What if wife earns more

by Gulshan Kumar Ajmani in Topics of Interest

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Gulshan Kumar Ajmani

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12 years ago

#326618

Husband wife relation is very touchy and even for one lie can break the relation. So we should not hide anything.

Saying 'we should not hide anything' is easy. But in practical life, it is difficult to follow. Such statements are fine for films and TV shows. But that can really spoil the relation unless one is overtly mature to forgive and forget.

I agree. There cannot be too much transparency. You need divulge only such facts as are relevant.

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Thank you said by: Abhijit Dnyaneshwar Bangal, yuddandisivasubramanyam

Abhijit Dnyaneshwar Bangal

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12 years ago

#326623

Husband wife relation is very touchy and even for one lie can break the relation. So we should not hide anything.

Saying 'we should not hide anything' is easy. But in practical life, it is difficult to follow. Such statements are fine for films and TV shows. But that can really spoil the relation unless one is overtly mature to forgive and forget.

I agree. There cannot be too much transparency. You need divulge only such facts as are relevant.

Exactly. On the contrary, our friends know more about us (secrets and important things) more than our family members. So, the family knows only some of the things, but transparency can be achieved only through best friends, not any family member.

usha manohar

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12 years ago

#326724

Many counselors and analysts advise space within a marriage or a relationship, since it strengthens the bond. Doing things on your own and pursuing different hobbies is good for a marriage.Many people go for holidays with friends or by themselves...

Pay no mind to those who talk behind your back, it simply means that you are two steps ahead !!!

Abhijit Dnyaneshwar Bangal

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12 years ago

#326776

Many counselors and analysts advise space within a marriage or a relationship, since it strengthens the bond. Doing things on your own and pursuing different hobbies is good for a marriage.Many people go for holidays with friends or by themselves...

However close a person is, one always needs his private space from the others. The counselors just emphasize this need to be alone at times. No relationship can be totally transparent, in my opinion.

Sharmistha Banerjee

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12 years ago

#327102

If there is a better understanding between husband and wife then there may not be any problem.

Sharmistha Banerjee

Thank you said by: yuddandisivasubramanyam

usha manohar

704 19.5k 126.1k

12 years ago

#327126

Many counselors and analysts advise space within a marriage or a relationship, since it strengthens the bond. Doing things on your own and pursuing different hobbies is good for a marriage.Many people go for holidays with friends or by themselves...

However close a person is, one always needs his private space from the others. The counselors just emphasize this need to be alone at times. No relationship can be totally transparent, in my opinion.

I too would think so, for some reason or the other we tend to keep certain things to ourselves...

Pay no mind to those who talk behind your back, it simply means that you are two steps ahead !!!

Abhijit Dnyaneshwar Bangal

79 2.36k 12.7k

12 years ago

#327144

Many counselors and analysts advise space within a marriage or a relationship, since it strengthens the bond. Doing things on your own and pursuing different hobbies is good for a marriage.Many people go for holidays with friends or by themselves...

However close a person is, one always needs his private space from the others. The counselors just emphasize this need to be alone at times. No relationship can be totally transparent, in my opinion.

I too would think so, for some reason or the other we tend to keep certain things to ourselves...

I don't think there's anything wrong in keeping things unto oneself, if it is going to keep the relation going. After all, exposing everything about oneself and hoping to keep the bond going are two swords that can never be kept in one place.

Thank you said by: yuddandisivasubramanyam

yuddandisivasubramanyam

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12 years ago

#327161

earning is based on your family requirement. if possible avoid and maintain the home and children. the very vital role of wife is to help in maintain family tradition and culture. no ego should come on the way. money can buy bed,not sleep. live formeach other insecurity is the thought of negative mind.

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Abhijit Dnyaneshwar Bangal

79 2.36k 12.7k

12 years ago

#327166

earning is based on your family requirement. if possible avoid and maintain the home and children. the very vital role of wife is to help in maintain family tradition and culture. no ego should come on the way. money can buy bed,not sleep. live formeach other insecurity is the thought of negative mind.

In India, even now, the women have to basically look after the house. The culture is still prevalent in many parts of the country. The people with conventional thinking think on these lines. But that's good in one sense. The women can be safe at home these days.

Thank you said by: yuddandisivasubramanyam

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