll be able to answer that with a mere "yes," or a "no," or establish them additional data. I'd state to give them more data & work it into a report that will spotlight some of your large dimensions. Narrations are superior!
Use "e.g." A Lot!
This is among those tips that humans just love, & I guess you are going to like it as well. The more sources that you are able to give your interviewer is the finer. If you are able to function in your feels into tales & really depict it who you're, you'll get hired a good deal easier. Make sense?
Warning: do not say "e.g." before all single matter that you say, but I'd definitely apply it a lot of & cause some big conversations with them.
Describe precisely What They prefer to discover By Going Here
The gentlest means to get a career is to ascertain what they would like to hear... & then... Narrate it
Its actually, truly simple - & most of the interviewers use identical related enquiries, so you'll be able to really pick up exactly what it is searching in reply to each.
Most of the enquiries, too, are "conduct queries," which are essentially queries organised to draw your personality & individuality out and so they can catch if they "real want you." I'd concentrate generally on resolving these the fine, as it is the ones that say the almost about you.
I hope these serves you for interviews
Even on the time of recessional while the full of westside is engrossed in cutting occupations & forcing out people to adapt price savings, India on the different hand is establishing bright grounds for career seekers. jobs in India are identical popular with in big amount to establish your job booming & brilliant. One can't pronounce that the globular recess hasn't impacted the economic system and occupation sector of the country, only thanks to the diversity & distinct sections in India rather than the private & BPO sector which enrols populate for a good entertain in their lives. From paramilitary force forces to common bank sectors, everybody comprises assuring 1000s & 1000000s of jobs in Republic of India in the year 2009 & 2010. Jobs in India are accessible in large quantity alongside private business sectors & new jobs. In addition to military, the banking sector is different outgoing sector that's been raising humans in distinct places like bank clerks, provisionary Officers, Technicians & other people. People from contrastive walks of life are bringing chances with these possibilities by divergent banks similar State Bank of India, Central savings bank of India, savings bank of Allahabad, Bank of Baroda, Indian oversea Bank & others. The Indian Railways as well has been back up for 100s & 1000s of new occupation questers in India. Indian railroads is among the uppermost corporations to provide greatest number of Indian capers. They're almost daily in enlisting of masses in several divisions of the Indian Railways. From Ticket captains to Engineers to locomotive engine Drivers, the sphere has been fit to enrols millions of masters with bright facilities that all expert career offers. The climbing number of hospitals & healthcare centers isn't only fine news for physicians. They sure get chances for better earnings & facilities with the increasing healthcare unit, just such units have opened up 1000s of Indian jobs for assistants, lab helpers, receptionists, medical charge masters, supporters, & extra faculty. A late sketch displayed that Indian Health sphere adventuring more into rustic domains have opened up chances for agricultural literates too to begin jobs in those health sectors. They're attempting to channelise most of the bring down jobs to India. Like these IBM visual sense there are billions of chances in individual sector & outsourcing manufacture which is equally dispersed in the metros of Old Delhi, Bombay, Madras, Kolkatta,Bangalore, Chandigarh,Hyderabad Lucknow & others. Even out during a globular ceding back, recruiters, business concern proprietors & employees hold that India is even the land of chance. Positioning advisors india & enlisting consultants in india per year produces 1000s of career chances for distinct sectors to fill the voids. Different published, physical & vivas are carried for jobs for freshmen to value the acquisitions & discover appropriate nominees for bettor running of the authorities. To ascertain the correct prospect for the post, authorities arrange rules of standards accordant to the hierarchy. The compensation & salary of the governing jobs in India also changes accordingly.
The media is such a powerful tool. Its influences can be helpful in enlightening the world with righteousness, provided, we implement them properly. But today they are used to mold the thoughts and views of the vulnerable minds of youth. Problems, such as related to sex, drugs, violence, culture, ethics, morals, character etc., keep tumbling one after the other due to the high exposure of certain things on media.
Impacts of television:
People Forgetting their Own Lives , Getting Deeply Involved in Televisions. But it depends on what we are watching and whether we are "addicted" or not.Ofcourse there isn’t much networking through this, but this is how we connect to people who are not around us. well it is something that which we can't live without& if we are addicted than also it is bad. Television is the best gadget for the society as it keep the society engage by eating up the time by providing some useful and useless information and entertainment. Some say it’s a idiot box and some say it’s a intellectual box.
It's true that TV has it’s roles in both domains As most of the things has. I mean It is an idiot box or an Intelligent box too, depending upon the person who use It. For example News Channel are providing lots of info related to finance, property, debate on national and international issues but also the same news channel provides useless information too.
Now if we talk about the main thing "IMPACT".
Whether one is using it in any way. The one who is using it get affected. Especially the youngster watching M TV etc, they use the same language as is used there, all the time M TV roadies, spilt villas are discussed rather than politics like things. The impact is they are not developing any sense for our country, not doing some useful thing, wasting of time.If we talk about the ladies of our country, they used to see serial if not that other(sas bahu like serial) from 6:30 evening to sleeping time. Yes of course reality shows(those actually has not any reality.)In that time ladies can talk with their husband, children and grand parents taking them together about their whole day. Or can be discussed some productive topic. Problems can be shared. It was the second impact.
So the back bone of our country the youngster and the ladies (watching serials all the evening and discussing it in kitty party) invest their much of time with TV, and making their role in the development of our country and social life.
The impact of the box depends upon the age group. Kids watches cartoons and they want to fly like shakthiman or super man. They uses abusing language. I do not think we will find any kid watching Ramayana.Even the young India is taking wrong turn, the MTV RODAIES the most popular serial among we guys.What its impact girls using bad words. Boys behaving like hell with girls, politics in friendship. In this generation TV has become almost a part of life for many.But we are in the position to know its impact for good of coming generation.
To a larger extent mega serials influence the families passively. I have largely controlled my mom and she gets to see only two mega serials in the afternoon. The fact is that most women who idle in mega serials also forget to attend to the daily chores. Like cleaning the house or attending to daily chores and all. By the time they attend to the same the afternoon is nearly over and this puts a dampener on the daily rest they get in the afternoons.
Mega serials eat up the night sleep time. Not many would have remembered about some young children kidnapping a fellow and indulging in extortion. This turned out to be a dumb squib and the guy got murdered. Much of this could happen only because the elders were idling in mega serials which end up teaching unnecessary things.
I saw a serial called "shin chan" it is funny yes. but it teaches so many naughty things to kids. Gives so many ideas and i absolutely dislike these serials on kids channel in which teenage kids show so much attitude towards their parents. the way they make fun of their parents and snort their noses has anyone watched sweet sixteen celebrations of rich kids on VH1?.one of the girls called her mom "B****" on national tv .we definitely need better serials.I would rather watch discovery and national geographic .
I get kids at home, animated movies like Krishna, Hanuman etc., Animated Rhymes, Panchatantra stories, Animals, Flowers etc. They love watching them. They almost daily watch Krishna movie. They do not even ask me to switch on the TV neither will watch the TV with us. These cds really make them learn something. I believe our people need a closer look at the telecast of all tv shows And especially which are deglamorising our culture and tradition. I have seen in some ads, how one feel bore about our classical music, thinking a change. How do the people behind these shows and youngsters know the strength of it and secrets behind the western music has influence of our Indian music . By now our own movie industry cause damage in the field theater artists and other traditional skills, now its turn of commercial industry .
I have seen impact of this kind campaign of coke in “SWEDEN" where the tradition of Halloween and Santa clause are bit of strange belief according to these people but unable to resist the dominance of it due to these kind commercialization. I believe these kinds of things will make future generations less informative of ancient knowledge. With mass number of half knowledge in our country in spiritualism this will have an serious impact on our beliefs and tradition which also bring huge disturbances in a families .so I believe there should be regulation on it. We can’t sit and react after the damage is caused and expect a sorry for individuals after the evil thought enter in to fresh un matured mind of our youngsters. We need a law to protect our knowledge.It is true that tv shows and advertisements are using sex and violence as means for cheap popularity and are too much extent becoming successful also. The laws are already in place to control these for example you might have heard about fashion TV been banned by prasar bharti some years ago. Even if we ban these channels have they improve the condition? The answer is big no. The situation demands that youngsters be given proper guidance; they need to be engaged in creative activities, proper knowledge of spiritual texts needs to be imparted to them so that they may take the decision what is right and wrong for them.
In fact, a bigger threat would be internet where objectionable contents are more readily accessible and no child lock could be placed. But we cannot stop using internet otherwise it would hamper the professional growth of an individual.A lot of channels are now adopting programs by merely copying similar programs from their foreign network. It’s an irony that we used to have Ramanand Sagar's Ramayan, BR Chopra's Mahabharat in Television along with serials related to King Vikramaditya. Are we loosing interests in those subjects or is it a planned conspiracy by all channels to sabotage our Indian television viewer's interest?
Impacts of television advertisements:
Before going to discuss the effect of advertisement, let look at importance of advertisement first. There are various ways to aware people about a product. One of them is Advertisement. Now a days, Companies are spending more and more money to advertise the product. Even, the amount spent on advertisement is about 50% of amount spent on product. For Example, the adds that are displayed on television demands lakhs of money for 10-20 seconds adds. In final matches of world cups(in case of cricket),tournaments(in case of tennis)and other sports; The expenditure on advertisements doubles than ordinary days. By observing the above examples, one can predict the prominence of adds in company's growth.Due to the excess time that they get for telecasting news, these people introduced some crappy programs related to crime these days. The other day I was watching this one program( don't want to mention) which was enacted by group of TV artists. These people were showing the way crime was committed and how the convict left a small clue due to which he was caught by the cops and the whole scenario from the start to the end. I seriously think news channels became guide books in showing people how to commit a crime. Take music videos. They are overflowing with half- naked girls who send messages that ignore self respect, and reflect low self-esteem. Despite what we want to believe, these girls are role models for our younger generation. These people not only insult themselves, but they also insult our culture. It is pretty pathetic that I won’t even raise my eyebrow when someone tells me that a sixteen-year-old girl is pregnant. Reason, I got acquainted to listening such news. I'm surprised why exposure towards things is making people expose.
The ads related to beauty and costumes more importantly. Only charming models epitomize these products who may not be necessarily using them. People ignorant of this fall into a misconception that they too turn like the models who epitomize them after using those products. Youth must apprehend that physical appearance should be secondary while character and personality of a person should be primary. By being who you are and being comfortable in your own skin is most important, this shows how much self-esteem and confidence you have in yourself.
There should be two or three class division (grade) for Media. Media such as NDTV (Eng. and Hindi), CNN-IBN, Doordarshan, The Hindu, etc (some regional media) should be given upper grade so that people give importance to the news on them more. I think they deserve this because they have shown some responsibility. The rest of channels who claims to be a news channel (and show all things except News!) should be put on another grade. Unofficially we should call them "Entertainment Media". For business news we could have another section.
Now many say the biggest problem here is that who will give grade? I don't find much difficulty in coming to solution. The media group should itself set some protocols to be followed to remain in top grade and then it is only required to check the action of media in terms of those protocols. I think there is no financial losses for any section here. Only the important news will get importance, which should be the aim. I often see the total different set of "Headlines" in Doordarshan or The Hindu from that of Aaj Tak or India TV. Now, when this is happening then why there should be objection from such Entertainment Media over the grade system?
Media: Newspapers, television, radio, magazines--the actual reportage is media.
Advertising: Sold for the purpose of paying for the existence of the media, often at incredibly high prices. A one-minute commercial on a major special, for example, can cost millions of US dollars (I'm thinking of the SuperBowl as an example, but certainly the World Cup can qualify in other areas of the world.)Why would they squash one story over another? For starters, an advertiser might be getting bad press, and the high-paying advertiser isn't going to be willing to buy space or air time if his product is being smeared even if the reason is for the sake of truth, which is ultimately the goal of journalists on the air or in print. Another reason might be that political agenda is involved. If the publisher or producer says "squash it," the story will be squashed. And why would the editors and writers go along with that? Simple: they want to keep their jobs.The editors and writers who buck the system will not only lose their jobs, they will be blackballed from any meaningful career and find themselves in the outer reaches of small town whatever country, just to try to keep food on the table.
Every single newspaper is structured with a political agenda as a result of its tendency to be aligned with one party or another. Sometime before elections, the newspapers here will attempt to mold public opinion by coming out with endorsements of one candidate or another. That's a fact of American life, but I would imagine that goes on throughout the world in all newspapers. Each newspaper has been developed, for example, with a particular philosophy and mission statement. Every single copy of that newspaper has been developed with that particular philosophy and mission statement in mind. If you later become discouraged by what you're seeing, and you see it as a constant emphasis of that publication, there is a simple solution: you voice your protests by leaving that publication's circulation and heading to another. You might also write a letter to the editor before doing so as well. The same is true of television and radio, however. You leave. If you don't like their offerings, you voice your protests where they will hear you--in their wallets--because their advertisers will see the circulation/viewers dropping, and they will take their dollars elsewhere.
It is an industry for gosh sakes! In an industry, you've got to get your hands & feet dirty. if everyone grows, in their adolescent years speaking of sex, and drugs and all those things , Is not obvious those guys had started thinking on those lines in their careers as media journalists ? For Pete’s sake, the "younger generation" per se isn't dumb. It’s only a personal choice of what they want to watch. Dare you to watch news on DD when “Sex and the city " is on .so far about the television, the most popular medium. Internet? Forget it. Statistics say that porn is ruling the internet. Newspapers: the parents can't do without reading about deaths and their political parties and all that gory stuff every morning .All in all, my say on it is that we need to, as sensible citizens of planet earth, keep away from what someone has aptly named "the idiot box”
Indian media - curse for nation
Media is fourth pillar of constitution. But it’s not showing any responsibility towards nation. current media only cares about its TRP ratings.media shows biased news with the influences of politicians or feminists. Media is doing one of the biggest crimes by misguiding public because it has great impacts on public.
media is always used to do negative publicity & is always used to highlight those all topics which is making negative impact on citizen's mind.media people distorted the words or incidents and do false sensanalisation in the name of news.They create news rather than showing news.
media is interested only in the below kind of news:
--Ash adn abhisekh saga goes for more than 6 months
--SRK and Aamir fighting
--a boy in a pit, shown for more than 24hours live in many channels
--2girls, intrude into PM's house just up to 1st gate, many channels showed this for about 2-3days
--laughter shows
--Mika kisses Rakhi... a sensational news
--murders n rapes.
--cricket is always on top of it if there no news
--Page 3 news such as what they eat , drink etc.
--superstitious things
media cover these type of news in the filmy style to attract people who don’t watch news channels for information but for entertainment only. in this way they leave away imp news from public
there are 24 hours in a day. Media can cover 100s of news in this time. But media keep on repeating 2-3 news for whole 24 hrs. and these 2-3 news are most of the time just useless.
daily we are reading regarding murder & theft on the first page. but the problem is there is no media to tell about media.Example of good communal relation, gathering between two various communities will occurs in some part of country, media will barely cover it in their news. Media should spread awareness in public towards sports and other fields where we are weak. They should spread awareness towards sports in India as we are very weak in sports.
One of the usual questions against an arranged marriage is that how can you marry somebody you don't know. Knowing somebody before marriage allows partners to have better respect and understanding for each other's needs and desires. This way they are better adjusted in themarriage when they finally take their wedding vows.
Asking somebody if you like an arranged marriage or an love marriage is like asking someone to choose between death by hanging or death by a firing squad !! On a more serious note I feel love marriages are better as you know your partner quite well ,but the parental support is missing though.Out in the Western countries not only do they know each other before marriage but also live together for some years before getting married.well i do not understand the chemistry how to people unknown to each other can live together for the rest of their lives , in the mean time , I am not completely againstarranged marriage as such , what is important is how well can you gel with each other , this can be based on trust , loyalty , and commitment ,its easy to get married , but the most important part is how you carry that relationship, n love or arranged marriage hardly makes a difference as such.Eventhough there is always the stereotypical argument that 'how people totally unknown to each other can come together througharranged marriage and spend their rest of the lives together.I always wonder in places like U.S or any other western country where 'love' marriage is the norm why the divorce rate is so high.I think it has to do with the attitude of people of different cultures towards how serious amarriage relationship is.
In India it is something very serious and a divorce is considered only in the very worst situation. Also its considered something like a 'bad thing' to do. Whereas, in westerncountries I feel they think of divorce as a solution for not-so serious reasons and marriage in many cases ends up more of a 'trial & error' experiment. Arranged marriage can be also very sweet,knowing a new person, learning to love,share your life, it is a beautiful journey..In arranged marriages you dont have much expectations so whatever comes in good is like a bonus.Also family support also very important which you wont realise beforemarriage. But then i must also say its sometimes a game of luck too.Because if the decision of marriage is taken in a hurry burry.One day you meet a person and gets married the next week, things can go wrong.I would prefer a long arranged marriage where you get the time to start understanding the person and also there is parent's blessings.
Both have their own advantages and disadvantages.
In arranged marriages its damn sure that your parents are there to support you, they enquire well about your partner. But still you are getting very less time to know the individual. And when you get into a stage where you can take a decision, it will b too late.Personally, I suport lovemarriages but I m not against arranged ones.. One of the usual questions against an arranged marriage is that how can you marry somebody you don't know. Knowing somebody before marriage allows partners to have better respect and understanding for each other's needs and desires. This way they are better adjusted in themarriage when they finally take their wedding vows.
Also, i don't agree with forced arranged marriages. once you do simply because you have no other circumstance but marry someone because you could have a better life? your family says to do so, because of family honor etc.Marriage is a bond of two souls or lovers and its what they want that is most important.In love marriage, you are marrying someone you love, which is great, as marriage is simply a way to show to the world and confirm your love for each other
For people who are immature.Arranged marrige is better bet. I have seen some people get into messy love marrige because of their low level of maturity. Things are bad when one decides toget married at 18-19 with a guy/girl with whom he/she fell in love at first sight. Life is not movie and there is no 'and they happily lived ever after' in real life.
But if you are a matured person who is very certain about his needs and his capabilities. That means your age must also be atleast above 25. In that case you can make good choice forlove marriage. If you want to get married earlier you should trust arranged marrige.Well that was only about the 'adjustment' part between couples. With arranged marrige you get lot of other benifits like social acceptance.family help from both sides which can be useful in case of trouble.
Unless you are too sure of yourself and have minimal social needs... I consider arranged marrige as better.Ultimately it comes down to what you value more. If you are in love with someone, it is sure that you reach to a point only after making few promises. And one of them is to be together lifelong. Now it depends whether you value your words or social acceptance etc.
Both needs Time, Understanding & friendship to be successful. To me what matters most is the union of two hearts.It doesn't matter whether its decided by our parents or by our self.."requirements" have changed and so the core concept ofmarriage . It is better to take decisions taking parents into confidence.There are many permutations and combinations for the types of possible reasons for contiuation of amarriage or divorce in both cases...
But two special factors get overlooked in general.
1) In arranged marriages due to orthodox background or whatever.Unnecessary ego clash chances don't arise.Eo is the biggest culprit in marriages today.smallest thing can be taken as an offence or a big issue can be taken in a good spirit as well due to good understanding.
2) In love marriages,there are little higher divorce rates due to raised expectations from a lover. During heights of romance it all looks very good,but later on it can create gap in a good understanding. It is due to reason of mismatch of higher expectations and lesser realizations, causing hurt.
Let me turn the discussion to a specific case:
Lets say there is a modern boy and modern girl. (By 'modern' I mean 'not orthodox').
Their marriage can happen two ways:
1. Arranged marriage
2. They have romance, dating for couple of years and then get married.
How do you think these different ways will change their relations after marriage.
My Views:
I personally think when they are in love- they still know each other faults- but Love is blind- and they love each others faults too. But aftermarriage they realize that their partner's fault is really a fault, and find it difficult to handle. While in arranged marriage for the same couple- they comes with a 'tolerant attitude' and that make it little easier for them to handle each others' fault.
If you are talking about India , Pakistan , Bangladesh , Afghanistan (and other muslim countries) , then arranged marriage seem to be successful (not always successful usually though) because , when the couple don't have the freedom to even select or date with the one whom they prefer , then , certainly , they also don't have the freedom to end a 'broken'relationship.If dragging a relationship till the couples die is called a successful relationship , then most of the marriages in these countries are a success.
There can be a love marriage with the acceptance of society and elders. Then all the good points of both arranged and love marriage will combine in that relationship. Only thing is that parents should be a little bit less concerned about their likes and dislikes and honor the children’s happiness .Also, the concept of arrangemarriage would have been decided by many people after considering both positives and negatives. I think we should respect that.Now, let’s see what we mean bylove marriage. You like a person and you fall in love. 90% of the time, external beauty will influence your decision on falling in love. And I don’t know why this can’t happen in arrange marriage . Because, if you are not attracted towards other person’s appearances – you would anyway say No. For other 10% people, it will not make any difference either way. Because other facts of a person can be known irrespective of love/arrangemarriage.
One advantage of love marriage is, if you don’t like the other person after sometime (before marriage), you can break-up and move forward. But, this will put lot of damage in both the people’s life including their family people.
Lastly, Don’t forget – arrange marriage is out culture. If you have a choice, you should support our culture and not others.
In today’s world, I would propagate love marriage over arranged marriage .
Reasons
1. Backgrounds are overlooked by the many when considering behavior
2. Arranged was ok in conventional times when a woman was an instrument to do service to her master. In today’s world and with the equality prevailing and with dual income sustenance catching on ,an arranged marriage may live on as a surprise without compromise
3. Love marriage gives a chance for two mature adults to see each other well enough from the outside to the inside. They cant blame any one for their failure to make it work.
4. Love marriage ensure equal compromise and adjustments from changing nappies to cooking food. There are no forces from outside taking the load on themselves to ensure that a woman remains a woman and a a man remains a man
5. Genetically speaking ,a mixed combination is far better than a regular stream union for the el for the elimination of hereditary related diseases
6. Expenses in their union is not as a rule heavy on one gender. Dowry is eliminated and both start on a equal footing .
7. Promotes national integration to some extent .
8. Marriages are made in heaven between pairs and not intermediaries who decide on fixed mindsets .
The following conditions need to be complied to promote the concept of Love marriage.
1. One should be mature enough to take the step. Fools rush in where angels fear to tread.
2. Interference from outside needs to be eliminated if it affects the selection process.
Advices may be taken.
3. Future related to the offspring and his/her following needs to be clear.
4. It should not be an event of convenience or just a process which needs to be follo
You can't plan these things:
In other words, It is not a choice. If you fall in love, you should marry him/her. Arranged marriage is sort of a backup plan, just in case you were not able to find a match by yourself. Then the network of relatives and friends can be relied upon to find a suitable match for you. On the one hand arranged matches can be more preferable in a joint family kind of a setup since your match will most likely be someone who is already familiar with the customs of your extended family and would be more likely to adjust better. But still, the finer points of your partners character are hard to find out during the brief engagement/courtship period. Then you are stuck for life. Per se, there is nothing evil about this custom. Its just like a dating service. You meet several boys/gals, talk a little, first impressions count a lot, and then if you are interested, then things are taken to the next level. The biggest danger in an arranged marriage in my opinion is you have no idea beforehand how the sex is going to be. You can just hope for the best.
Love is one great feeling,some great person said, "love without marriage is not immoral, but marriage with out love is immoral".
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