Japanese population is declined while India having population explosion

Kalyani Nandurkar wrote:

vijay wrote:

The issue was always clear to me. But it is stil not clear to you especially the difference between spamming and who decides likeable or not. You sure seen to hv a grudge against professors.

Only when they have a disagreeable temperament for everything and try to meddle with policies of the website and thus try to encourage spammers like Babu. You are clearly crossing the line of what is acceptable and what is not by questioning even the slightest of our workings. If you do not like that, its your problem, we won't miss you. You want to verify the likeable posts etc. write to admin, I will provide you with his personal email id in case you do not have it.

I am really sad to hear from kalyani sir that i am a spammer i was not expecting from you sir. U said me i stopped, but you described me as spammer of boddunan site, i am really sad because i really felt this site as my family and whereas about liking each and every post well i will say that i was reading every comments and as a gesture of appreciation i was liking the post and as you suggested i stopped liking post. But i am really feeling low because i was really not excepting from you kalyani sir. 

Babu saroj wrote:

Kalyani Nandurkar wrote:

vijay wrote:

The issue was always clear to me. But it is stil not clear to you especially the difference between spamming and who decides likeable or not. You sure seen to hv a grudge against professors.

Only when they have a disagreeable temperament for everything and try to meddle with policies of the website and thus try to encourage spammers like Babu. You are clearly crossing the line of what is acceptable and what is not by questioning even the slightest of our workings. If you do not like that, its your problem, we won't miss you. You want to verify the likeable posts etc. write to admin, I will provide you with his personal email id in case you do not have it.

I am really sad to hear from kalyani sir that i am a spammer i was not expecting from you sir. U said me i stopped, but you described me as spammer of boddunan site, i am really sad because i really felt this site as my family and whereas about liking each and every post well i will say that i was reading every comments and as a gesture of appreciation i was liking the post and as you suggested i stopped liking post. But i am really feeling low because i was really not excepting from you kalyani sir. 

 

Sorry for butting in ! What you did was spamming and as a moderator Kalyani has corrected you, so take a balanced view and make sure you dont repeat the mistake, there ends the matter, no need to feel low or high since she is doing her job ...By the way, we all have made mistakes and have been corrected by moderators from time to time, so again no need to feel low , since it is part and parcel of a discussion site ! 

Babu do not lose heart. Keep participating. Learn to face bullies.

vijay wrote:

Who decides a likeable reply is not likeable? 

I like most of your replies but I would not like them all because that will give me a point each and nothing to you. The like button here is not like a Like button on FB where you do it to make your presence felt. If you felt the answer was likable what stopped you to like that one? Call me a bully if you like but please do not support spammers.

suni51 wrote:

vijay wrote:

Who decides a likeable reply is not likeable? 

I like most of your replies but I would not like them all because that will give me a point each and nothing to you. The like button here is not like a Like button on FB where you do it to make your presence felt. If you felt the answer was likable what stopped you to like that one? Call me a bully if you like but please do not support spammers.

 

Intent counts. When I click on a " like", it means i'm saying the other member's view is exactly the same or almost  the same as that of mine. Never to boost my points. For example, many moderators and some senior members felt that a particular member's intent is to build up his or her points. This exactly coincides with my view. in such cases, I click on LIKES of all those members' threads.

@rambabu thanks for understanding my point, when someone likes my posts (which in most cases are nothing much) I feel like giving him a dislike in return unless I have done some thing really good and deserve that LIKE. If someone is clicking at like button constantly sending mails to my main mail box that diverts my attention.

I agree with you Sunil. As far as I'm concerned, I always click the Like button for the reasons i mentioned above. I also agree with you, our Mail Boxes are filled with unreasonable mails which disgusts me.

rambabu wrote:

I agree with you Sunil. As far as I'm concerned, I always click the Like button for the reasons i mentioned above. I also agree with you, our Mail Boxes are filled with unreasonable mails which disgusts me.

Sir just end the topic, comment on the subject of the post 

 

Intent does not counter spam and rambabu himself was guilty of spamming not a few weeks ago...what is spam to Babu  is spam to the rest of us as well...it is futile to justify oneself and say ones intent is greater than other.

usha manohar wrote:

Intent does not counter spam and rambabu himself was guilty of spamming not a few weeks ago...what is spam to Babu  is spam to the rest of us as well...it is futile to justify oneself and say ones intent is greater than other.

A Baseless allegation. Kindly prove it.

Babu saroj wrote:

rambabu wrote:

I agree with you Sunil. As far as I'm concerned, I always click the Like button for the reasons i mentioned above. I also agree with you, our Mail Boxes are filled with unreasonable mails which disgusts me.

Sir just end the topic, comment on the subject of the post 

 

This particular topic is now closed so please get back to the original topic, so far if you have learned anything from it, no issues. However, if you do it again, be ready to face the bullies (SIC)

Kalyani Nandurkar wrote:

Babu saroj wrote:

rambabu wrote:

I agree with you Sunil. As far as I'm concerned, I always click the Like button for the reasons i mentioned above. I also agree with you, our Mail Boxes are filled with unreasonable mails which disgusts me.

Sir just end the topic, comment on the subject of the post 

This particular topic is now closed so please get back to the original topic, so far if you have learned anything from it, no issues. However, if you do it again, be ready to face the bullies (SIC)

are you threatening me just because you are editor of this site. i am very poor sir if you suspend my account then i have to search for new online job, that's why i am not saying anything, i am sorry sir please forgive me for my deed. 

Babu saroj wrote:

Kalyani Nandurkar wrote:

Babu saroj wrote:

rambabu wrote:

I agree with you Sunil. As far as I'm concerned, I always click the Like button for the reasons i mentioned above. I also agree with you, our Mail Boxes are filled with unreasonable mails which disgusts me.

Sir just end the topic, comment on the subject of the post 

This particular topic is now closed so please get back to the original topic, so far if you have learned anything from it, no issues. However, if you do it again, be ready to face the bullies (SIC)

are you threatening me just because you are editor of this site. i am very poor sir if you suspend my account then i have to search for new online job, that's why i am not saying anything, i am sorry sir please forgive me for my deed. 

 

Don't be so melodramatic, no one is threatening you and why do you keep calling me sir? I am a lady for heaven's sake, if you cannot even make that out from the way people address me or refer to me here, you have a lot to learn. Or may be our esteemed professor can help you with that!

Kalyani Nandurkar wrote:

Babu saroj wrote:

Kalyani Nandurkar wrote:

Babu saroj wrote:

rambabu wrote:

I agree with you Sunil. As far as I'm concerned, I always click the Like button for the reasons i mentioned above. I also agree with you, our Mail Boxes are filled with unreasonable mails which disgusts me.

Sir just end the topic, comment on the subject of the post 

This particular topic is now closed so please get back to the original topic, so far if you have learned anything from it, no issues. However, if you do it again, be ready to face the bullies (SIC)

are you threatening me just because you are editor of this site. i am very poor sir if you suspend my account then i have to search for new online job, that's why i am not saying anything, i am sorry sir please forgive me for my deed. 

Don't be so melodramatic, no one is threatening you and why do you keep calling me sir? I am a lady for heaven's sake, if you cannot even make that out from the way people address me or refer to me here, you have a lot to learn. Or may be our esteemed professor can help you with that!

you are woman today i came to know. i am sorry actually in my every comment which i have commented on you i have called you sir because i thought that you are man. i am really sorry i hope you don't mind. sorry, one more thing if in future if i did something wrong please convey it to me first rather than commenting on anyone's post my email-id is bsaroj2015@gmail.com. this is for all members and especially to editor. email me i will try every possibility to rectify my mistakes  

 Thanks to moderators for mentioning this matter here. All active members of this site are trying to increase their points maximum. Giving like is an easiest way to earn points. If I like the postings of others, I always click the like button. In facebook also I always click on the like button to encourage others. Giving like to others post is considered as spam, I am also going to reduce this activity of mine.

Jincy Aby wrote:

 Thanks to moderators for mentioning this matter here. All active members of this site are trying to increase their points maximum. Giving like is an easiest way to earn points. If I like the postings of others, I always click the like button. In facebook also I always click on the like button to encourage others. Giving like to others post is considered as spam, I am also going to reduce this activity of mine.

Jincy, clicking on Like button if you really like a post or that post is really something that should be applauded., there is no harm in clicking Like. But here, the issue was raised because the member was clicking like on each and every post in each and every thread. Do you digest the fact that each and every post here must be likeable?

Jincy Aby wrote:

 Thanks to moderators for mentioning this matter here. All active members of this site are trying to increase their points maximum. Giving like is an easiest way to earn points. If I like the postings of others, I always click the like button. In facebook also I always click on the like button to encourage others. Giving like to others post is considered as spam, I am also going to reduce this activity of mine.

yeah yesterday only i came to know that liking each and every post is consider as spam and as the moderators said me, i stopped doing that and i have concentrated more writing rather than just liking the comments.

my suggestion to the editors and moderators is that if they think that a particular member is misusing or doing something wrong then they should convey it to that member first by sending him/her e-mails. and if then also he/she is continuing to do that then the editors and moderators should comment on any others post.

This is a forum where members discuss things openly, not a secret organisation ...When you make a mistake you should have the grace to accept rather than deny and say you have never done it, however, I appreciate Babu for having admitted and also being a new member it is understandable that he may not have known what constitutes to spam here !

What a infructuous and waste of time discussion, that digressed from the main topic. Why are we burdened with it ?. If a member is spamming write to him separately and delete his points.

Let me carry on , The indian population was 33 crores in 1947 and is now 125 crores. Partly this is due to the general feeling its good to have children and the failure of the authorities. Remember while riding a horse a reinan whip is required and population of India cannot be controlled without a rein and whip. 

If u read between lines my intention was to inculcate a sense of balance in the moderator's language which most of the time is threatening. A moderator has to be neutral and persuasive and mentoring. Bias cannot be a basis of advice. You also give advice from time to time but do not bully or threaten. Rambabu can do it for he is not a moderator.