Can presence hurt you?

only absence can hurt :evil:

Neither presence nor absence hurts me. This is only adsense that hurts me a lot. This has become absent from my blogs.

Let me quote one instance where a presence can hurt.

Suppose 2 lovers parted due to circumstances.....they got married and years after, they meet. Will they feel happy or sad??? I am sure, presence will be a hurting one. What do you say? :evil: :evil: :evil:

Let me quote one instance where a presence can hurt.

Suppose 2 lovers parted due to circumstances.....they got married and years after, they meet. Will they feel happy or sad??? I am sure, presence will be a hurting one. What do you say? :evil: :evil: :evil:

I don't know what will happen but i have seen in the films they feel sad when they meet after getting married with someone else. :laugh:

In films any thing is possible SJ, in reality they will not even recognize each other and never let others know that they even knew each other.

Let me quote one instance where a presence can hurt.

Suppose 2 lovers parted due to circumstances.....they got married and years after, they meet. Will they feel happy or sad??? I am sure, presence will be a hurting one. What do you say? :evil: :evil: :evil:

I don't know what will happen but i have seen in the films they feel sad when they meet after getting married with someone else. :laugh:

Let us ask some lost lover :)
Is there anyone here

I have no such experience.Let us wait for some young stars.

I have lost two already and meet them often but never feel bad.

I am saying about real love stories, not frustrations and I do believe that real love happens only once in life. :evil:
If you can't win it, will its presence later in any phase of your life, can't it hurt you?

Another instance...
Suppose you love some one very dearly, but can't win it because of your family situations and you are trying to avoid her, though not desiring in mind. If so, won't that presence hurt you? :evil: :evil: :evil:


I am on leave.....so keep discussing, till I return..... :P

No one has discussed this topic in my absence...
Was 'my presence really hurting you?" B) B) B) :(

Yes Sandhya after your absence less participation in forum you can see that clearly.

I have no reason to feel bad or good for any body's present or absent. This is their choice or priority.

I also agree with you sunil. They wont give us anything but when closely relations is not there means I will hurt definetely.

In films any thing is possible SJ, in reality they will not even recognize each other and never let others know that they even knew each other.

Absolutely practically most of people don't recognise each other if they meet in reality after marriage that may raise a problem if they do so. :laugh:

But my case is different I recon them both my two ex girl friends who visit us some time while they are in India, one of them is married and other one still unmarried. My wife knows them both.

But my case is different I recon them both my two ex girl friends who visit us some time while they are in India, one of them is married and other one still unmarried. My wife knows them both.

You wife might be knowing them but i know you won't have tell her that they were your girlfriends. :woohoo:

But my case is different I recon them both my two ex girl friends who visit us some time while they are in India, one of them is married and other one still unmarried. My wife knows them both.

You wife might be knowing them but i know you won't have tell her that they were your girlfriends. :woohoo:

Sure they both were my batch mates in Management and another in Engineering. My wife knows it well. But one lives in UK and other in US, come rarely to India.

[quote]Sanjeev Gupta wrote:
suni51 wrote:
But my case is different I recon them both my two ex girl friends who visit us some time while they are in India, one of them is married and other one still unmarried. My wife knows them both.


You wife might be knowing them but i know you won't have tell her that they were your girlfriends.

Sure they both were my batch mates in Management and another in Engineering. My wife knows it well. But one lives in U and other in US, come rarely to India.[/quote]
It means that you have a good friendship still now.

As long as this is limited to friendship there is no harm, I am still friends with them.

But my case is different I recon them both my two ex girl friends who visit us some time while they are in India, one of them is married and other one still unmarried. My wife knows them both.

You wife might be knowing them but i know you won't have tell her that they were your girlfriends. :woohoo:

Sure they both were my batch mates in Management and another in Engineering. My wife knows it well. But one lives in UK and other in US, come rarely to India.

Imagine what would have happened if they were not been abroad. :woohoo: