This is my first ever article I write on boddunan about one secrets of life .Yeah..That is about secret behond positive thinking.I think  this  will be my one of best postings in boddunan. Apart from this,the article has nice scenario explaining “why you should think positively??”.Perhaps  I believe that u will also develop the habit of positive thinking.

People surrounding me always been reading and hearing people saying “Think positive” . Yes I do think positive but I never knew the exact reason why one should think positive. I think positive because it makes me feel better. This is how I look at it. Suppose there are two people aspiring to reach their destinations. They both start at a point A and have to get to point B. One of them is very positive about the results and the other one is all pessimistic about the results. In most of the cases we spend like 90% of the time to get to the destination and stay at the destination for like 10% of the time and then the next journey begins. One who is thinking positive about the destination is all happy during the journey. His mind just knows that it will gets what it wants. He is cheerful all the time. The negative person is continously telling himself “i wont be able to get to the destination, there are so many problems in life , Life sucks”. At this point none of them knws for sure whether they will get to their destination. But the positive person had made 90% of his life already happy . It doesnt matter whether he will get to the destination, he has already succeeded. Lets see how Mr Negative is doing . He is thinking only about negative things. His 90% of life is already screwed thinking crap and negative thoughts about the destination. Now even if he gets to his destination, he is a failure. So by thinking positive you can surely make 90% of your life better if not 100%.
I knew all this but what I didn’t know was the Law Of Affinity, which says similar incidents attract each other. One who is thinking positive is attracting only positive incidents like meeting some nice peple on the way, beautiful things and more learning. This negative person is having all negative thoughts and attracting similar negative incidents like flat tire, accidents and other unpleasant events which makes his belief stronger that Life sucks.

Sometimes I used to have arguments with some pessimist people . They would say that I think positive because my life has been full of positive events and I havnt seen many hardships in my life. They think negative because of what they have seen in their lives. People have left comments on one of the posts saying the same thing. I used to think “Yes they are right. Probably I have seen mostly positive things in my life so I am a positive person” . Now I realize that I was not thinking positive because positive things happen in my life instead I think positive so I attract positive incidents and life has been all full of positive events. Either the incident was positive or my way of looking at it was positive. Both the things make life beautiful. Everybody gets his share of problems and happiness. But when we face some problem in life like loss of job, loss of a dear one and we continuously think of these negative events of our life we are indeed attracting more such negative incidents making our life worse. This is the reason that people who crib like ” I have no money, I dont have a good job , my life sucks , my partner doesnt love me ” continue to attract negative incidents and continue to crib throughout their lives.
This is not some philosphy but there is whole science behind this law of affinity. I dont want to stretch this post but the words you say has lotta impact on how you feel and what incidents you are attracting. You have no idea how much power the words you speak have. When you say “I m tired ” , that itself saps off your energy. When you says “Not doing grt man ” , smile goes off fro your face .When you say “Life sucks” , it indeed start sucking. When I say “Life is Beautiful” , it indeed becomes beautiful.
Even today I cant think of one good reason why one should think negative or say negative words. For some people positive thinking comes naturally but other can always and always make concious effort to think positive and hence make life more beautiful.

Life is beautiful and will always be fine...

This anonymous word "GAP".I have seen it in many T-shirts..What is this???

GAP is a term I have coined and it stands for Guy or a Girl with Attitude Problem. Here is a management story and the climax is open for discussion.

A and B are working for a company and A terms B a GAP. Given below are the reasons for it.

a) Personal – Sometime back, B passed a sportive comment about A in front of others and A did not like it. A resorts to passing degrading personal comments about B in front of others. B was sportive enough to brush them off subtly. A becomes furious and the grudge volcano in him starts boiling.

b) Professional – B reports to A and A is the authoriative person to take decision in his project. B suggests certain changes to the process and substantiates the same with necessary facts and details. A does not understand this and snubs B. After a while, A finds that B is correct and makes changes and takes credit for the same. A also thinks that B may overtake him and by this time, the grudge volcano in him is ready to explode.

c) Cheap - A commands B to do a personal job for him. B refuses it. A explains B how one should do all this to climb up the corporate ladder et all. B listens patiently and says to A that he does not want to climb up the ladder at all if he had to resort to cheap ways. The grudge volcano explodes and the climax is, B is termed a 

The God is standing in front of me & I was trying to convince him, Like I do with my boss, Neither a quarrel nor an attitude of enemy; it's just the effort to make others understand my point of view! So I did it with the God also... God & I were face to face.. & I was trying to convince him that, “dear God you've created lots of hurdles to earn the 'Gyan'! don't you think so?

After spending half of our life we get realized that we actually wasted our lives. We were trying to grab those things which are like crap!" God was smiling with smirk on his face, like lord Krishna use to looks in every image.

Then I told god "no god it's not ending here, after this realization the next complex comes to my mind that, to grab these crap, or to entertain our selves, or for any other reason, we damaged Nature, we add fuel to Global warming, we did harmful things to men & coming generations as well.? God was absolutely shocked! "Our realization is not enough to make these losses compensate? lots of species of trees, birds, animals, etc. are about to vanish, many of them are already gone...

If my realization is coming after anybody?s death; then that’s also a Crap!  Means before & after this realization we are earning only crab! God please give us 'Gyan' before we create mess anymore!" And you know what I make God to think about it. He came with smirk, but went with commitment on his face.  No matter though it was a Dream!!!

Mother tongue is one’s native language. It is the language that a child learns to speak first. He gains the knowledge of things around him through this. The early education of any child is carried out through it. But later he may have to learn things in a language that is suitable to the occasion.

The question of the medium of instruction arises in the field of higher education. As higher levels of education a student has to learn different subjects. He has to understand them thoroughly if the medium of instruction is his mother tongue this purpose is well fulfilled. One can express one’s ideas in one’s mother tongue better than in any other language. The teacher can also do well in his mother tongue. He can drive home any point with ease. The student can also follow him. Thus he has a thorough grip on the subject. With this view regional languages have been made the media of instruction.

In the pre-independence days English served as the medium of instruction. It made things difficult for many of the native students. After independence and formation of linguistic states regional languages are given prominence. Nowadays they are the medium of instruction even at post-graduation level.

There are, however many difficulties with regional languages as media of instruction. They are not well developed languages. Adequate textbooks are not available in these. Necessary vocabulary is not there. Books dealing with science and technology are almost written in international languages like English. A student has to depend on English for higher knowledge. Also, there are a number of regional languages. Each state in India has its own medium of instruction in schools and colleges. One who is educated in one state can not pursue further education in another state. A common medium throughout the nation will be beneficial to all. At present there is no other language that can replace English in this regard.

Efforts are being made to enrich the regional languages. Textbooks are being written in regional languages. It will take time for these languages to catch up with the development in the fields of science and technology. One way out is to use the scientific terminology, as it is, in regional languages also. This will help the student a lot.