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I love to stay calm, even if I am disappointed

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Whatever is the situation I never retaliate because I am trained that way. however, I try to find a way to solve my problem in any case. What do you do in such a position friends?

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Dealing a problem needs patience rather than silence as disappointment travels with us like a shadow. :dry: :)


But sometimes by our being silent people think us to be weak.I have personally observed it.Sonetime we need agression too. :)
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yes, Even i also experience it . by being silence people think not only weak and they even thing we are bad and we are not respecting them
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Thinking over it again and again can give you a better solution.So,its better to be calm and compose and think to get the matter solved.
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yes, Even i also experience it . by being silence people think not only weak and they even thing we are bad and we are not respecting them


Imagine if someone is abusing you and you still stay calm won't he think that as you are weaker than him that's why you are not retaliating him. :)
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yes, Even i also experience it . by being silence people think not only weak and they even thing we are bad and we are not respecting them


Imagine if someone is abusing you and you still stay calm won't he think that as you are weaker than him that's why you are not retaliating him. :)


In such situation we cannt judge the capability of the person and without knowing even if we retaliate the consequences may be very severe. But being patience doesnt mean being calm, you have to wait for the right oppurtunity instant of flaring up on them instantly. I hope you got my point. ;) :)
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Losing calm does not help. This aggravates problem. Disappointment results from frustration of expectation. In such case, it is necessary first to see whether your expectation is reasonable and viable. If so, see what and where went wrong. If necessary, seek an expert's or well wishers's advice. Merely getting sad and unhappy does not help.
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Yes I also love to stay calm when I am disappointed this may solve problem with out rising it.
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Losing calm does not help. This aggravates problem. Disappointment results from frustration of expectation. In such case, it is necessary first to see whether your expectation is reasonable and viable. If so, see what and where went wrong. If necessary, seek an expert's or well wishers's advice. Merely getting sad and unhappy does not help.


Absolutely correct,Gulshanji! But we human beings after all and making a staement of this kind is easier than practising it in the true sense!
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U
You are right Chinmay da, some times the silence is the best answer of all questions. This is so simple to throw a small stone in to the pond but the after effects are so obvious.
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You are right Chinmay da, some times the silence is the best answer of all questions. This is so simple to throw a small stone in to the pond but the after effects are so obvious.


So you have broken your silence after a long..hehehe... :laugh:
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We are only talking way of life SJ, there is nothing like breaking any thing. There is nothing to disclose or keep hidden.
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We are only talking way of life SJ, there is nothing like breaking any thing. There is nothing to disclose or keep hidden.


I said it because you have been active here after long time looks as if you forget us..hehehe.. :woohoo:
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We are only talking way of life SJ, there is nothing like breaking any thing. There is nothing to disclose or keep hidden.


I said it because you have been active here after long time looks as if you forget us..hehehe.. :woohoo:

Oh I was too busy offline sj, you know we are packing off to leave Bangalore for ever.
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Where is your next destination Suny? :)

For the time being I am off to NCR, later I am joining my loved ones with wife in Australia.
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I have a permanent Visa and am qualified to work and stay there as long as I want. I will see if I want to stay there for longer time. But not right away.
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I have a permanent Visa and am qualified to work and stay there as long as I want. I will see if I want to stay there for longer time. But not right away.


For how many year you have to stay in Foreign,to get permanent Visa?
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I love to be calm and I get it by imaging that my love is trying to console me by hugging me
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Even I love to stay calm when i am disappointed but some situations makes me to raise up and talk
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